Imibuzo emithathu eyenza imbono yehlabathi: intsingiselo yobomi nenjongo, malunga noncedo, indlela yokufunda kwimpazamo

Sawubona, bafundi abathandekayo! Kule nqaku, ndingathanda ukuthetha ngeengcamango ezintle ezifihlakeleyo ezinempembelelo enkulu endleleni yokuphila yabantu abaninzi. Nangona zicacile, bambalwa abantu bayabuza imibuzo yabasendulo bamandulo. Iimeko ezixakekayo zivela: nangona ukuphikisana kucacile, akukho mntu uyayibona, ekubeni igunya lomthombo liphezulu kakhulu.

Iimpazamo ezintathu

Ngoko, namhlanje siza kuthetha ngeendlela zokufezekisa injongo yokuphila (intsingiselo yobomi); IBhayibhile ithi "ukujongana nabanye njengoko ufuna ukuba benze kuwe"; Yaye ngubani obeka i-Oskie "imfundiso ngezinye iimpazamo zabantu." Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezi zifundo ezintathu ziyaziwa wonke umntu, kuba "zikhonjiswe entloko" kwi-diapers. Ewe, makhe siqale ngendlela.

Injongo yobomi

Njengoko uyazi, nayiphi na umntu unomdla othile wehlabathi, ofuna ukufezekisa kuzo zonke iindleko. Ngoko, abanye bafuna ukutshintsha indawo yabo yokuhlala; Abanye - ukuthenga into ebiza (okanye engekho); Okwesithathu ukufumana into. Ezinye iimithombo zithetha ukuba ukuba intsingiselo yobomi ayinakubekwa ngaphandle ngaphandle kodwa ivela emphefumlweni, ngoko ke indlela eya kufezekiswa kuyo akufuneki kubekho nayiphi na imiqobo ebalulekileyo. Lo mbono, umzekelo, ubanjwe nguDmitry Verishchagin kwinqaku leencwadi zakhe ezinikezelwe ngamandla kunye nophuhliso lwolwazi. Ngokomxholo, yonke into iyandila ingqiqo: ukunyakaza ngendlela elungileyo (eselungisiweyo, i-karmic - ikholelwa kuyo nayiphi na into) ibangela uvuyo emphefumlweni, ukwanda kwinqanaba lobunzima. Ngokomzekelo, indlela ekhethiweyo kuthi, ehlanganiswe kumaphepha e-My Estate resource, yiloo nto. Xa umlandela, amandla okuphila ayabulala okhiye, kwaye ihlabathi linceda ukuxazulula iingxaki ezivela. Oku kungenxa yokuba intsingiselo yento yonke ifumaneka. Inomdla womntu unokungafani, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuphulaphula ukuhleka komphefumlo wakho.

Ngoko ke, izithintelo ezahlukeneyo kunye nobunzima zifanekisela impazamo. Ihlabathi ngokwayo lisitshela ukuba indlela engalunganga, kodwa umfokazi, obekwe ngumntu. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi bayazi ukuba kufuneka ubeke iinjongo, eqinisweni, ezingafunekiyo. Ngoko, mhlawumbi, indoda ayiyidingi indlu ebiza kakhulu kwisixeko esinomsindo, kwaye ubomi bakhe buyakhangwa ubomi kwiindawo zasemaphandleni, kodwa inkqubo yesiganeko yokuziphatha iyaphaya kwengqondo. Oku kwenzeka kaninzi. Ngokukodwa kwimihla yakutshanje, xa imiba yendalo, intsingiselo kunye neenjongo zikhula ngokunyuka. Kwaye ekufikeni komdala, umntu onjalo, kunye nemikhosi eyahlukana emncintiswaneni wokukhwabanisa, uqala ukuqaphela iminqweno yakhe yokwenene, i-almost lost meaning in the life, kodwa ekungqinisweni akukho kakade i-reserve yangaphakathi. Ngamanye amazwi, izithintelo zokufeza injongo zidla ngokubonisa ukukhetha okuphosakeleyo.

