Nokudana - USatyo

"Am amakhulu-umkhulu wathi:" Ndiya kuba umnqweno yokuthenga indlu kodwa abangenazo ithuba. I banethuba kuthenga ibhokhwe, kodwa akukho umnqweno. " Ngoko nantsi ukuqinisekisa ukuba iminqweno yethu ayisoloko idibana kunye namathuba zethu. " Sonke siyazi thowusti ifilimu "mbanjwa Caucasus"? Kulo kulandela ukuba utatomkhulu wayefuna ukuthenga indlu, kodwa wayengakwazi ukuba. Kazi eyabangela ukungafani iminqweno kunye kungenzeka? Siye abathuthwayo emva kwexesha kwaye ubone. Great-mkhulu luhlangabezana, oko zikwimeko tight ezingemnandi abacinezelayo ngokwasengqondweni, uyazifohloza emfazini wakhe kunye nabantwana, emehlweni ixhala, ukudana, unxunguphalo kunye lithemba. Konke oko ikuthethayo bleakness looding kwihlabathi ngaphandle. Akakho apha kwaye ngoku, kwaye kwezinye kwihlabathi leengcinga, apho amaphupha kuzaliseka indlu yakhe elide ilindelwe. "Yintoni na, uTatomkhulu" - sicela, kwaye uthi amazwi waManzi, "Owu, ubomi bam - tin! Owu it kumgxobhozo! Ndihlala ngathi okona. " - "Kutheni kunjalo? Kuyinto ngaphandle ikhaya, yaye ubomi Ubomi? "-" Akukho ekhaya, ubomi bam - enye ukuphoxeka. Xa kokufa kwam ndicela ityala ubomi bam. Ngomhla ikhaya akukho nto imbi kangaka nje ucinga. Enyanisweni, yonke into mbi kakhulu! ubomi bam bonke bekusoloko yokuziqhelisa ikonsathi ebizwa ngokuba "Ekhaya". Andizange ndive ikonsathi. " - "Tatomkhulu, musa ukukhathazeka," - sithetha bakuva impendulo: "Yiza Nyova ude lona." Uphakamise uyisemkhulu ukusuka kwesitulo engozini nathi ngentonga yakhe. Kuvela kuye ndlongo, zombini ukusuka ingcuka longxwelerhiweyo. Sijonga uyise-mkhulu, kwaye xela ukuba isimo zabo zengqondo uya kuzenza kwindawo engenakwenzeka. Yena akanako ngokulula kwahlula ngokwabo ingcamango eyeyam ikhaya. Ngokuba kuye, indlu ibaluleke kakhulu, kwaye alikwazi ukuhlawula ingqalelo ukusilela icebo lakhe. Ukongeza, ukuba akukho umnqweno aphume le meko, yaye akanako ukufumana indlela yokuphuma.

Emva kulo mzobo ekruqukile, ndiyacinga, kwacaca umongo walo. USatyo - (ukusuka frustratio Latin - «nenkohliso", "ukusilela", "ulindelo ezililize," "izicwangciso disorder") - yimeko negative yengqondo, zibangelwa nokungakwazi ukufikelela ezinye iimfuno ezibalulekileyo kuye. Xa izicwangciso zethu eziwayo, xa kwindlela eya injongo kukho imiqobo gqithi, kodwa thina kuziva unomnqweno ukuphumeza le njongo, kukho isimo unxunguphalo. Ngamanye amazwi, unxunguphalo - xa iminqweno yethu musa namathuba zethu idibana. Imo uxinezeleko, unxunguphalo, umsindo, ixhala, umsindo, ukuziva yokuphelelwa lithemba.

