Ubudlelwane, Kwezitabane
Yintoni na umnxeba ukoyika sex? unyango
Abantu ngaphandle ukucalulwa zinqabile. Man sesichengeni: akukho usoloko ezidunyelwe nomtsalane, ubutyebi eziphathekayo, italente, luck. Asinto uhlale usempilweni kwaye malilungiselelwe imeko yezentlalo apho udla ubomi. Kwaye oku nje inxalenye imiba nokuthintela ukuyilwa nokwanela ebantwini, luncedo yaye ngenxa yoko, ngokupheleleyo psyche esempilweni. Ukoyika kule ndoda esabekwa ngemvelo, nguye ithuku of self-kulondolozwe. Umnqophiso walo eyakhayo ukuba baphile kwiimeko eziyingozi. Ukucalulwa - a uloyiko zophendlo lwezifo ezinganxulumananga self-ulondolozo, odlayo amandla kwabantu, nododobalisa intuthuzelo yakhe nempumelelo ebomini. Enye yeyona ixhaphakileyo besoyikisela zophendlo lwezifo ezifana - ukoyika lobuhlobo. Yintoni na umnxeba ukoyika ngesondo kubonisa nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo? Zintoni izinto ezibangela ukuba esi sifo, sibaphathe njani nokuthintela imbonakalo isizukulwana esitsha? Kwezi kunye neminye imiba kuya yanane iinkcukacha ngezantsi.
Akathandi ngesondo isifo sengqondo
Ukoyika ngobuhlobo ayikho imeko nganye nokuphazamiseka engqondweni. Kwalona proximity ukuba zibangelwa yi nokungafuni ngesondo ngenxa yezizathu zendalo - kwiminyaka akuqolanga, impilo enkenenkene, iqabane ngokwesondo unattractiveness kunye neemeko ezifanayo. Naye uya kubuya. Ngoku sivandlakanye umbuzo eyahlukileyo kancinane: "? Yintoni ukoyika ngesondo, xa sithetha ngayo njengokuba isifo sengqondo"
izizathu erotophobia
Erotophobia isizathu kwiimeko ezininzi le trauma neyasengqondweni ebuntwaneni. Ukuqala umsebenzi ngesondo esemncinane, naluphi na uhlobo lobundlobongela, ukuziphatha ezigwenxa abazali okanye, icala, akhuliswe bengqongqo, indlela ekucingwa zoluntu zonqulo orthodox, ukuba ziphantsi ukuvala - konke oku kungabangela kuphetshwa umntwana ukuba ubuhlobo kunye ukuvaleka namandla ngokwezesondo. Xa umntwana uyakhula, kwinqanaba izivamvo kungabonakala noloyiko ngesondo. Lo mntu uya kuva esoyika ukuzikhulula ezo mvakalelo ezingakhiyo, apho wadibana ebuntwaneni.
Erotophobia inokuba sisiphumo ezibuhlungu sele nayo abadala - ukudlwengula, cyclically ukuphindaphinda le meko zolwakhiwo kobuhlobo, ukuqiniseka ukuba neentlobano zesini kunye nezalamane okanye noluntu, njl ...
Ukuphuhlisa erotophobia kunokubangela izakhiwo kunye ekukhotyokisweni zasekhaya womntu. Ukunganeliseki kunye ukubonakala kwazo, ubuntu, ubume ekuhlaleni iba nefuthe elibi ngesondo kwabantu, kwaye ngenxa yoko kukho le yokoyika ngokugqithiseleyo. Ukoyika izakhiwo ezinxulumene-sex, kuxhaphaka kakhulu kwabasetyhini ekuthanda ukuba amavila nemilo enerisekanga amabele zabo. Amadoda kakhulu amathuba okuba ezimbaxa malunga nobukhulu incanca encinane.
