Homophobes - ngubani na? Intsingiselo yegama elithi "homophobe"

ngonyaka ngamnye ngakumbi nangakumbi liphuhlise zenzululwazi, yaye kunye nabo eziphuculiweyo abanye. phantse zengqondo yonke imihla ukusebenzisa amagama amatsha oluntu.
Ingakumbi amazwi abaninzi "yokoyika ngokugqithiseleyo" nesiphelo. Lumo - unkwantyo, okanye uloyiko, kuphetshwa okanye bangathandi into. Kubonakala ukuba abantu boyika kuphela eziphakamileyo okanye ebumnyameni, kodwa izinto ezibonakala nengqondo umoyike. Ngokomzekelo, umntu ngokwenene eloyikekayo inani-13, abantu bezinye iintlanga okanye abameli zobufanasini. Umbuzo ethandwa kakhulu: "abathandanayo - i ngubani" ntoni na aba bantu, oko ukoyika, ukuphepha okanye bamkelekile?

Etymology kunye semantics kwekota

Yintoni "uwenyanye '? Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ilizwi livela yamaGrike yaye libhekisela kulandelayo: "homo" - ngokufanayo, yaye "fob" (Phobos) - ukoyika ethile. Ngoko ke, abantu bathwaxwa "sifo", bonisa indlela ezimbi ngayo nayiphi ezibonisa zobufanasini, akunamsebenzi nangayiphi na indlela.

Thumela uphawu ngokohlobo elinye igama le meko ukuba kwengqondo George Vaynberg America kule 70s kwincwadi yakhe. Ukususela ngoko, eli gama lisetyenziswa zizazinzulu kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo kunye namaziko ophando amaxwebhu ezahlukeneyo zoncwadi.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na intsingiselo yegama elithi "homophobe", amaxesha amaninzi oko olusetyenziswe ukuchonga abantu abafumana iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo ngayo amalungu zobufanasini.

Abathandanayo: Ngubani na woyika?

Ngaphandle kwento yokuba icandelo elithi "Phobos", oko kukuthi, uloyiko, enyanisweni imeko yahlukile. Homophobes ningoyiki of athandana namanye kunye nezitabane, kodwa ncam koko. Abantu abakhetha abafowunelwa efanayo-sex, ngokunyanisekileyo phele ukhuseleko yabo nempilo, leyo kungonakalisa uwenyanye ingakumbi ekrakra. Ukulahlwa nezimo zengqondo - oku isimo sengqondo kakhulu elula lwabantu nepriemlyuschih ubufanasini. Kodwa abantu abathandana ezivulekileyo kunye nezitabane abakwazi ukuthatha emsebenzini, ukukhanyela iinzuzo zentlalo, ukuxhatshazwa, bamtyabula kwaye ibulale. Mhlawumbi kufuneka ziye ngokuba homophobes "geterofilami", okt abantu uthathe kuphela ulwalamano zemveli phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.

Umda phakathi ukulahlwa sibacaphukele

Eneneni, umahluko ocacileyo phakathi inkcaso ngoxolo amafanasini kwaye evulekileyo abathandanayo nzima okanye engenakwenzeka. Ezi meko kumpompoza omnye komnye, ungakwazi ukuthatha enye okanye olunye uhlobo, okanye aliveli.

Bakholelwa ukuba abantu nesawo ubudlelwane mnandi ngokupheleleyo lobufanasini. Ukwanga intombazana sanga guy - "obuqhelekileyo" abantu ababamkeli olu lwalamano, kuba uthando olufanayo-sex ayinikezi inzala. Loo phindo yenye neemvakalelo ezisisiseko, esilawula abantu phambili kwindlela zophuhliso kwixesha elizayo. Xa alala akavumi ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye unesibalo se usana, ngoko ke "sengqondo engalunganga".

imiba yezengqondo yabantu bobulili

Kuyaziwa ukuba abanye abantu bakholisekile into yokuba abantu besini esifanayo bazive ninomdla omnye komnye, ngoxa abanye ngomsi- siphikise nakwenzeka kwalo. Kutheni na, nokuba yintoni na catch? Umbuzo ngulo: "abathandanayo - lowo va nga ukuzenza ukuba i" obuqhelekileyo "amadoda namabhinqa kunye neminqweno ezifihlakeleyo?"

