INkcubeko yoNxibelelwano eRashiya: Iimpawu ezifanelekileyo kunye neenqobo

I-Etiquette, inkcubeko yoqhagamshelwano - ulwazi kunye nezakhono kule ndawo sele ziyimpawu ebalulekileyo kunamhlanje. Kuba ngexesha lethu kuyimfuneko ukufanisa indawo, ixesha kunye nemeko. Ukususela kwezo zakhono ngamanye amaxesha akuxhomekekanga kuphela kulonwabo, ukuhlonipha abanye, kodwa nokuphumelela kwishishini.

Imeko kweli lizwe

Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabantu baseRashiya lugxininise kwingcamango "yenkcubeko yokuthetha", imigaqo yokuziphatha kuluntu. Ngenxa yoko, akumangalisi ukuba kwizikolo "zesizukulwana esitsha" (oko kukuthi, ngaphambili) isifundo esitsha saziswa: "Izinto ezisemgangathweni zendlela yokuziphatha." Yaye le milinganiselo isele ivelisa iziqhamo: abafundi abasebancinci babonisa ukuqonda indlela enokwenzeka ngayo nendlela yokuziphatha emphakathini, ukuthini ukuthetha noko ungathethi. Kuhlala nje kwithemba lokuba izakhono "zelizwe" ezixhaswe kubo zizinzile ngokwaneleyo kwingqondo yazo yokuba ziya kuzidlulisela kubantwana babo. Inqanaba jikelele leengcaphephe liya kwanda. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ungayifuni le nto kwilizwe lakho?

Masikhumbule kunye noko abantwana bethu abancinci ngoku bafundisa, isizukulwana esincinane.

Impawu

Inkcubeko yokunxibelelana iyancitshiswa kakhulu kubonakaliso bokuthintela, ukuqonda, ukuqonda, ukuhlonipha, ukukwazi ukuqhagamshelana nomntu, ukuphulaphula intetho, ukugcina ingxoxo, ukufumana iindibano eziqhelekileyo, ukufumana into edibanisa nomnxibelelwano ukuze kuqinisekiswe uxhulumaniso olunzulu.

I-etiquette yokunxibelelana ibonakalisa inkulumo yokubhala, ngokungabikho kwamagama-iipasisithi kunye nelexicon ehlazo, ngokubhekiselele kumnxibelelwano kunye nombono wakhe, ekuqwalaseleni imigaqo yokubulisa kunye nokwahlukana.

Imigaqo

Ngomnye umxholo othi "inkcubeko yokunxibelelana" ihambelana nokugcinwa kwemithetho ethile yokuziphatha ehambelana nemimiselo yoluntu oluthile kwixesha elithile lembali. Namhlanje imithetho enjalo iye yaba: ukujongana nento ethethiweyo; Jongana nabanye abantu njengoko ungathanda ukuba bakuthathe; Ukuhlonela (abaphezulu, ootitshala, abamele igunya, abazali). Uxhasano olwamkelekileyo lwamkelekile. E-Rashiya, lo mgaqo ngamanye amaxesha uyaqondwa ngefom ephosakeleyo: akusiyo isiko ukuba sixelele oogxa, abahlobo, okanye izalamane, nangona kwamanye amazwe amanyathelo athatyathwa njengento evumelekileyo, kodwa kuyimfuneko. Ngokomzekelo, xa kuziwa ekungakhishweni kolawulo oluphezulu, oku kuxelwa kumphathi ophezulu, oqhutywa yinkxalabo yoshishini ngokubanzi.

Zakhono

Ngokukhawuleza kukho ingqalelo enkulu ehlawulwe ukukwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo. Kwaye kuthetha oku: ukuxoxa ngokufanelekileyo, ukubeka oonxibelelwano obalulekileyo, ukugcina umfanekiso womkampani womqeshi, uhambelana nendima yayo kuluntu (indima yomzali, unyana, ummeli wecandelo elithile, umhlobo, njl.). Ukusebenza okunjalo kunokufezekiswa ngezakhono ezilula:

- ukukwazi ukutolika izandi (izandi) kunye nokungabonakaliyo (isenzo, ukubonakalisa ubuso, ukuhamba, ukunyakaza);

- ukukwazi ukuphikisa ingcamango yabo;

- thintela izithintelo zokuxhumana ;

- qwa lasela izinto ezizodwa zenkqubo yoqhagamshelwano, ugweme impembelelo yazo engafanelekanga (umzekelo, bambalwa bayazi ukuba luphi ulwazi olulahlekileyo ngexesha lokudluliselwa komntu omnye ukuya kolunye, kwaye olu lwazi lunokusetyenziswa kakuhle).

Ngokuqhelekileyo kuzo zonke izakhono ezinikeziweyo kukho inkqubo yoqeqesho lwengqondo. Ngoko, konke oku kungafundwa, kulungiswe kwaye kuveliswe kwinqanaba lezakhono.

Inkcubeko yokunxibelelana Umntu wanamhlanje uthatha ulwazi olungakumbi, izakhono kunye nezakhono kuneminyaka eyi-10 edlulileyo, ukuphuhliswa okusebenzayo kwimihlaba yolwazi e-Russia njenge-management, marketing, psychology, imigaqo yezoshishino. Kancinci, izinga lobunkokheli phakathi kwabantu beli lizwe landa, awanakho kodwa uvuyo abo bangenandaba nomgangatho wobomi esiya kuwo.