"Impembelelo yabantu kubantu" - isicatshulwa esinceda ukucinga kwakhona izicwangciso zoluntu

Bathi isiphelo somntu sinquma isimo sakhe. Kodwa izazinzulu ziye zafakazela ukuba ngeendlela ezininzi zokuphila ubomi bunqunywe yindalo-abo basondele. Le yintsapho, abahlobo, kwixesha elizayo-umsebenzi odibeneyo.

Ngamanye amaxesha kwikharityhulam yesikolo kukho isidingo sokuthintela ngesihloko esithi: "Impembelelo yabantu kubantu." Ukubunjwa - le yimi fom edlalwa rhoqo ngalo msebenzi. Okanye, ngokuqwalasela esi sihloko kuyimfuneko ukuze ulungiselele ingxoxo kwisifundo.

Kutheni ubhala incoko "Impembelelo yabantu kubantu?"

Nokuba kunjalo, le ngcamango kufuneka ibe nenjongo nje kuphela ukulungiselela lo msebenzi, kodwa kwakhona, mhlawumbi, ukuphendula imibuzo ebalulekileyo kakhulu kuwe. Emva koko, ubomi bomntu budlula phakathi kwabantu-nokuba uyafuna okanye akunjalo. Ukususela ekuzalweni, umntwana uphathiswe ezandleni zabazali, ugogo nomkhulu, ngoko ke ootitshala nootitshala. Usuvele kwi-sandbox, ufunda ukwahlula abahlobo kwiintshaba. Ngomntu othanda ukuthetha naye, kunye nomntu - kungekhona kakhulu.

Yintoni eyenza ubuhlobo kumntu osemdala?

Indima ekhethekileyo idlalwe ngumhlobo ekufikeni kwentsha kunye nentsha. Kwaye akukho yingozi, kuba eli xesha libhekiselele kukukhangela, indawo yalo kuluntu. Kukhona ukubunjwa kobuntu. Umhlobo ngumntu apho ngamnye wethu kuqala ukuzama ukuzibona. Isilinganisi esinjalo sifinyelelwa ngempembelelo yabantu kumntu. Ukubunjwa okwenziwe esikolweni kunceda ukucinga ngale ngxaki, ukuqwalasela ngokubanzi iinkalo zengqondo zentsebenziswano yentlalo.

Umbutho kunye nomntu ngamnye: into ebalulekileyo ekusebenzisaneni kwabo

Okokuqala, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umntu ufikelela kwinqanaba lokuphuhlisa kuphela ngokusebenzisana namanye amalungu omphakathi. Enkulu kakhulu, njengoko sele ikhankanywe ngaphambili, impembelelo yabantu kubantu. Incoko yaseRashiya inokuthi iqule umzekelo olandelayo: umntwana okhulile, njengoMowgli, ehlathini, akanakuze afinyelele kwizigaba eziphezulu zophuhliso. Zifumaneka kuphela kubantwana abakhulayo kwintsapho, kwiimeko zokuphuhliswa. Inyaniso yokuba uluntu lukhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kobuntu ukususela ebuntwaneni kusenokwenzeka ukuba luqulethe umsebenzi "Impembelelo yabantu kubantu." Iingxoxo ezibonelelwa ngemithombo eyahlukeneyo zihlukeneyo. Kodwa into ephambili ibambe iqhaza elingenakuguquka koluntu ekuphuhlisweni komntu ngamnye.

Kuphela kubantu abajikelezile, umntwana uyakwazi ukufumana iinkqubo zenkcubeko, imigaqo yokuziphatha kuluntu. Umntwana ukhula kwaye ufumana ingxelo kubantu abadala - nokuba izenzo zakhe zilungile okanye hayi, indlela yokuziphatha yakhe kufuneka ilungiswe ngayo.