Erotophobia abe ngenxa ezinye izinto - ukoyika nayiphi zoqhagamshelwano ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nabantu (nokuba touch eziqhelekileyo okanye ukuxhawula), uloyiko ukufumana ezinjengezifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini of, wamitha, ngubani iiholide ukuba umntu, ukuba umzimba wakhe oze. Kungakhathaliseki nokuba igama ukucekiswa, ukoyika ngesondo kweli cala aphakamileyo. Kwaye phambi kokuba ufuna ukusebenza, ngokulandelelana, kunye yokoyika-imbangela.
nemiphumela erotophobia
Abafazi abahluphekayo erotophobia, banokuba izifo ezifana anorgasmia kunye vaginismus. ukoyika yezifo ucansi emadodeni kungakhokelela induku psychogenic. Kodwa le zomzimba nje.
Ukunqongophala sex idla ziziphumo komsipha yonxulumano. Abantu abanengxaki enkulu nenzondo ucingisise ukuze ngesondo, kunzima ukuseka ubudlelwane ezintsha, bangabi sakhunjulwa uphuhliso lwabo. Kakade ke, sex is not into ephambili yelizwe kwiqembu umcimbi womntu nomfazi, yaye nje enye indlela yokwakha intsapho eyomeleleyo. Kakhulu ebalulekileyo ukuvumelana ebhedini izinto ezinkulu kakhulu - iimbono eqhelekileyo kwi nabebehlalisana ubomi, isidanga lokuvuthwa kwazo kunye noxanduva, nokuqonda kunye trust. Kodwa kuphela xa kukho isizathu eziphathekayo kunye nobomi ngokwesondo, ngokwaneleyo ukuba ukukholisa omabini amaqabane, unako ukugqiba ubudlelwane elide.
Indlela ukuphelisa ukoyika sex? Ngaphambi into ukuphelisa, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba oku kunjalo. yindlela erotophobia, cinga kancinane emva koko, makhe siqale sithethe ngento.
Sex and Society
Society malunga nemiba bobulili nempembelelo iingqondo zabantu. Xa izangqa emnxinwa uhlobo yobu kwiilali ezincinane zazo zengingqi imithetho ongabhalwanga isihloko sex is not wazamkela kubonwa njengento emdaka ngokungafanelekileyo, ezitokisini. Oku yindlela wokhuselo wendalo yoluntu ukusuka ukulalana abantu kakubi ngamnye, nto leyo enokuzisa isiphithiphithi phakathi kwakhe umphefumlo ngabemi umthetho. izifebe Local musa Ndibabale, Sinokukuhlaba amadlala, kunye namantombazana elivisayo wayifaka umzekelo negative. Ityala efanayo - nezenkolo, exhasa iingcamango isilili sokurhoxiswa ngaphambi komtshato. Olu hlobo yokuhlasela ezingqondweni, Kakade ke, kunokuba nempembelelo yokoyika ngesondo ebantwini kuye angekayazi eyona isimo yayo. Kodwa apha sithetha thina malunga ukucekiswa ethile, kwaye urhulumente lowa isenesazela umntu, apho kuyimfuneko ukuya ngaphaya izimvo zoluntu kunye ekubumbeni owakho umbono wabo ihlabathi.
Ukoyika lobuhlobo kuqala
Oku akunanto yakwenza erotophobia ukoyika zendalo abantu abatsha phambi kokuba vunakulobye lokuqala. Ukoyika neentlobano zesini okokuqala - amava ezifanayo ezinxulumene yokungabi namava. uvavanyo ebaxiweyo nangokweemvakalelo esi siganeko lukhatshwa utshintsho hormone e olufikisayo, oliqhophololo ngaphakathi kwisangqa yonxibelelwano, imfumba ngokuchasene omnye komnye ulwazi eniyisweleyo, noko ukwenza ngethuba baqale ukulalana.
