Umntwana ukuqina. Kufuneka wenze ntoni yaye ukuba uqhagamshelane uncedo?

"Indlela ukuzisa umntwana ukuqina?" - lo mbuzo mhlawumbi ifanelekileyo namhlanje, enokufumaneka kwiimagazini abasetyhini abaninzi kunye neforam. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba oku kuziphatha zombini plus kunye thabatha. Isidima, Kakade ke, kukuba umntwana afunde ngenkuthalo ukuhlola ihlabathi, udlala, uchaza iimvakalelo zabo, funda lukhulu. Kwelinye icala, kunokuba yingxaki enkulu, ngenxa yokuba abazali bafuna ukuhlala ngoxolo nenzolo, kwaye nomdlandla ngathi ngummangaliso, ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuvumela ukuba ukuphumla. Kungenxa yoko le nto oomama abaninzi cinga ukuziphatha yomntwana eqhelekileyo nezendalo. Xa nqaku namhlanje sethu siya kuzama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni na syndrome ukungahlaliseki ebantwaneni, kwakunye nendlela yokuhlangabezana nayo kunye ilahleko engephi.

Ngawaphi amagama linokuchazwa le kid? Okokuqala zonke - nto kakhulu. Nguye i esebenzayo, inokusityeda, aphilileyo, nxanelwe ulwazi. Nangona kunjalo, ezi mpawu niqalise ukuya ngaphezu koko kuvunyelwa ngokuba yingxaki enkulu. Abazali abaninzi bayaqonda ukuba wabo umntwana ukuqina. Kufuneka wenze ntoni na nabo kwezi meko?

Kuba isiqalo kucetyiswa ukuba bafunde ukwahlula ukungahlaliseki ukusuka umsebenzi olula. Oomama abaninzi ngoku ukhalazela abantwana babo kuba nje okuthiwa kuba unomsindo kakhulu okanye wayeyoliswa kakhulu lemidlalo yaphandle. Kakade ke, kulula ukucinga ukuba zonke kwi ukungahlaliseki, ku hlamusela ngokwayo kwinto yokuba akukho ungenza ntoni umntwana olweyeliselayo. Noko ke, kule meko, oku yi kuphela uqi encane odlamkileyo abangakwaziyo kubizwa ngokuba ukuqina. Kulo mzekelo, wena kudingeka nje ukuba ufunde ukulawula alathise amandla kwicala elifanelekileyo.

Ngoku makhe sithethe ngeemeko apho kunokwenzeka ngokwenene ukuba achaze yinyaniso: umntwana ukuqina. Yintoni ekufanele siyenze nendlela ukuyinyusa? Ingqalelo ukungahlaliseki disorder, okanye ADHD kuba elifutshane - sisifo, yaye unzulu ngengqiqo ukuba ukumelana nayo, ngamanye amaxesha, kuba nzima. Amaninzi ADHD abantwana baphathwa zokufihla ukuba ukususela ekuzalweni abazi ukuba abazali abanjalo weasel. Lidla ngokwemvelo, ukuhluma kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, ngokulandelelana, kulo lonke ukufunda ngokuzimeleyo. Kubonakaliswa ukungahlaliseki - oku nje enye iimpawu okhulayo sifo. Loo umntwana kulula ukuba isaziso - yena ukuzola phantsi owesibini. Wayesoloko kwi angqingqwa izinto, sisoloko ingumkhokeli walo. Nam izisongelo okanye okhala ukubeka endaweni akunakwenzeka (ngokuchasiweyo usana yesiqhelo wenziwe). Ngamanye amaxesha ezi abantwana nakubona ukuba mabaziphathe ngenkuthalo kakhulu, kuba ngokuba bona yimeko osisigxina. Kuyinto kwezi meko, sinako sele sithi umntwana ukuqina. Yintoni ekufanele siyenze nendlela ukumelana nesi sifo?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bantwana bafuna inkxaso kunye noncedo olulodwa. Funda ukuphulaphula usana lwakho, kodwa ukuba zivakalise iimfuno zabo. Ngenxa ADHD sisifo, kufuneka ukuba ube nomntwana sithambile kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Akukho imikhwazo, umntwana - mhlawumbi isenokuba kuphela. Funda indlela yokukhuthaza toddler ngenxa yokuziphatha kakuhle, kunye nobungakanani ityala amahlwempu.

Kule meko, ukuba wakho umntwana nomdlandla, ukuba benze ntoni, ngengqondo ngokukhawuleza unyango. Dibana ingcaphephe malunga nokuba nako na unyango lwesi sifo. Iphathwa - kufuneka nje ukwazi ngayo.