Ukwenza isivumelwano lomtshato

Kule minyaka ilishumi yokugqibela kwanokubuyisela ingxoxo kakhulu kwi phezulu umzobo kwekhontrakthi lomtshato. Abanye bathi ukuba oku ilikhubalo nxamnye zinqoze kunokwenzeka xa kuthe mtshato, nto leyo evumela kuyo nayiphi na imeko ukugcina nobuhlobo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukubulawa mvumelwano umtshato phambi kokuba womtshato echasene nemigaqo esisiseko womtshato, ekufuneka ibe ngenxa yothando, kodwa kungekhona yokubala ezibandayo. Enoba oko, izibini ngokufuthi ngakumbi ukutshata kwilizwe lethu asayina isivumelwano phezu eve kobhaliso okanye emva kwayo.

Yintoni na le xwebhu? Imvumelwano lomtshato - isivumelwano olawula nokwabiwa propati ekhoyo ehlangeneyo emva komtshato. Alinako ukulawula zobuqu amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi amaqabane, umzekelo, ukulawula yemihla ngemihla, okanye, njengoko bathanda ukuthetha ezinye ihlunguzela, ubude neentlobano zesini.

Inyaniso kukuba ukusilela kweemeko ezinjalo zicwadi kunzima kakhulu ukungqina kwaye kubenzima ngakumbi ukuba ukunyanzelisa inyanzelekile ukuba abulawe. Kwakhona, ukuze agcine besikhundla amaqabane, oko akunakwenzeka, umzekelo, ukufaka into kulo ukuba xa kuthe umtshato, umfazi akakwazi isicelo indoda yakhe enkundleni ukulwela amalungelo abo. Ukwenza isivumelwano lomtshato akuthethi ukubonelela icandelo lwepropati pre-yomtshato okanye mnikelo ngenxa. Qeda it nangaliphi na ixesha, kodwa kuphela ngemvume omabini amaqela.

Ngubani oxhamlayo ukubulawa kwesivumelwano somtshato? Kwindawo yokuqala - omnye wabalingane nghena umtshato ekuthiwa-ukungalingani. Ngamafutshane, xa indoda okanye umfazi kutyeba kakhulu elingelolabo zabo: a ingeniso eliphezulu kwaye iqwalasela igalelo layo kwibhajethi iyonke eziphawulekayo ngakumbi. Eyona ndlela iqhelekileyo - umyeni, usomashishini kunye ekhaya. Noko ke, kukho kwakhona amadoda kakuhle eliphakathi abenza ukuba angene kwimvumelwano lomtshato, ngenxa yokoyika self-inzala inxalenye yabafazi bawo. Kuyenzeka ukuba ngokulinganayo ingeniso igalelo omnye wabalingane kwipropati ebenokudlula kwigalelo enye. Umzekelo, ngenxa nokwanda okanye ilifa komshado ifunyanwe. Indlu ezifike emva kokufa kwabazali babo, ziya kuqwalaselwa impahla kuphela iqabane ngubani na indlalifa, kwaye akayi kuba impahla ngokuhlangeneyo. Kodwa ukuba ugqiba ukuba ekulithengiseni kwaye usebenzise imali ukwandisa isithuba ephilileyo (umzekelo, ukuthenga indlu) kunye eyongeziweyo encinane okanye akukho iindleko extra, ngoko ke impahla ziya kuqwalaselwa ngokudibeneyo ababeyiqwebile, nokuba kwelinye icala sele imali engange-3. Kulo mzekelo, uza sobume uncedo kwi kwesivumelwano lomtshato, apho ungakhankanya ukuba xa kuthe mtshato, nalapho kukho kuphela icala ukuba afake imali kuyo okanye kwahlulwa ngayo nayiphi na olinganise (ubuncinane 1/20 no 19/20). Kungenjalo yonke komtshato siya kwahlulwa kubini.

Njani nokubhaliswa kwesivumelwano somtshato? Amaqela anomdla babuyelayo elinye igqwetha kubanceda kufikelelwe kwisivumelwano. Ukuze ukulahla, awukwazi kufumaneka kuphela ngexesha ukusayina, kodwa ikamva kwipropati, umzekelo, zibonisa ukuba yeyiphi na inxenye iya kwahlulwa kwi mtshato. Ukwenza isivumelwano lwenzeka phambi izivumelwano, yaye ekubeni uza kuphela ukususela ngexesha lobhaliso. Ukuba esi sibini wasayina isivumelwano lomtshato, kwaye atyikitye ofisi yobhaliso akawenza, yaye emva kwethutyana abaselula abaye bagqiba ukuba ngokubaleka, ukwahlulwa kwepropati joint iya kuba kwi-siseko 'ukuze elowo lakhe "(as in kumtshato civil oqhelekileyo).

Ngokubanzi, xa wokutyikitywa kwesivumelwano lomtshato, amaqabane ukuze babhalise kwi mpahla ngokuhlangeneyo, ukuba anikezele kwipropati ethile, apho kuya wonke umntu xa kuthe mtshato (umzekelo, indawo yokuhlala - umfazi wakhe, imoto egaraji - indoda), ukujonga igalelo nganye lwabiwo-mali jikelele, ukuze kunye nabanye ingeniso.