Ukukhulelwa weSibini umntwana omdala

ukukhulelwa Second - oko kuyamangalisa! Umama sele uyazi into kulindeleka, yena ezolile, akanaye nokudideka asoloko ehamba zonke iinyanga ezilithoba le kokumitha usana yangaphambili. Zonke mvakalelo eziqhelekileyo, uloyiko ngaphantsi kakhulu kunye neemvakalelo. Kodwa esinye isizathu sokuba amava apho - umntwana wokuqala. Wonke umama, ukoyika wobukhwele abantwana. Ngequbuliso ixhonti esiphezulu iyakrakra umzalwana usana okanye udade? Ivela umona ndlongo? Ke okona kubalulekileyo, njengoko umama yahlula ingqalelo labo phakathi koonyana ababini sele, ngaphandle kokubacaphukisa nabani?

Ngoko ke, ukuqala, xa abadala ixesha lokuba bafunde wemvula entsapho. Ukuba oku kuphela ukukhulelwa ucwangciso yesibini, kufuneka bathethe ngaye lo mntwana, le nkqubo ukuze zilibaziseke.

Kodwa ukuba ukukhulelwa yesibini sele a bakwazi accompli, ngoko enye incoko. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uthethe ngawo kwikota yokuqala. Abantwana, ingakumbi abo bancinane, akukho ingqiqo ingqiqo ka ixesha lokuba kubo ilizwi "ngokukhawuleza" lithetha nje ngoku, umzuzu. sebenzile Long umzalwana okanye udade (yaye kuya kufuneka ulinde lo jonga) iba ludinisayo kakhulu. Ngoko ke kungcono ukuba ukulibazisa iindaba de nonina rounded isisu kunye perturbations baby.

Emva Zinjengonomgogwana lokwaluka, xa wayekhulelwe umntwana wakhe wesibini asiyo mfihlakalo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ayigcine ukwaziswa zonke ezenzekayo. Thetha ngendlela liziphatha umzalwana okanye udade, njengoko kunjalo ngoku, yintoni ukuba hiccups - kumnandi! Beka esundu esiswini wakhe, makhe umntwana uzive iingcangcazela, pougadyvaet ukuba wabeka usana: imilenze, iingalo, pyatochku. Have fun, uthethe isisu sakho, kubonakala ukuba ngoku ndicinga umntwana wesibini, uhleke, makazazi inxaxheba ezikhethiweyo igama, indlela onikela amacebiso. Nantso indlela uthando uzalelwa kumalungu cinci intsapho.

Ngeli xesha, kunye abadala kunye nazo neengxaki ezithile. Ngaphambili, umama kwakugquba kunye naye, ukudlala hide sifuna ukubamba-up, wathabatha iingalo, kwaye ngoku bonke uyile. Emva ingcaciso sikama, unqwale intloko, uyavuma, kodwa mthetho ayilwamkeli, umntwana uqala ukuya obubi kunye abangenazigqibo. Nale mpi kunzima, umama kufuneka babonise amandla okumelana kwaye anyamezele kwixesha elinikiweyo, ukuzama ukwenza warhwebesha umntwana ukudlala bazola okunye: ngumzekelo, applique, imidlalo ebhodini. Kaloku, ukuba upopu uyazi ukuba ukukhulelwa yesibini uzisa umda umntwana omdala, makazazi umnyamekelayo yonke imidlalo asebenzayo.

I omdala kunzima kakhulu, kusenokubakho ibinzana elithi, "Wena akundithandi." Ewe, kuba Kuyadanisa kakhulu ukuva, kodwa umntwana unako ukuyiqonda itshintshe ngokupheleleyo indlela yabo yokuphila. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, ukuba athethe naye, uthethe njengaye uthando umama kunye notata, wamanga, wamanga. Umntwana kufuneka bazive omthandayo nangona ukugqitywa ekulindeleke intsapho - ngundoqo nolwalamano kakuhle umntwana omdala ukuba abaselula.

Lo mzuzu lifikile "X", umama uya kungekudala uye esibhedlele. Abazali abaninzi benza impazamo ngokuthumela itakane ngelo xesha olo sana. Kubhetele ukuba beze kukhangela emva kwakhe, yaye umntwana ziya kwaziswa zonke ezenzekayo. Kunye upopu uya kuzisa umama esibhedlele ukuba umzalwana okanye udade, uya kuba uyakholiswa ngabo bonke kokuzalwa kosana, uze kumkhawulela umama esibhedlele, omnye ngowokuqala ukubona usana.

yonke Intsapho ekhaya, ukukhulelwa kwesesibini phezu kwayo, kodwa umsebenzi ubudlelwane abazalwana okanye oodade ngokupheleleyo. Iqala kwixesha elilandelayo, kunzima kakhulu ukuba umntwana omdala. Ke kaloku unina kufuneka bafunde ukuba anikele ingqalelo zombini abantwana bebandezwa abadala. Umthetho eziphambili - musa ukuvumela azive ezingeyomfuneko, kunzima kakhulu ekuqaleni, kodwa ezandleni koomama.