Ndavula ikhadi, okanye ukuba baqaphele indlela guy, ndiyayithanda yena

Eselula, amantombazana sizibonele imvakalelo efanayo ebenza bazive kwaye yachukumiseka ngexesha elifanayo? - uthando. Wonke umntu uyazi "ukuxinga", xa ucinga: "Ndiya ndimthanda ngentliziyo yenu yonke, kutheni ke ukuba anikele ingqalelo kum? Ndimele ndenze ntoni? Indlela Ukuqaphela lo mfo, ndiyayithanda kuye? Okanye akakwazi ukwenza? "Amawaka namawaka imibuzo amathandabuzo engqondweni wentombazana eluthandweni. Gentle, uneentloni kunye 'ukuqeqeshwa ngokufanelekileyo "umntu yaye iya kuma yaye ubunzima neemvakalelo ezingabuyekezekiyo.

Umbuzo: "Indlela Nakana mfo, ndiyayithanda kuye? Yaye ngaba unako ukwenza njalo ngaphandle elihlazo elifanayo emehlweni akhe "-? Useza amantombazana amaninzi Musa ukungxama ukubhengeza uthando lwakhe, kuba ukususela kumaxesha amandulo kangangokuba ayamkelwa eluntwini babekholelwa ukuba inyathelo lokuqala kukusoloko uzama ukwenza umntu, kodwa .. kufuneka kuphela ukwamkela wakhe ukunakwa lula. Kodwa ihlabathi iyatshintsha, yaye namhlanje, amabhinqa aselula abaninzi layohlala evela ubandlululo ubudala ngokwabo ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zabo guy abawuthandayo. nokuba umntu yabo mihla kungekhona amaphulo yabafazi ulwalamano. Eyona nto iphambili ukuba ngaphakathi enengqondo s imida.

Ngoko oku kwenzeka kuwe? Wena ngokwenene uthanda loo mfo, kodwa kuyabanda kwaye ayihlawuli ingqalelo kuwe? Uphelelwa uxolo lwakho, bawaphule intloko yakhe phezu umbuzo othi: "? Njani ukwenza kucace ukuba nkwenkwe ukuba ungathanda yena" Ukuze athi ngqo kuwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba, musa nabuganga, yaye yakho unkabi ezininzi, unkabi kunye namacebo saphaphazela semka kuyo ukususela kodonga peas? Kubonakala ukuba baye bazama yonke into ukuze ambonise isimo sakhe, kodwa yonke imizamo yenu ne sabulaleka. Ucatshukiswe, wacaphuka, nomsindo kuye bawe ekudakumbeni, ndicinga ukuba elihle ngokwaneleyo.

Ngoko nangoko kuzakulahla lonke eli ubudenge entlokweni yakho! Lukangxabalaza ngokwakhe ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo awudingi. Nto ke ayithethi kuyoyikisa njengoko kubonakala xa efika kuqala. Nokuba ngaba kude Classic "90-60-90", isizathu kukuba Man ukungakhathali ingaba nomahluko ngokupheleleyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba akukho mbono ngeemvakalelo zakho!

Mhlawumbi baye bakreqa: "Emva kokuba bonke ndenze konke oko kunokwenzeka! Ngandlela zonke wabonisa isimo sakhe! Ke, ukuba akunjalo, ngelixa mfo ukuvuma ukuba ndiyayithanda? "Kodwa into yokuba umfana isaziso imizamo yakho okanye ngokungachanekanga wabachazela kuzo. Abantu babe nokuphazamiseka eyahlukileyo kakhulu. Oko, le abafana adla alinikwa kucacile ukuba kuthi. Kwakhona nomsindo kuthi, nexhala. Kwaye ke umbuzo njani ukuvuma ukuba iimvakalelo, mfo, njengezi, anikholwa ndim.

Ngoko ke, ukuze ukuba bangachithi luvo yakho, musa ungakhathazeki kwaye ungakhathazeki, kungcono ukuba nesibindi, ukuba aye kuye bathi ekuhleni yonke into. Ngoko ngokwenene kuya kuba ngcono. Wena nje isathe "i". Ukongeza, amadoda uthando kuyixabisa indlela onyaniseke abasetyhini kwaye akanako ukuma iintlobo lamaqhinga neephazili. Kulo nyathelo, okunene ukwenza ubomi lula yaye mna naye.