Iingxaki Kwasemva in Women
Uloyiko sex kokuba luzelwe amabhinqa - kwakhona kubume bendalo ingqondo, badiniwe ethwele umntwana kunye nokuzalwa. Xa ubomi unina wosana olo xa utshintsha indlela yobomi, yimiba ephambili ezempilo kunye nokhuseleko sana, kwaye oku konxunguphalo, kunye omabini amaqabane. Plus, imfuno kwakhona kungekuphela nje ingqondo kodwa ke amalungu yabafazi. Oogqirha azilukhuthazi ukuba ngesondo ukuya kwiiveki 8 emva kokuzalwa, ixesha ukubuyisela umzimba sikanina. akayi kuba ukoyika ngobuhlobo bakhe ngeli xesha ngaphezu ibonakalisa ithuku of self-kulondolozwe. Omnye umbuzo, ukuba kwimeko enjalo siza kulibaziseka ukuba ixesha elide. Intlungu nengcutheko xa kuzalwa umntwana oluphenthwe ekuvaleni amandla ngesondo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuphuhliswa erotophobia.
iindlela Kakhulu of sex
Amathandabuzo malunga olutsha amava ngokwesini aphucukileyo akuthethi ukuba umntu ngokuphathelele kulo yokoyika ngokugqithiseleyo. Uloyiko ngesondo kunye neqela amaqabane, ababengamadlelane sex mnye, kwii kungena ezimpundu, kwiindawo ezinxulumene ne ngokugqithiseleyo, njl - .. Ingaba, njengoko kunjalo echazwe ngasentla kunye nembono yoluntu, imveliso weli cala eqhelekileyo lokuba sezingqondweni. Kuphela kulo mzekelo, ngaphaya kwemida wazakhela. Omnye umbuzo - nokuba ukuya ngaphaya ezi nkalo kufuneka? Ungubani na? Le ndoda ngokwayo okanye iqabane lakhe? Ke ukuba neqabane nabingelela ukuba akufuneki isiqingatha iindlela ephucukileyo sex wayo?
Izibini batshatileyo ixesha elide, ukuze babhenele neyantlukwano ngesondo, kuquka iifomu zawo ephucukileyo. Olu phuhliso kobudlelwane zesini, ingakumbi eyakhelwe besini zakudala. Kodwa ukubandakanyeka oliqabane umdlalo ezahlukeneyo neefom obuphezulu ngesondo kusekwangoko yobudlelwane Lunyawukile eqhelekileyo. Ufuna ukuzonwabisa komhlana bobulili nganye counter-umnqamlezo sizalwa abantu isilwanyana lubalaseleyo isiqalo, ngenxa yoko, iimfuno ngokugqithisileyo ngenxa ngesondo. Abantu abanjalo badla ukubeka ubomi babo uthando kwindawo yokuqala, kuba abakwazi ukulawula amandla zabo zesini. It unamandla kangangokuba, ngaphandle kokuba kuthengiswa, kuya kubo ngokohlobo ndlongo lwangaphakathi. Nabantu abanjalo kunzima ukuba ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhlala: "baya kuhamba ubusuku" njalo ude ndiyitshise yonke isakhono sabo.
Ukwakha ubudlelwane, kubandakanywa isini, ngcono nabantu ndingenguye ebusuku, akukho uluntu, akukho lizwe kunye nathi.
Not nomlingani
Uloyiko sex ayikwazi iboniswe kunye neqabane ngalinye. Ngokwendalo, kulo mzekelo, asikwazi sithetha erotophobia. Kwenzeka ukuba abantu bayathanda iimpawu yakhe yokomoya, kuba sengqondo kwisikhundla esiphezulu eluntwini, kodwa thina asikwazi ukwenza umzimba wakho bafuna kuye ngokwesondo. Kwaye njalo oku ngenxa ivumba sayo akuthandeki okanye ekhubekisayo. Ngenxa yokoyika lobuhlobo kwimeko enjalo, ungenza uthabathe ukuthingaza kunesiqhelo ukuya phambili nale unxibelelwano iqabane kunye nobuhlobo. Kubalulekile kuqala kwiinto zonke, sinyaniseke wena ukuhlalutya, akukho umnqweno ukuchitha ixesha nomntu onjalo ngeyeza nesithukuthezi, ithuba ukucombulula iingxaki zabo zemali, ukwanelisa izalamane okruqulayo, njalo njalo. N. Kwaye kuphela ngoko ingqalelo imiba enxulumene sex ngokwayo.