Ukuya udandatheko akuxhomekekanga nje zimpawu ukunganeliseki nokuxakaniseka kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, umntu uye wasilela ukwenza emini, oko kukhawulweyo kusasa okanye akazange nethutyana lokuba badle sasemini. USatyo kwenzeka xa umgangatho ukungoneliseki akukho kunzima ukuba abantu. Bonke abahlobo bam yee- ezikude unyana kangako wayefuna ukuya ekholejini, abaninzi abazange bafune ukuba bakhonze umkhosi. Ongamoyikiyo ukuba kwenzeke - I ndiphumelele iimviwo. Ndikhumbula ukuba bemlalele ngcelele TV "Seventeen Moments of Spring", waza waya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kuzixhoma. Nzima ukukukholelwa oku, kodwa unobangela wale senzo ezoyikekayo wakhonza ukubaluleka ayithabathele ukuba babhalise kwiikholeji. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ekuphela kwendlela umntu enze na ukuvakaliswa "idabi yobomi" ngokweemvakalelo kakhulu, ukuba nochuku, iimpawu ezingaphuhliswanga volitional. Abazali musa ukuba wafundisa unyana wakhe ukuba ubunzima yobomi kunye nesakhono ukoyisa iingxaki. On top of yonke into, loo mfo mhlawumbi wahlala esimbaxa "musa nje kum." Man, siqinisekile ukuba uthando lwakhe, kwi loop akuyi ukukhwela.

Ukuba ndiyathembisa nje ukuthenga umntwana ithoyi, leyo kakubi wayefuna ukuba, tlhela, yena kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyiphendule ukuthuka, umsindo kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo. Abantu abaninzi zikwimeko ekruqukile, ukuba uphendule le meko njengabantwana. Xa imeko ayilungiseki, kuza iliza yesibini - ukumka ukusuka ubunyani enobujorha zehlabathi nengalunganga ehlabathini amaphupha kunye neminqweno. umntu uxakekile ezishiya kwabafileyo wokhuseleko kwihlabathi ngaphandle okanye ukuzilimaza yena. Amadoda hamba uye iindlamanzi okanye esibi. Abafazi niwudle omnandi okanye uqale ndimkhulule indoda yakhe.
Yiya indoda coupe kunye nomfazi. Umfazi wavula intliziyo: "Ndicinga ukuba umyeni wam ukukopela phezu kwam. Hitcher uthi: "Ndicinga ukuba umfazi wam, nawe - Kwaye Impindezelo yeyam?" Ukuziphindezela. A guy ozama ukuba balale. Bemi umhambi: "Bendiya endaweni yakho wayeza impindezelo revenge !!!" Emva impindezelo ngokuqhelekileyo kuyaphela namdla nokudandatheka ( "Loo nto uya kufa, uya kwazi!"). abafazi abaninzi umnqweno oyikwe e shop. Like itshokolethi uphakamise mood yokuthenga iimpahla okanye zokuthambisa kuthetha ukuba abasetyhini ngokungeyomfuneko.

Umzekelo classic ngumnqweno maphondo udandatheko koyisa eMoscow. Ekhaya yena lo mfo lokuqala ezilalini, yaye, ke wafika e Moscow, uyabona ukuba loo Uhar kwi likomkhulu Dime elinesibini. Wasebenzisa ukuba athathe isikhundla sakhe phezulu njengento yendalo kunye self-kuyabonakala. Iimeko ezimaxongo okukhathaza zonke izicwangciso zakhe. Ukuzithemba iwela nge emgangathweni. Ubomi uxelela abafundi ukuba baphumelele: "Khumbula, indawo yakho emele!" Le ndoda unika phezulu kwaye iwele ezingalweni unxunguphalo yentsimbi.

Injongo ukubonisa intlungu amatyala akhe. "Bayeke mna ndedwa, ngenxa yokuba ukusilela efanayo yanto", - uthi unxunguphalo. Ngelo xesha usola abanye. Uninzi eyele iingalo ekruqukile abantu ngokweemvakalelo, zilandelayo nenkani kwinjongo yakho. Ekubeni lwalo injongo kuba kubaluleke kakhulu, akukho nto ukuzibhubhisa lamandla. Injongo yomntu uzimilisa umzekelo ebeliciko le idealization. nangoko imikhosi Equilibrium ukucwangcisa ukusebenza, ndimgxothele zibe kwimeko unxunguphalo. Umntu "ufuna udilize, utshabalalise, ukuqwenga." Nguye ngamandla neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo umsindo nengqumbo ukuya azilutho kunye lithemba.