Nangona kunjalo, ebomini, iimeko zenzeka ngokukhawuleza xa kufuneka ukuba kufezwe. Kwizinto ezizenzekelayo zezobugcisa kunye nabasomashishini oku kulandelwa ngokucacileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuphela kuphela abanokuyinyaniso inyaniso, kodwa bathi "ezi njongo" ziyenzeka ngokwenene zisuka entliziyweni. Ingqiqo apha yile: mhlawumbi, izithintelo luhlobo oluthile lokuqinisekiswa kwehlabathi ngokuzimisela komntu ukufumana umphumo oyifunayo, ngoko ke ukunyamezela ukunyamezela kunokudlala umdlalo okhohlakeleyo. Emva kokuba uzimisele intsingiselo yobomi, kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze kwaye ufezekise iinjongo ezizalisekisa indima yamanqaku akhethekileyo. Yomibini yale misebenzi idinga indlela enzulu kwisisombululo.

Amazwi eNcwadi eNkulu

Kwisahluko sesixhenxe sikaMathewu kuthiwa "... kuyo yonke into, nantoni na ukuba ufuna abantu benze nawe, kunjalo nawe kunye nabo ...". Ekuqalekeni, yonke into iyandila ingqiqo: ukunceda abanye kuyinto ebalulekileyo, kodwa ingqalelo ngakumbi ithathwa "kwiingcingo." Akuyimfuneko ukulandela umzekelo kude: abantu abaselula bayayazi kakuhle indlela isizukulwana esidlulileyo sibheka kakubi umculo wanamhlanje. Kwenzeka njani kulo mzekelo ukusebenzisa iingcebiso zeBhayibhile? Emva kwakho konke, abantu abadala kunye nabantu abaselula bafuna ukwabelana ngokusemgangathweni kwi-heart-retro yesitayela sokuqala nesisindayo saloo mva. Ngokomzekelo, iingqondo zeendawo zasemaphandleni zahluke kwiidolophini, nangona kungekho nkohliso kulo mba. Isiphetho sisincomo-ukugweba okuzungezile ngokwayo, iphosakeleyo, kwaye uncede abanye akufanele bahambe kuphela entliziyweni, kodwa nangenxa yengqondo.

Ezinye iimpazamo

Ukususela ebuntwaneni, abantu bafundiswa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukufunda kwezinye iimpazamo zabanye, kodwa ukuba bangenzi ngokwabo, okufanayo. Ingxelo malunga nokuveliswa kwebhayisekile ingabhalwa apha. Nangona kunjalo, iimpazamo, nangona kunjalo, zenziwe ngonaphakade. Kutheni?

Isizathu sisilula: ukuze uqaphele into ethile, umntu kufuneka afumane amava akhe, afunde into ethile. Le yindlela kuphela. Awudingi ukuhamba kude kumzekelo: ngosuku olushushu lwebusika, umntu omnye uzibopha kwisiqhekeza, ubeka i-hood, efihla izandla zakhe emapokothini aze agubungele ngokubanda. Ndikholelwe, akazenzeli. Ngelo xesha elinye lihamba ngaphandle kwengubo, kwijekethi engaxhaswanga kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, ishushu (ukubonwa kwangaphambili, ndiyayiqonda into yokuba ihlazo). Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu wabona oku. Isiphelo: sonke siyahlukileyo kwaye into engenakuyifumana enye, enye inokufumana ngaphandle komgudu omkhulu. Yingakho imithwalo yomntu ngamnye inayo, eyedwa. Kwaye ukunyathela kwisigxina esifanayo abantu baya kuba rhoqo. Wonke umntu ubuncinane kanye, kodwa kufuneka azalise "ihlumelo" lakhe.

Ukucaphula, singathetha ukuba ezi mpazamo zintathu, ezenzelwe inyaniso kwimeko yokugqibela, zinempembelelo enkulu ekubunjweni kwembono yehlabathi kunye nobomi bomntu kuluntu. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuwunqoba? Misa okwesikhashana uze uhlaziye izinto ezifanayo.