sifezeke
Ngelo kwisigaba ezithile zobomi babantu abaye bagqiba kwelokuba azinikele ukuze sifezeke, ngokuqhelekileyo kunciphisa imfuno yazo zendalo ukuze ngesondo. Ukungafuni ukungena wayezazi ulwalamano nabantu abanjalo ukusuka usenokukhangeleka kukoyika ngesondo. Kodwa akukho ukoyika, kodwa akukho mfuneko. amandla babantu, ukuba uyenyuka kumaziko asezantsi lomzimba inobuqhophololo (chakras) kwi phezulu ifumana nokuphunyezwa kwayo enkonzweni kaThixo, indlela ukucamngca, ubuchule, ubuso abazi ukwanda. Kule meko, akukho mntu ujonge ban ngokwayo ukuba neentlobano zesini egameni into ephakamileyo okanye nemfuneko yitshata weemonki. Sithetha ukuyilwa umendo ngokomoya ngaphandle kukulahlwa behlabathi - endleleni ngaphandle iintloni, kodwa abazi, aqolileyo, ukuqonda okwaneleyo ehlabathini aze avuke ngaphezu iimfuno zabantu asezantsi.
iingcali zonyango erotophobia
Indlela ukuba balahle yokoyika sex? Nokuxilonga erotophobia kufuneka ube yincutshe kuphela. A impazamo xa uneengxaki ebomini olusondeleyo -obraschatsya ngoncedo wengqondo okanye wezifo zengqondo ukusebenza uluhlu olubanzi iingxaki zabantu. Ukuba uqaphela iimpawu erotobofii kufuneka ajonge ziingcali elimxinwa - sexologist. Oogqirha yale zobungcali kunye nokuncedisa ephambili ekupheliseni oonobangela zengqondo yale ukucekiswa, kwaye ukusombulula umba kunye obubonakala clinical.
self-unyango
Ngaba endinazo, ngaphandle koncedo kwagqirha ukuba balahle erotophobia? Ukuba sithetha iingxaki komzimba ezibangela ukubonakala yokoyika ukuba ngesondo, ewe. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba wonke umntu unako yokuba yena-Psychologist ngaphandle uncedo abantwana ngaphandle ukusebenza nge trauma zabo. Enye into - ukoyika sex kwi imvelaphi kwizakhiwo. Ukumelana nazo aqale ukuzibandakanya kwimidlalo, ukwenza utyando esele nencum, ukuhlaziya kwimbonakalo kwimbonakalo yabo, njalo-njalo. N.
imfundo kwabantwana ngokwesondo
Erotophobia kunokunyanga, kulula ukunqanda oko. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wayehlala elinomoya obutofotofo engqondweni kwangexesha bafumana ulwazi oluchanekileyo malunga nkcukacha zeli hlabathi, ngakumbi ngayo yonke into oza ngesondo. imfundo sex ludlala indima ebalulekileyo ulwalamano phakathi kwabantwana nabazali.
Ngesondo yinxalenye ubomi ngayo umntu omdala, kunye nabantu abatsha liza kufika msinyane elo okanye kamva ukuba isifundo esi sihloko. Kodwa ke, yeha, ulwazi phezu kwayo, bengengabo ngabazali, hayi evela kootitshala, kwaye ukusuka TV ikhusi, online okanye isangqa yakho kubahlobo, ngenxa yobudala babo ukude kakhulu imbono echanekileyo yezinto.
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