USatyo - isifundo ozimiseleyo lizama yomkhosi. Kuyabonakala ukuba, lo mntu akazange afunde izifundo elidlulileyo ezijoliswe ukwehla ngokubaluleka kwalo kunye nokubaluleka kweminqweno yabo kunye neemfuno. balandela zifundo, ngokuqhelekileyo unyuko. Isifundo ngasinye okulandelayo kunzima kakhulu elidlulileyo. State ekruqukile, ngenxa yendlela elintsonkothe, kunganxulunyaniswa enye zifundo ibalulekileyo lizama imikhosi iphela. Maxa wambi unxunguphalo bemvelo ixesha elide, njengokuba lithemba kunye nokulindelwe odikiweyo azinakuphathwa iinyanga kunye neminyaka.

Indida, kodwa umthombo ekruqukile abe umbhiyozo kuNyaka oMtsha, nto leyo ehambisana ndinolindelo of mangaliso. Ngenxa 'abakhusela of the Year "zigqunywe iitafile ezintle, balungiselela izipho. Ukusuka Unyaka Omtsha ulindele ubomi obutsha kunye nolonwabo elitsha, uze ufumane ibhabhalaza enzima emva iindlamanzi elide. Isiphumo - intlungu kwawethu ngokohlobo uxinezeleko nokuxakaniseka.

unxunguphalo Ukoyisa kwenziwe kususwe kwakuwo ngokubaluleka yintoni unobangela wale meko. Ukulungiselela le njongo, ukuzeyisa ngomlingo, self-kukucengwa ukuzeyisa. Kwezemidlalo, umzekelo, i-ezininzi eziqhele ukusetyenziswa iintlobo ezine izangoma ukuzeyisa: Uqeqesho autogenous, uqeqesho psihoreguliruyuschaya, psihomyshechnaya kunye noqeqesho ideomotor.

Njengoko yaziwa kakuhle, kubhetele ukususa unobangela kunokuba ukulwa kunye nophando. USatyo lutshabalalisa nxi, ukulimaza umntu, maxa wambi ngonaphakade belahla indoda umjikelo wobomi. Bazali, esazi ukuba nemiphumela emibi ngenxa unxunguphalo, zinyanzelekile ukuba kuziswe ebomini umntwana oqeqeshwe kakuhle. It ngokucacileyo kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba ubomi - nto nje esekisini apho iyahlekisa ahlukeneyo kuzama ukulawula yokuqonda yayo ngokubaluleka ze azame ukurhuqa enkundleni. Umntwana kufuneka baqonde kakuhle ukuba indawo yakhe kwiholo, hayi ebomini isekisi. Kufuneka icace into ebaluleke ngokwenene ebomini yaye yintoni na ingamampunge, ekhazimlayo, bonisa-off badlale kwi "ithambeka". Le ndoda encinane kufuneka baqonde ukuba bonke bephela engeke ilawulwe kobu bomi. Wonke umntu - ndawo lwabo nobuchule, apho akunjalo an extra, kodwa nxaxheba ngqo. Oku - abazali, iqabane, abantwana, abahlobo abasenyongweni, ababesebenza umsebenzi. Ayikho ukuxhoma ngokwakhe ngenxa inyikima Turkey okanye itsunami eIndonesia. Ukuba nibe nako ukuphumeza le njongo, hayi obulalayo. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba waqonda - ulonwabo - na indlela kwinjongo, asiyonjongo ngokwayo. Xelela umntwana lo mzekeliso omhle.

Dog, ngeenkani nokusukelana umsila wayo, udiniwe, wayeka intshutshiso walala phantsi ukuphumla, zijonge phezulu. Kule sikhundla, ke ngequbuliso wafumana umsila phantsi impumlo zakhe, wambamba ngokunyoluka ngayo amazinyo akhe, kodwa nangoko bakhululwa, wincing. "Kufuneka ukuba bazobe kwisigqibo - Wathi ke yena kuye, -. Ukuba ukusukela ngumnikazi okumnandi"