Ukuze uyifumane, kufuneka ukhethe indawo ekunene kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba kumema ukuba mfi okanye cafe. Akukho mfuneko ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zabo xa usebenza, ukufunda, okanye xa esenza into ethile, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo kuzisa naziphi na iziphumo. Isimemo ukuba bachithe ixesha kunye - ukhetho incamisileyo. Ukuba uyavuma, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda, yaye ngamana vula kuwe. Ukuba wala, ndaza ndachaza nokuba isizathu, ngoko akukho mntu wakho, ukuze uchithe ixesha phezu kwayo nje ikufanele.

Kodwa ukuba kunjalo awukwazi isigqibo isenzo ngokuphandle ngolo hlobo, funda Unikela abahlobo ukuba inkxaso noncedo. Ngamanye amaxesha ixesha kuphela bathi ibinzana ngamnye kwaye ( "Wena akazange phawula ukuba le ntombazana uthanda wena?") Ngaba kusombulula zonke.

Kunokuba bafumane umbuzo "ukuvuma indlela guy, mna ndiyayithanda kuye," endaweni yamava engamampunge kwaye inawo ukuqokelela ulwazi ngengcono ekhoyo kwi kwiziko lakho, oko akuthandayo, yintoni babezibuza ukuba umculo ikhangeleka, nokuba, phezu koko, ungenako ukubathwala. Ezi zinto zincinane ngokwenene usizo kabi. Ngapha koko, ukuba wokuzalwa kwakhe, uya kufumana isipho esivela kuwe, malunga apho Waphupha, mhlawumbi ucinge nesisa nengqiqo. Oku kungenzeka ukuba amncede enze ukhetho olufanelekileyo.

Khumbula njalo ke ulwimi lwezandla, amandla kwebala kunye neembono. Eyona ndlela ibhetele yokubonisa ukuba iimvakalelo zakho - dance kade. Ukuba ngephanyazo ukumilisa ngaphezu umzimba wakhe ngaphezu kunesiqhelo, uzihlolisise emehlweni abathandi bakhangele, kuphela isidenge Ayisoze ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho.

Wonke umntu othanda iindlebe, kunye namadoda akukho ngaphandle. uthi Ngokufuthi kuye into iyamangalisa, okwaziyo kunye emangalisayo. Nxibelelana naye nje cute kwaye enobubele, yaye dude undisguised. Bonisa kuye wena Ndiyavuya ukubona kuye, njengoko nithe namphakamisa i mood ukunxibelelana naye ngayo. Ngoko musani ukubacaphukisa ngomhla inyathelo lokuqala. Yiba nomdla kubo, cela uze uphulaphule ngenyameko oko akuthethayo. Intombazana okwaziyo ukumamela njani, yaye ukuthetha bezumolku kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukuyithanda na umfana.

Ukongeza, uyakwazi ukufunda ngesimo sakhe avume 'joke' yakhe. Guys ukuthanda hohotushek kunye namantombazana ochwayithileyo. Ngokwenene yintlekisa iziqhulo bakhe, fun ngokwakho. Ngapha koko, ukuba mfo uthi sinesifo nanto uburharha, intombazana ngubani iyakungqina oku kuya kuba liqabane efanelekileyo kuye. Kaloku, njengoko a joke, unako ukufunda yaye kutheni kuchaphazela wena.

Khumbula ileta Tatyana ukuba Onegin. Indlela ezichukumisayo zintle! Loo indlela kuthathwa romantic lonke ixesha. Ukuba bayazoyika ukuba siye sixele wonke umntu emehlweni, unokuphelisa egqibeleleyo. Ungazama ukubhala malunga lwakho uthando lokwenene kunye nethemba ngokufanayo.

Kwaye khumbula, akunamsebenzi nokuba kwenzeka ntoni na, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba baziphathe ngesidima kude kube sekupheleni. Ukuba nithe anavuma, ngoko, ayikho indoda yakho. Musa ukulila kunye nodlame, kuba oko kungafanelekanga iinyembezi zakho. Kaloku, ukuba uthi "uthando" awayesibawela, ngoko baqonde nothando omnye komnye!