Siyaqonda: i-nostalgia ...

Bonke abantu bathanda ukukhumbula okudlulileyo. Omnye uyonwabile ngeemkumbulo zakhe, kodwa umntu uhlala edabuka, kuba ngaphambi kokuba kube ngcono. Bathi umntu unikwe i-nostalgia. Kuthetha ukuthini oku?

Malunga nekota

Kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba eli gama linemvelaphi yangaphandle. Igama elithi "Nostalgia" ligama lesiGrike ngokuthi, ngokufaka izitha ezimbini, zenze enye, kwaye ekuguquleleni kuthetha "ukuhlala ekhaya (indawo yokuhlala)". Ngokwenza oko, le ngcamango yaziswa ngumgqirha waseSweden xa ehlola isifo esimangalisa kumajoni kumazwe angaphandle. Kwakunomdla ukuba ekubuyeni ezindaweni zabo zokuzalwa, la madoda apheliswe ngokupheleleyo ekuguleni kwabo, nangona iintsuku ezimbalwa ezedlule kubonakala ukuba umntu uya kupheka kancane, kwaye umphumo wobomi bakhe awuphepheki. Kwakuqala ukususela kweso sihlandlo ukuba i-nostalgia ithathwa njengesifo se-psyche, apho abaninzi abafudukayo behlupheka, abantu abaye bashiya ilizwe labo lasemhlabeni ngonaphakade.

Utshintsho

Kamva, xa lesi "sifo" saqala ukuba nesithakazelo soseninzi ngakumbi nangakumbi, kwavela utshintsho oluthile. Ngoku kuthethwa ukuba i-nostalgia ayilangazelela indawo yokuhlala, kodwa ngenxa yexesha layo elidlulileyo. Emva koko, ezininzi izigulane azikhumbulanga naluphi na uhlobo lomhlaba, oko kukuthi yonke into enxulumene nobuntwana, ubuntsha, ubutsha, njll. "Amaxesha amahle." Kuyilangazelela lakho elidlulileyo, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba lidlula phi.

Malunga nezizathu

Kutheni abantu beqala ukuzithoba ngokuzithoba? Kwenzeka nini le nto ngokuqhelekileyo? Emva koko, ubudala besi sifo abugqithwanga. Ukulangazelela ixesha elidlulileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kubangelwa ngabantu abadala, kunye nabantu abodwa. Kuphela xa kukho ixesha lokuzikhumbuza kwiingcinga, banokuqala ukuhlushwa umntu. Ukuba usemncinci, akahlali ehleli. Akunaso ixesha lokuzifumana. Kuyafana nangomntu ohlala ejikelezwe ngabantu. Ukuba uhlala ehamba phambili, ukunyaniseka kwexesha elidlulileyo alinaso ixesha lokumfumana.

Abantu abadala

Ulutsha olutsha lukholelwa ukuba namhlanje kuphila kangcono kunaphambili. Kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile oogogo bahlale bekhumbula ubuncinci babo, okwakungenasiphelo. Kutheni banalo i-USSR, kuba sele namhlanje iimbali-mlando zisithi ngaloo nto kwakunzima ukuhlala? Lapha i ngcaciso ilula. Naluphi na ulutsha olunzima, luya kuhlala luhlala luntwini elona lihle kakhulu, lixesha elimnandi lobomi. Kwakungekho ngemali okanye ukufumaneka kwezinto eziphathekayo. Yonke into malunga nomoya womphefumlo xa kubonakala ukuba yonke into ihamba phambili, indlela enkulu ebomvu kwaye ebomvu ivulekile, kwaye umntu ugcwele amandla namandla. "Babushkina" i-Soviet nostalgia - imemori yolutsha kunye neentlobo zayo, iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Kukhuselekile ukuthetha ukuba emva kwexeshana, ulutsha lwangoku luya kucinga ngethuba lexesha, linike ezinye izinto ezikhethekileyo, nangona kukho ubunzima balobu bomi. Oku kungukuthi - ezi zikhumbuzo ezintle ofuna ukuzenza kuzo, nangona ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu.