Indlela yokulawula umntu? Inkcazo yeendlela ezikhoyo

Ukulawula umntu uphupha abantu abaninzi. Inokuvela ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo (inzondo, umnqweno wokulawula), kwaye inokuba yinto ebalulekileyo (ulawulo lwabasebenzi). Enye indlela, kodwa indlela yokulawula umntu, ebhaliwe ilayibrari yonke yeencwadi ezininzi, kwaye wakha iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Nazi ezinye zazo.

Indlela yokulawula abantu? I-Psychology iyakhawuleza ukunceda

Bathi uAdolf Schicklgruber ngokwakhe (uAdolf Hitler) wayenencwadi kwidesi yakhe ebizwa ngokuthi "I-Psychology of the Masses", kwaye yile ndlela wayekwazi ukuphulaphula iintetho zakhe aze alandele ukungavumi. Nangona kunjalo, into efanayo kuthethwa ngoJoseph Vissarionovich. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ezi zimbini zikhokeli ziyazi kakuhle indlela yokulawula umntu, kwaye zisebenzise ngempumelelo ulwazi lwabo.

Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo, igunya liye lacingwa njengendlela eqhelekileyo yokulawula abantu. Ngokukodwa ukuba wayekulo lizwe elizithandayo kunye nenkokeli ezalwa, abanakho ukuthetha iintetho ezifihlakeleyo zomphefumlo. Kule meko, nokuba ungayifuni okanye uyifunayo, kuya kufuneka uzalisekise amagama athetha "ukusuka phezulu." Ngaphandle koko, ngenxa yokungazalisekanga kwentando yomntu, isijeziso sasilindelwe, kwaye kwavela kumawele. Kodwa nangona oko kwakungeke kwenzeke, umntu ongavumelaniyo wayehlala ebizwa ngokuba engathembekiyo, eyabangela indima.

Abo bangabonakaliyo basebenzise iindlela ezininzi ezifihlakeleyo ezibizwa ngokuba zintathu kwiincwadi ezininzi ezimbi-i-NLP, oku kuthetha "inkqubo ye-neurolinguistic" okanye indlela yokulawula umntu ngamagama kunye noqhagamshelwano olungenagama. Ngeendlela ezininzi, indlela esebenzayo, ulwazi kunye nokusetyenziswa oko kunokunceda ekuncediseni umxhasi omnye kwenye indawo. Kodwa le ndlela ayifanelekanga ukulawula amaqela abantu.

Ukusebenza nabantu kunye nokuhla kwempumelelo yabo kwicala labo bangafundisa uCarsten Bredemayer "nomntu omnyama". Ukukhuthaza ukuma ngakwicala, lo mneneli usebenzisa iindlela ezingaqhelekanga kwaye azikho iindlela zokunyaniseka ngokupheleleyo, ebantwini kuthiwa yi-blackmail. Nangona kunjalo, kukho i mpu melelo, kwaye, yintoni eyona nto imnandi, iindlela zakhe zisebenza nakwiqela elincinci.

Indlela yokulawula umntu? Iindlela zabantu

Iindlela zabantu zizodwa kwaye ziyazi zonke thina ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ngokuchanekileyo babizwa ngokuba "ngamaqhinga." Ngubani onokumkhanyela umntwana, ingakumbi xa ejonga ngomsindo kwiintlungu zakhe ezingenacala, apho iinyembezi ziphosa ngokukhawuleza emva kwe-teardrop. Yaye ukuba indawo yomntwana izisa intombi yakho? Kubonakala ngathi udidi lobudala luhlukile, kodwa umphumo uyafana. Ngendlela, owokuqala abadumileyo ngenxa yokukwazi "ukucima" umswakama emehlweni okanye ukukhala kungekho sizathu.

Indlela yokulawula umntu ngomlingo?

Nangona uhlangothi olubukhali lobomi bethu aluzange lusindiswe ngethemba elilindelekileyo lokufumana umntu ukuba azalise ukuthanda kwakhe ngelixa ebudeni obude kwixhoba elikhethiweyo. Kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo, umntu unokukhumbula i-hypnosis (ikwabizwa ngokuba ngumlingo, nangona le ngqondo ye-psychotherapy ephezulu) kunye nokungabonakali (iidodoli ze-voodoo kunye nezinye). Ukusebenza kwezi ndlela kunokugwetywa kuphela ngabo baxhomekeke kwimpembelelo enjalo.