Kukho uguqulelo umdla kakhulu - ukuziphatha ngokusebenzayo ngakumbi ngobundlobongela amafanasini, kokukhona ufuna ukuphambukisa ingqalelo ngokwakhe kwaye avele "obuqhelekileyo." Njengoko wabhala ngexesha lakhe Zigmund Freyd, wonke umntu - ulifanasini afihlakeleyo. Mhlawumbi oku kukhokelela siziphathe ngamandla, kwaye ngamandla kubo ngothando evulekileyo lobufanasini.

bekufika ngaphakathi

Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukukhankanya olunye uhlobo abathandanayo, ekuthiwa internality. It nangoku ayifumanekanga, kutheni amadoda kunye nabafazi baye baba ngabanquli ubudlelwane besini esifanayo. Wena sityhola kwentlungu ebuntwaneni, ubundlobongela ngokwesondo, impembelelo fashion. Kunjalo, izigidi yabaphenduleyo gay and lesbian bayavuma ukuba Ndakhula eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo nabazali abanothando nokuzonwabisa yemveli. Kutheni kukho "inkqubo crash", yaye umntu uqalisa ukubandakanya abameli besini esifanayo? Loo mfihlelo inkulu.

Ukuqwalasela imincili jikelele kumxholo ubufanasini, alalanayo abaninzi bazive Ukwehluleka uthando zobufanasini. Esi sihloko entsonkothileyo kakhulu ngezengqondo, ityala apho, kakade, loo nto izimvo zoluntu. Ukuba kudla Iifomu kufuneka yakwenza nesenzeko ezahlukeneyo, yaye omnye wabo - ngaphakathi sibacaphukele. Gay or lesbian ayamkelwa akukho ngokwakhe okanye ihlabathi ngeenkanuko ngenkuthalo ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane eziqhelekileyo namabhinqa. Ezo gomofob Nedlac azonwabanga kakhulu, njengoko kumiselwe yi isakhono ulonwabo oluntu ungubani na. Aba bantu basoloko abafumana ukuzisola angayithatheli ngqalelo zabo ukuzithemba kunye ukuhlala esoyika sesichengeni.

Iingcinga kulo mbono yenkcubeko yabantu bobulili

Ngoko ke iye ngokwembali, ukuba kukho iingingqi ezinxulumene amafanasini abanyanisekileyo ngakumbi zibhuqe. Kwaye kukho amazwe musa ukwamkela abafowunelwa efanayo-sex nezimanyumnyezi, nkqu ngexesha langoku eqhubekayo. Ukuze siqonde indlela zinto ndizithetha ehlabathini namhlanje, bekufika, cinga apho semthethweni umtshato besini esifanayo, yaye apho namanje zidlale ngaye, Uyazigculela namadoda zobufazi.

Kukholelwa ukuba amazwe Western kwaye Yurophu ziyakwazi ukumelana kakhulu ubufanasini. Abathandana, Dabane, abanxiba njenga- kunye bisexuals ningenaxhala naloyiko kwaye musa ukukufihla, kodwa kunoko, ubambe kwimiju- gay and zibheke ulwalamano lwabo kwinqanaba likazwelonke.

I nokuxubana kunye nomhla evunywe iimboniselo ihlabathi eentshaba enkulu ubufanasini. Kukho into enjalo - "homophobes Russian," oko kuthetha abantu abangabakhe abafowunelwa efanayo-sex kakhulu nodlame yintiyo. Kuyinto nje ukuqondana - imbali yethu ngamaxesha onke wayekhalazela "sodomy", yaye kumaxesha ombuso ukuba ubufanasini abethelelwe.

Ngelo xesha linye ngokucacileyo sifakwe kumaxwebhu eGrisi naseRoma amajoni mandulo nesibindi zange mathidala ukubonisa uthando koogxa bakhe ubugcisa, kwaye aluchaphazeli sengqondo uluntu ancamathelayo kuzo. Abaninzi ababhali abaziwayo, iimvumi kunye namagcisa obala amafanasini zabo ulala okanye ubufanasini, yaye namhlanje evulekileyo kunye nezitabane - super ethandwa fashion abayili, abalawuli, abasasazi kunye lomculo.

