Ubomi bethu-obuhle okanye obubi?

Ngoku, mhlawumbi, bambalwa abantu bakhumbula loo mkhono wesithombe esibuhlungu - isikhulu esiseMyshkin. Okwangoku, ububhali bakhe, nangona umbhali walo konke, uFeodor Mikhalych Dostoevsky, unelinye ibinzana elinamaphiko athi "Ubuhle buya kulondoloza ihlabathi."

Kwinyani yangoku, ndiza kuthiwa igama elinye kwelinye - "i-positive izakusindisa ihlabathi!". Ukongezelela, onke lawo mazwi, ngokubonga kwesi sizwi saziwa, sijonge ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha lethu. Kodwa kuphela ngokumalunga nokuhle.

INkosana Myshkin, ngokuchasene nenkolelo eninzi, ayengathethi ubuhle bwangaphandle, kodwa bubuhle obuphakathi. Emva kokuba uDostoevsky, xa ebhala la mazwi, wayekude kakhulu nemigwebo yobuhle kwaye wathinta kuphela umhlaba wangaphakathi womntu, ubuhle bakhe bokomoya.

Yaye yintoni ubuhle bokomoya obungabikho ngaphandle kwehlabathi elihle? Kwaye kumaxesha ethu anzima ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimpawu zomntu ezaziphethe izimpikiswano phakathi kweHippolytus Terentyev kunye nePrince Myshkin-ububele, ububele, ubumnene, ukunyaniseka.

Kwaye nokuba yintoni enye, kuba sonke sihlale sityhila kwimpembelelo yolwazi olungalunganga kwiimidiya zamatye. Ufunda amajelo eendaba kwaye ubone ukuba ezininzi iindaba zichaza iimfazwe kunye neentlekele, iziganeko kunye nezifo, ubundlobongela nokungabikho komthetho. Kwaye konke oku kuhlale kukho kwi-TOP. Nqabile kakhulu apho uza kubona ubuncinane iindaba ezilungileyo okanye ukukhankanywa kwayo kwisiza. Nanku kuza i ntlekele kwaye ingalunganga kwiingcamango zabantu.

Ukuba ubheka "i-Wikipedia", ngoko "kukhona okulungileyo" ngumfanekiso oqokelelweyo wegama elithi "iimvakalelo ezintle" kwaye umfanekiso osemgangathweni owamkelweyo ongekho. Ngako oko, kuluntu kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana imithombo emihle ukuba ifaneleke kwiimvakalelo ezithembekileyo, ngaloo ndlela iguqula yonke into embi ephuma kuzo zonke iindawo zolwazi.

Ngaba uqaphele ukuba kungekho nto kumabonwakude wethu omabini kweesithathu kunye neefilimu malunga nobugebengu nemfazwe? Kwaye bonke banamanani amaninzi. Kwaye konke oku kungenxa yokuba iindaba zemihla ngemihla zombiza ngama-scandals kunye nolwaphulo-mthetho, iimfazwe kunye nobudlova, ukuze iindaba ezilungileyo kunye neendaba ezilungileyo zingenakukwazi ukufikelela kwisikrini ngenxa yokulinganiswa kwazo.

Yonke iminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu emva kokuwa kweSoviet Union, inkcubeko yobundlobongela yayisekwa kuluntu lwaqala ngamabutho aseMerika, lwaqhubeka nokuxabana, lwaba lukhunjulwa ngakumbi yimfazwe yaseChechen kwaye yancinciza yonke imimiselo kunye nemiphefumlo echukumisayo. Kwaye ngoku zonke iiprogram ezakhayo ezikuthi, nangona ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ziya kwiTV, ziyakwazi ukudibana kuphela "kwixesha eliphambili", xa inxalenye ebalulekileyo yoluntu ayiboni.

Ngoko ke, ukuze umntu abe nempilo enempilo, kufuneka akhangele kwaye afunde iindaba ezintle kunye neendaba ezilungileyo eziya kukunceda ukuqondisa umbono wakhe kwelinye icala. Ukongezelela, izazinzulu ziye zadlula ixesha elide zifumanisa ukuba iingcamango ezimbi zincinci ukucinga kwethu kwaye ziphazamise ingqondo - kwaye ke, lonke lilonke lomzimba wonke. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umntu ukunika ubuncinane iyure ngosuku ngemvakalelo emihle kunye nokubonakala okulungileyo. Dlala nomntwana wakho okanye isilwanyana, hlala kufuphi nomthandayo, funda incwadi enhle okanye yenza okuthandayo, ukuzonwabisa.

Ulungile kunye nantoni na ukuyenza kumntu oswelekileyo - ukudibanisa kunye nempahla enganelisekiyo? Kwaye kukho indlela yokuphuma. Ukuze enze oku, kufuneka afunde ngokuqinisekileyo ukuqonda ihlabathi, kunye nokuboniswa kunye nokuqinisekiswa kokuphucula imeko yabo yokomoya.

Kwimeko yokuqala kubalulekile ukukhangela imifanekiso ebonakalayo ebonakalayo, ukukhangela nakwiimeko ezinzima into efanelekileyo. Saphuma esitratweni, sabona iindlela zethu eziphukileyo kunye neendlela, kwaye saqala ukukhula ngomsindo kubasebenzi basekuhlaleni, kodwa sabona intana ecaleni kwendlu, kwaye le nto ingasenzela inceba. Ngoko ke umbane oqhelekileyo wokukhanya emva kwemvula, eya kukhangela kumaqabunga, unokunika ubushushu obuncinane.

Kwimeko yesibini kuyimfuneko ukuthumela umyalezo olungileyo imihla ngemihla kuwe. Emva koko, akusikho isizathu sokuba nakwixesha la mandulo, izazinzulu ziye zabonisa ukuba iingcinga zizinto eziphathekayo. Kwaye oko kukuqinisekisa ukuba iyona sixhobo esisebenzayo kwixesha lethu ukuguqula thina. Ngokomzekelo, ukuzilungiselela ukuba uphumelele ngamagama athi "Ndiyayityelela inhlanhla", "Ndiyethemba", kwimpilo - "Ndiphilile", "Ndiyomelele kwaye ndonwabile", ngenxa yothando - "Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndimthanda", "Ndiyadalwa ngothando" kwaye Njalo. Kwaye ngeendlela ezilula unako ukukhawuleza uphumelele kwimpumelelo yokuqonda ukuchonga.

Futhi ungakulibali ukufunda iindaba ezilungileyo, fumana ukucinga okulungileyo kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, zenze uzethule!