Amaphupha zabantwana. incwadi Dream ithi ...

Amaxesha amaninzi ephupheni, uyakwazi ukubona abantwana. ukutolikwa Dream nga ngokwahlukileyo ukutolika intsingiselo eli phupha. Ngapha koko, ephupheni, okanye umntwana wenza into, okanye into ethile wahlelwa yingozi. Ukusuka kwezi namalungu amancinane ixhomekeke kakhulu.

Kutheni iphupha abantwana elizayo

Phambi kokuba ubona ukukhanya itakane encinane, umfazi kangangoko 9 iinyanga uvelisa oko isisu sakho. Kunye nokukhulelwa siphuphe ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba phupho abone umfazi, kudla kubonisa ukuba akuyi kuba lula, oko baya kujongana iintlobo ngeentlobo amashwa kunye neyokudinga. Amaninzi iinkathazo zenzeka ngokunxulumene abantwana babo, ukuba zinqongophele khona, okanye nomyeni wakhe.

Freud ngokutolika iphupha eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ukholelwa ukuba abafazi Ndinephupha ukukhulelwa kwimeko ukuba ufuna ukuba abantwana kwaye ufuna ukuqonda amaphupha abo ngesondo. Kodwa ke ukukhulelwa enyulu - oku Yimbonakaliso iingxaki elizayo okanye shame.

Ukuba iphupha elizayo abantwana, iphupha nokutyhilwa Hasse uthi nokuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso namabhongo. Eneneni, ebomini - ukuzalwa komntwana kwakhona utshintsho kakhulu kunene. Kodwa Tsvetkov encwadini yakhe ephupheni ithi umfazi obona ikhulelwe, woyika nje ukuba ube onjalo. Ngoko ke, ukwesaba kwakhe ziboniswe kwi amaphupha ezininzi izifundo ezinjalo.

Ukuba umntu amaphupho nokukhulelwa, Libonakalisa zokudalwa izicwangciso ezintsha elizayo. Kwaye scale kakhulu grand.

Kutheni baphupha abantwana

Ezisandula kuzalwa usana kudla iphupha ukuya izipho ezimnandi kakhulu kwaye olungalindelekanga, izimanga. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile kakhulu ukulungiselela lo mzuzu. Iintsana ephupheni sisithi ukuba zonke izinto; kunye nosapho, kwaye ukusebenza kuya kuhlenga xa kukho naziphi na iingxaki.

Ngokutsho oko kuthethwa ethi iphupha, umntwana oyintombazana yaxela intlanganiso elungileyo ekudala elindelwe. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba kufutshane, ixesha elide kakhulu kwakungekho iindaba kuyo. Hi ndlela leyi, usana nalo ithuba lokufumana iindaba ezivela ekhaya, xa abazali bahlala kude ngokwaneleyo.

Izenzo abantwana iphupho

Zabo abantwana ephupheni lwabazali zibonisa kwi into yokuba ulonwabo lokwenene lufunya- ebomini. Zonke izicwangciso namathemba ziya kuzaliseka. Nangona kunjalo, oku kusebenza kuphela ezo maphupha xa abantwana khangela kakuhle kakhulu kwaye mhle. Ukuba yisiwe isifo sakhe ubuthongo, abantwana abagulayo omthandayo, ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo ithi ebomini, abantwana baya kusoloko kuba sempilweni entle kakhulu ezahlukeneyo.

umdlalo Cooperative ndawonye nabantwana ephupheni kuthetha ukuba eneneni, umntu enze isenzo ngokungakhathali kakhulu. Yinto uhlobo isilumkiso nxamnye amanyathelo ngokungxama. Qwalasela inkqubo nemidlalo yabantwana - nto luphawu lokuba utshayelela belele eninzi ukuzonwabisa kunye kumnandi. Mangeni kids - loo nto ke umqondiso emangalisayo nobumnandi. Oku kungqina ukuba isenzeko uxolo nenzolo kwiintsapho zabo. Amaxesha amaninzi, oko luphawu uvuyo, ababehlala kuloo ndlu.

Ukuba umntwana libawele ngesiquphe kwaye disintegrates xa sidibana ephupheni, oko kuthetha avalele neengxaki eziza kuthi chatha kuyo. Xa iphupha abantwana kakhulu ugula, ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo ibonisa usongo. Mhlawumbi into esongela ishishini okanye usapho kakuhle-ntle, aze afike ezinye uhlobo lwezigulo.

Ukuze ubone iphupha lakhe umntwana ufile yesi ukuphoxeka okukhulu. Yaye le nto inokwenzeka nyaka nonyaka kwixwsha elizayo. Ngoko kuhle ukuba silumke.

Sebenza kunye nabantwana ezithile imicimbi joint, kodwa usoloko umdla, oko kuthethwa koko ukuba ukuthenga kakhulu, kwaye ziya kuba ezininzi ezahlukeneyo izipho. Ukuba abantwana ukufunda, ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo ithi kwixesha elizayo abantwana baya kuba abathobelayo wayifumana ulwimi kunye nabazali babo, yaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba kukholiswa kunye ngempumelelo yabo.

Xa uphupha ngequbuliso kukho inani elikhulu labantwana, oko luphawu ukuvela kukho inani elikhulu ngeemeko eziyingxaki. Ngamnye kubo zifuna izisombululo ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba sithathe ixesha ukulungisa ezi iingxaki ezincinane.

Okokugqibela, ukuze ndizibona umntwana omncinci - oko kuthetha ukuba siziphathe ngayo ebomini. Kubalulekile ukuba kude ukuziphatha okunjalo yaye yonke into aya kusebenza kuzo. Ke okona kubalulekileyo, ukuze nabanye uya kusondela kuwe ngephanyazo.