Umbutho kwi-sandbox

Yaye loo ndlela ayisebenzanga kuphela kwiintsebenziswano phakathi kwabantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Ngaphandle kwala bantwana abadlala kwi-sandbox, imilinganiselo ethile sele isetyenziswe. Le mithetho yomdlalo yenzelwe ukulawula ubudlelwane phakathi kweqela labantwana abancinci. Ukuba babengekho, ke abafana abanokhathazeka babeza kukhululeka ukuba bathabatheke kwezinye iimathoyizi, baqhekeza iipramamidi zesihlabathi-ngokubanzi, ukuba baziphathe ngokuhlambalaza kuzo zonke iziganeko.

Uyazi njani ukuba umntu ungubani? Umzekelo kwiNcwadi yeencwadi

Kukho imiba emininzi ichaza impembelelo yabantu kumntu. Umbhalo ngumsebenzi apho izinto eziphambili kufuneka zichazwe.

Ngokubanzi, impembelelo yomntu omnye kwelinye ingaba yinto engalunganga okanye efanelekileyo.

Impembelelo engebiyo iyaziwa kubo bonke. Ubomi buzele le mizekelo. Kodwa iya kuba yintoni efanelekileyo? Kulo mbandela, umntu unokubuyela kwinkolo. Kwaye, okokuqala, ukuba unyango olunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba neembono ezahlukeneyo kwihlabathi. Kubalulekile ukuqonda: imithombo ebhaliweyo yanoma yiphina inkolo-ngaba yibuKristu, iBuddhism okanye i-Islam - ziphakathi kwezinye izinto, ifa lezenkcubeko. Wonke umntu angafaka isicelo kubo, kungakhathaliseki uhlanga okanye inkolo. Ngamnye wethu unokufumana ulwazi.

Ngoko le nto ibandakanya ntoni iindlela ezinokukunceda ukubhala incoko "Impembelelo yabantu kubantu"? EBhayibhileni, uKristu uthetha ngabaprofeti bobuxoki: "Uya kubazi ngezithelo zabo." Leli gama eliqhelekileyo lingahunyushwa ngokubhekiselele kumhlaba. Kwaye kwaye intsingiselo yayo ininzi kwiintetho ezinxulumene noko uVladimir Mayakovsky ayefuna ukukusho kwimbongo, elowo wonke umntu akhumbula nakwi-primer, "Yintoni elungileyo nento engalunganga."

Unokwazi njani ukuba umntu ulungile okanye ulungile? Yiyiphi imbono enokuthi yenziwe malunga nale nto okanye ehlangeneyo okanye iqela elikhulu labantu? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwenza izigqibo ezilolo hlobo, kubalulekile ukuhlala ixesha elithile kuluntu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokuzivumela ukuba udibaniswe nomntu "ongalunganga" okanye uqokelele, umngcipheko ngamnye ufana nawo kwaye sele ulahlekelwe amandla okugweba ngokufanelekileyo.

Lapha, ubulumko bulumko baseBhayibhileni buza kuhlangula. Ukuba umntu uzama okulungileyo, unenjongo ezintle, ukuzinikela awenzayo imihla ngemihla ixesha elide. Ukuba unesihe kwaye uhlonipha ngabadala kunye nabangaphantsi kwakhe, konke oku kubonisa izinga eliphezulu lokuphuhliswa komthetho kunye nenkcubeko yomntu ngamnye.

Loo mntu uya kuba nomthelela omuhle kwabanye - nokuba ungumhlobo, ilungu losapho, utitshala okanye umqeqeshi.

Enye into ebangela impembelelo kuluntu ngomntu

Bhala incoko "Impembelelo yabantu kubantu" ngesiRashiya - umsebenzi onzima. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuvavanya nokuqhathanisa ulwazi oluhlukileyo. Yintoni enye inokuchaphazela uluntu omnye umntu?

Amava yinto evumela umntu ukuba akhe ubuhlobo obunye obulandelayo ngendlela evelisayo. Ukuba ebantwini, umntu udibana nobomi bakhe ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo zentlalo. Zingabalulekanga, kwaye zinzulu kakhulu, ezinokuchaphazela yonke inkalo yobomi bayo. Ukuze umendo womntu uphumelele, kufuneka abe nolwazi oluya kumvumela ukuba agweme iimpazamo.