Ziziphi iingcebiso kubazali kwiqela eliphakathi

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali beza kwirejista yokuzisa nokuthatha umntwana, kunye nokuya kwiintlanganiso zabazali neeholide. Kodwa awona onke amama noodade bayazi ukuba banokuya kwiqela kunye nokubonisana ngabanye kubazali kwiDow Kwiphina iqela. Cinga ngesi sihloko ngokubhekiselele kumzekelo weqela eliphakathi, apho abantwana batyelela iminyaka emine ukuya kwemihlanu.

Ngokungafani neqela lokuqala neyesibini elincinane, abantwana beli qela eliphakathi baye bavumelanisa amaziko emfundo esikolweni kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwiimpikiswano ezahlukeneyo kunye nemikhosi. Leli lixesha "kutheni", ngoko ootitshala baquka abachaphazelekayo kwinkqubo yokufunda baze bavelele iingqalelo zabantwana kunye neetalente.

Ngowuphi uhlobo oludibaniselwa ngabazali phakathi kweqela:

• Ingxelo yolwazi;
• Isiphakamiso esifutshane ekufundeni iincwadi;
• Ingxoxo yomntu ngeendlela zokuphendula imibuzo;
• Iisemina zeqela;
• Ukuqeqeshwa kweqela, imidlalo;
• Bika ngezinto zokubonisa ;
• Vula izifundo.

Ingxelo yolwazi isetyenziswe ukuba ingxaki ejongene nayo ithintela bonke abazali. Oku kungayincoko ngemithetho yendlela, ekuthuthiseni abantwana emotweni, ukuqina nokuqinisa impilo kwiminyaka yokubanda. Ngendlela efanayo, inhloko okanye indlela yokufundisa izisa abazali malunga neenguqu kwiprogram yemfundo, ezintsha kwiinkqubo zemfundo, malunga nokwandisa intlawulo yomxholo, malunga nokubonakala kweenkonzo ezongezelelweyo kunye nezibonda.

Iziphakamiso ezimfutshane ekufundeni iincwadi zihlala zisetyenziswe ngu titshala phambi kwentlanganiso yabazali. Ukubonisana ngabanye kubazali (iqela eliphakathi) ngokuqhelekileyo lwenziwa ngabaxumi abancinci (iingcali zengqondo, i-defectologist, i-speech therapist) ukuqhuba umsebenzi ocacileyo ukulungisa ingxaki ekuphuhliseni umntwana othile. Le fom ikhethwa kwakhona ngabafundisi beedyhula ezongezelelweyo (ukuchonga, ubugcisa beplastiki, i-workshop workshop, njl njl.) Ukubeka ingqalelo kumama kunye noodade kwizakhono kunye neetalente zomntwana wabo.

Iikhomina, ukuqeqesha, imidlalo yezoshishino

Iingcebiso kubazali kwiqela eliphakathi ngendlela yeeminina zeqela, ukuqeqesha, imidlalo kukuvumela ukuba udlulisele ulwazi oluxabisekileyo kubazali kwifomu yokuzonwabisa ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu. Okokuqala, ifom yefom ixhobisa uninzi lwabo balapho, kwaye okwesibini, umgca "umzali-titshala" uyasuswa, kuba utitshala kuphela olawula le nkqubo, enika indima ebalulekileyo kumama kunye noodade.

Kule fomu, kukho iintetho malunga nokugcina iiveki kunye nabantwana, ukukhetha amathoyizi ezemfundo kunye nemidlalo, malunga nenxaxheba yabazali ekukhulisweni kwabantwana, malunga nokuthambekela kwabantwana kwintlanzi, ukuxhalaba, ubuxoki okanye ubusela.

Imidlalo ekhethekileyo yoshishino ngokubhekiselele kwintsebenziswano yabazali bomntwana, xa enye inxalenye yabazali ibenza njengabafundi abanenkani kunye nabangathobeliyo, omnye uhlala kubazali abaqinileyo okanye abanenkululeko. Kule meko, oomama nabantwana babonakala bebukela iimpazamo ekuziphatheni kwabo nangamazwi, kwaye ngokuzifundela bafunde ukutshintsha imeko.

Ingxelo yokubonisa, iifilimu, izifundo ezivulekile

Iingcebiso kubazali kwiqela eliphakathi kwindlela yokwenza ingxelo ngetyenziso xa kuyimfuneko ukujonga ifilimu yezesayensi ekukhulisweni nasekufundiseni abantwana. Umzekelo, ukubonisa umzekelo wezifundo malunga nokuphuhliswa kwentetho, ubuchule beemathematika, ingqiqo. Abazali babone imizekelo yemidlalo, izinto eziphathekayo kunye nemisebenzi ebonakalayo, kwaye ootitshala banethuba lokuyeka ukurekhoda nokuqinisa ingqalelo yamama kunye nabagadi kwiingongoma ezibalulekileyo. Le ndlela ikhetheke ngakumbi ekusebenzisaneni nabazali abanomntwana omnye kuphela kunye nolwazi olunganeleyo lokukhulisa abantwana.

Iingcebiso kubazali kwiqela eliphakathi ngesimo sezifundo ezivulekileyo ziqhutyelwa ngutitshala abancinci. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantwana bayaphazamiseka ngabazali babo, kwaye okwesibini, abanye oomama kunye nootata baqhekeza umsebenzi ngokunyunyuza, umnxeba okanye izinto ezingekho phantsi, kuba utitshala akakwazi ukubenza bavakalise xa besebenza nezingane.

Kodwa ngaluphi uhlobo lokuqhuba iingxoxo nabazali, banqume abasebenzi be-DOW, kuxhomekeke kwimeko yengxaki. Ngaphandle kwezicelo zodwa zabazali ngokwabo ukufundisa abantwana babo utitshala othile.