NgoJanuwari 21 ji kelele ihlabathi i-holide engavamile - Usuku lwaMazwe ngamazwe lokuMkela.

NgoJanuwari 21 wabhala iholide ekhethekileyo - iSuku loMhlaba jikelele lokuMkela. Yayisungulwa ngonyaka we-86 e-USA, kodwa ke yayibizwa ngokuba yi "Usuku lweSizwe lokuMkela". Emva koko iholide yakhawuleza ithandwa ngabantu behlabathi lonke. Isithethe esiqhelekileyo saleli holide siyisigqibo esivumelwaneni sobungane kubo bonke abantu abaqhelekileyo nabangaqhelekanga.

Nangona ihlabathi liyakwamukela imini ibonakala nje, kwakungeke kwenzeke ukufumana umbhali walo. Ngubani othe wenyuka kunye nombono wokuthokoza okunjalo, akungaziwa. Kodwa kusekholelwa ukuba abaqalisi beeholide bafundi. Ngosuku lwamazwe ngamazwe, amantombazana kunye namantombazana bahlala bodwa benyameko bengenalo isizathu okanye imvelaphi esondelene nayo. Kukho uluvo lokuba ngobudlelwane obunobungane, abantu batshintshisa ukushisa kwabantu. Iingcali zengqondo zithi abantu abafuna ukufaka umntu kwizandla zabo bengazi kakuhle ukuba banokuziva bekhuselekile, bathande kwaye bathuthuzele. Ukubambisana kuhamba nathi phantse bonke ubomi, siyavuya ngokungena kubo kubahlobo kunye neentsapho kwintlanganiso kunye nokubonisa ukubonga okanye uvuyo kungekuphela koMhla wokuMkela. Ukubingelelana akufuneki nayiphi na iindleko, kwanele nje ukunikela ngokufudumala komntu wonke ofunayo. Khumbuza abantu bakho abasondeleyo isimo sengqondo sakho esifudumeleyo nesinyanisekileyo kubo, ukubanxiba kwaye ubanike isiqwenga sokushisa kwakho.

Kutheni ukuxhuma kuncedo?

Ngoko, kutheni ihlabathi lonke lithatha isiko lokubhiyozela iSuku loMhlaba loMkhosi? Ngokuchanekileyo kuba ukubandakanya kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yabantu! Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, zimbini izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuvuma ngaphandle kwamabango. Okokuqala, ukubandakanya kunika umntu ingqiqo yokhuseleko. Xa ndisebuntwaneni, xa sakhala, sasibalekela kamama kwangoko, kwaye wasithatha. Emva koko sasinomxholo othile wokhuseleko kwaye sasizolile, kwaye isiganeko asisasicasuli. Phakathi komntwana kunye nomntu omdala akukho mpela umahluko xa sigula kwaye sithotyelwa ngumntu osondeleyo, ngokukhawuleza siphucule kangcono. Okwesibini, ukwaneliseka kweemfuno eziphathekayo kungqinelana ngokuthe ngqo kunye nempilo yengqondo yomntu, kuba izazinzulu ziye zafakazela ukuba umntu, kunye nezinye izidalwa eziphilayo, ufuna ukuchaphazeleka. I-tactile elambile iya kunelisa ngokukodwa umnqweno wekati, inja, okanye umntu, ngoko abantu abangatshatanga baqala izilwanyana kwaye banomdla wokubamba.
Ukususela kwindawo yokujonga, emzimbeni womntu, xa uthintekile, oku kulandelayo kwenzeka:
Umsebenzi wenkqubo ye-nervous is stimulated stimulously kwaye i- hormone oxytocin ikhutshwa kwigazi , evelisa i-hypothalamus yengqondo. Le hormone ibeka imeko yengqondo yomntu, iphucula impilo kwaye ihlakulela isimo sengqondo esihle kwabanye.
Iingcali zeengqondo zezingane kunye noogqirha bacebisa kakhulu abazali ukuba baxhaphaze abantwana babo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, njengoko baya kuphuhlisa ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama. Kwakhona kukholelwa ukuba umntwana ongenalo uthando kunye novelwano, unokufumana ukukhubazeka kwengqondo nengqondo.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntu omdala ufuna ukuba angamkeli ngaphantsi komntwana. Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bakholelwa ukuba oku kuya kuphucula umxhelo kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo, kodwa ukubandakanya kubambe indima ebalulekileyo ekuqiniseni ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabathandekayo. Iingcali zengqondo zentsapho zifuna ukuba kubalulekile ukumbamba isiqingatha sesibini ubuncinane amaxesha asibhozo ngosuku ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngosuku lwaMazwe ngamazwe lokuMkela, unamkela ngokugqithiseleyo wonke umntu, bobabini nabaziwayo. Ukuphucula isimo sengqondo kuwe nakubantu abakujikelezile, kuba ukumbamba kunceda!