Uhlalutyo umva iingxaki zophuhliso komntwana psychoanalysis

Ezininzi iingxaki kuphuhliso ziye "iingcambu 'yawo ngaphambili ixesha ubudala impilo yabantwana: kwabantwana abancinane kunye azalwe. Ngoko ke, xa psychoanalysis, nto leyo yenzelwe ukumisela izizathu zale okanye ngezifo kuphuhliso komntwana, esebenzisa inkcazelo emva uya imbali, lihlola imeko usapho eyandulela langoku, ngokunjalo ukuseta ubudlelwane phakathi sengqondo nangokweemvakalelo abazali usana olusanda kuzalwa kunye nesantya nophuhliso kwixesha langoku.

Xa ithuba siswini zophuhliso, kwakunye kwiinyanga zokuqala ezintandathu yobomi umntwana ufumana ngokweemvakalelo zengqondo zentlalo abazali ukuba agxile kubo kwinqanaba reflection. psychoanalyst French Dolto F. and K. Elyacheff ukuqinisekisa ukuba iingxaki umntwana ezivelayo kulo kwiinyanga ezilithoba zokuqala yobomi, inokunxulunyaniswa iziganeko ezenzeka kunye nonina kwixesha elifanayo yokukhulelwa. Uhlalutyo emva kokukhulelwa kamama linceda ukucwangcisa esi siganeko ukuhlalutya nokuqonda neemvakalelo waziva kule meko umntwana, kwakunye ukufumana ikhonkco kuphuhliso imeko entsha.

Lo mntwana womfazi owathi ngenyanga yesihlanu zokukhulelwa babeneenjongo ukuzibulala, kwiinyanga ezine okanye ezintlanu ngobomi ngebhaqo ugula. Noko ke, imeko yakhe ibe etsolo, mntwana ubomi emngciphekweni. Ababhali efanayo umzekelo yokwenza yakhe wabonisa ukuba kwiimeko ezinjalo unako ukusebenza ngempumelelo, ukutshintsha imiyalelo isicwangciso sophuhliso. Ukuze wenze oku, abahlalutyi bacebisa ukuthetha nomntwana wakho, ababembikela inyaniso malunga siganeko kunye nokubonisa ukuba siphephe iingxaki. Le ngxoxo lwenziwa kunye kumntwana nawuphi: usana okanye enkulisa. Injongo yale ncoko - hayi ukuqonda izizathu umntwana kwiingxaki zakhe, kunye utshintsho kuphuhliso olungaphezulu kolu fakelo.

Xa bengqondo, ucazululo emva - ujongo kwi yomntwana edlulileyo, khangela iimeko ezinjalo iimeko eziye "indlela kungabangela" yophuhliso imikhwa yomntwana engathandekiyo ngesimilo okanye, phezu koko, negalelo kuma kuphuhliso. Freud, ukusebenza kunye nabantu abadala, befuna unobangela weengxaki zabo nobudlelwane phakathi iinkalo zophuhliso komntwana. Psychoanalyst ucazululo kususelwa iinkumbulo lomguli, ethetha imihla umntu test, de kucaca isizathu sokuba isigulo okanye ingxaki.

Abantwana umhlalutyi isebenzisa idatha, ayinike abazali, hayi umntwana. Umntwana hayi ngokwayo amisele isiqalo yabo yokuziphatha ingxaki, okt. A. Musa ukubukhumbula nje zonke iziganeko lobuntwana bakhe, kodwa esingalaziyo imfuneko ukujongana nazo. baby ukuziphatha kwabo zophendlo lwezifo asetyenziswe njengendlela yokhuselo ngempumelelo, ngoko nokuba umelana xa abazali psychoanalyst sizama ukulungisa le ngxaki. Ngoko ke, enkulisa ukulwa kusenokufuneka ukuba azikhusele usiphongomisile koonyana kwiqela ongamnqandayo ukuhlasela, ukuba buhlungu, ukukhetha zokudlala. Ngalo lonk 'umntwana uyagula usenokucinga esi sifo kuba yintsikelelo, t. To. Ngoncedo walo, yena uyakwazi ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi ekhaya kunye nabazali babo. Ukuze uqonde ukuba yintoni na injongo umntwana zingqondweni ngokubamba ingxaki yakhe, kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuhlalutya kunye naye. Kukholelwa kwi-ofisi umhlalutyi nabazali zabantwana.

Sebenza ndawonye abantwana abangakwaziyo ukuzoba, badlale yaye intetho, eyayibanjelwe nje phambi kwabazali babo, yaye olusondeleyo kunye nabo. Iinkumbulo kokumitha, la mava yokuqala emntwaneni xa intliziyo umsebenzi. Baba isiseko umdlalo esisiseko umntwana abathe ukuziphatha kwabo babonise ubudlelwane ibali yabazali. Emva uhlalutyo emva kuthwalelwa phandle, umhlalutyi ikhuthaza abazali ukuba uphendlo esizimeleyo ukuba izisombululo kwiingxaki, ukutshintsha isimo ukuya umntwana. Kubalulekile ukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kule nkqubo iba injongo yokurhoxiswa kumava elidlulileyo, ukwakha imbono entsha ngenxa imeko yangoku.