Njengokuba intombazana ukuba bathi ndiyayithanda: amanye amacebiso

Yonke imihla xa wadibana ukubetha kwentliziyo yakhe ophilisayo, ubuso bakho Ikhanyisa encumile. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuwa eluthandweni. Kodwa ... intombazana ukuba athi ukuba ndiyayithanda, ucinga. Le meko ayikho elula njengoko kubonakala xa efika kuqala. Ngelo xesha linye intloko yakho kancinci ezinambuzelayo kule mbono: njengoko intombazana ukuba athi ukuba ndiyayithanda,, akuyi kuba nzima kum, kodwa ingaba imvakalelo yam efanayo? Kungekudala, uqala ukuthandabuza wena inyaniso uthando lwakhe umlawuli angxamele besini esahlukileyo. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka 'zifunjwe ngenqindi "yaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo into, kunokutshiseka. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto ukuba babe neentloni ukuvuma ukuba awuzange wazi njani na intombazana ithi: "Mna ndithanda ngayo", uze ukhethe ukwenza amagama afanelekileyo. abathandi ngaphambili bangi ceba iindlela ezaneleyo ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo, yaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukuboleka engekho namava olwaneleyo yebinzana uthando lwakhe uthanda umntu. Emva kokuba bezazi ezi ndlela zilandelayo, uza kuphinda abuze: "Indlela uxelele intombazana ukuba ndiyayithanda?"

Okokuqala, kufuneka ukuba sinyaniseke xa uthe wamvuma iimvakalelo zakho. Cela into umnqweno yakho ngosuku yothando. Zakho zonxibelelwano kunye intombazana kufuneka athathe indawo ngokuphandle ngokwendalo, ngaphandle unaloo a ngenjongo efihlakeleyo. Ukuba, umzekelo, yiya kwicandelo ezemidlalo, ngoko emva kokuba iiklasi wacela ukuba ahambe ikhaya lakhe. Ukuba wabelana kunye nabahlobo bakhe, ngoko ke, ukuba isangqa labo, baya kuba nako ukuxelela ukuba kuye ixesha elide ekhangela ukuba intlanganiso.

Okwesibini, uyakwazi umtsalane amanenekazi. Mnike naye bamphathele omhle seentyatyambo ulithumele ngekhuriya ukusebenza. Ukuba ngaba umfundi, izise isipha kulo abaphulaphuli. Ukuba wenza njalo, "i baneentloni", ngoko zama ukufumana phezu le yokuphuma umlilo okanye ukuvuma iimvakalelo layo ngencwadi ebhaliweyo.

"Indlela Bhala intombazana ukuba ndiyayithanda?" - eniyicelayo. Yinto elula: bhala amagama amathathu: "I love you" kwi window wakhe - kwaye uqiniseke ukuba siqonde kuyo. Musa ukulibala ukucela inombolo yakhe yefowuni - uza kuba nethuba owongezelelweyo babhalele naye. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba imida oko kuvumelekile - kuyimfuneko ukuba abe naye kakuhle kakhulu kwaye cultured.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyazibuza, 'Ndiza kubonisa njani ukuba ndiyayithanda? "Kwaye uya kufumana impendulo. Okokuqala kufuneka ukuba uwine ukuzithemba oosisi babo abaselula. Myeke aqonde ukuba uhlale ukulungele ukuza amaxesha kunzima ukuba amncede. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unengxaki nge computer yakho, amncede kule ngokwabo (ukuba bona ngokwabo okulungileyo, kunjalo), okanye ngoncedo abahlobo bakhe. Ukuba ukufumana ikhaya lakhe into ezaphukileyo, uthabathe inyathelo ukusombulula le ngxaki ngaphandle kokuba ulinde de ucela yona ngokwayo. Uyacetyiswa ukuba kumema intombazana kwi yokuzonwabisa ngokuhlwa, bathenga kwi amatikiti efanayo ikonsathi okanye movie.

Kufuneka wazi ukuba nayiphi na indlela kuloyiso intliziyo inenekazi eliselula ilungile yaye kukho imali enkulu kubo. kuya kubakho njengephupha engqondo! Ukuba anisondelanga enye indlela ukuhendwa, ngoko sebenzisa elinye - kwaye uya kuphumelela!