Abathandanayo emhlabeni

Phezu kwazo nje iinzame iseke nokunyamezela ezona amafanasini ehlabathini, abaxhasi ubudlelwane besini esifanayo uze uhlaselwa.

Ngokomzekelo, 9 ngaphandle amafanasini 10 American ngokuphandle bathi beva izithuko kwintetho yakhe, kunye wesithathu elaziwayo ukuba ubundlobongela onamava kakubi homophobes. Kwakhona-manani uyaqinisekisa ukuba nkqu-isikolo abantwana ukuphulaphula iingxelo 30 uwenyanye ngemini - koontanga, ootitshala kunye nabantu abadala.

Kunzima kakhulu amafanasini bahlala kumazwe amaSilamsi, apho ngenxa geeyami evulekileyo kunye nezitabane amalungiselelo ukuzingela nentshutshiso. Ekuhambeni ukuxhatshazwa abantu nobufanasini nje kuva izithuko nezisongelo, kodwa kubethwa kanobom bade babulawe. Umzekelo kula mazwe ayanceda Iraq ne Iran.

KwaSirayeli, izinto akukho ngcono. eyaziwa kakuhle kakhulu isiganeko uluntu kwihlabathi ukuba kwenzeka ngo-2005 xa kuqhutywa oku kuvezwa gay. Emva koko, ezitratweni zomzi eyayibanjelwe enye rally - abachasi imikhosi gay. Bayithatha izibhengezo sifunda ukuba ubufanasini - isifo, baphosa abaxhasi a izikhongozeli besini umngcelele kunye endleni kunye nomchamo.

Kubonakala, homophobes akukho ngozi. Ngubani na - akukho nto umbulali, kwaye savages, ukulungele ukuba zilidle Kwaya?

Obufanayo kunye abathandanayo kumabona kude

Ekubeni TV ziye amaqabane ethu rhoqo, best abahlobo kunye nababoneleli iindaba, uluvo uluntu esekwe show, iinkqubo zikamabonwakude kunye izibhengezo-ntengiso. Mhlawumbi kungenxa kamabonakude "obuqhelekileyo" abantu ehlabathini jikelele ukuba amafanasini baninzi kangangokuba kungcono makawamkele, kunokuba ukukhanyela. Ukongeza, izithixo ezininzi Musa ukubusithelisa isini sabo kwaye babe amafanasini. Kodwa abachasi uthando olufanayo-sex, bekufika ezicacileyo udada, hayi ngaphantsi kwe abaxhasi, mhlawumbi kakhulu. Iincwadi, imifanekiso eshukumayo, iingoma Sinokukuhlaba amadlala nomdla kubantu besini esifanayo, ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane obushushu nokuzala. Kulo mzekelo, homophobes - ngubani na? I musa ukuba abantu lwa koqhubekeko uluntu Emhlabeni?

umzabalazo olungenasiphelo

Longquzulwano phakathi ezahlukeneyo amazwe, iinkcubeko, iinkolo buza kuhlala ngonaphakade. Abantu abanakho ukuqonda amaxesha elula abantu ukuba bazigqibele ngokwabo - wonke kweli hlabathi unelungelo izimvo zabo, izimvo zabo kunye nokhetho zabo. Ubufanasini, nantoni na, nje omnye umahluko phakathi kwabantu.

Akukho mfuneko philosophize, enoba loo nto sisifo, unxaxho ngokwasengqondweni okanye peculiarity ulinikwe livela phezulu. Lumkileyo - isicombululo kakhulu kule meko. Phila, yonwaba, kwaye musa ondikhathazayo sonwabe nabanye abantu, baye bonke aba. Okanye uvuyo unamathela kungena "utshaba" homophobes iflegi oyisiwe, ethi ukuba lwa ekuhlambululeni uhlanga okanye isizwe. Nazi nje umzabalazo akukho ngaphezu imfazwe uHitler nxamnye amaYuda, le ngqondo enye kunye wamagazi.