Lilolo Nothando - ngaphakathi nangaphandle.

"Mhlawumbi .. yonke kobu bomi xa into lufikelele esiphelweni, nokuba ubhalo, kodwa n'wina. Kwaye ukuba akukho nto eziphathekayo .. Xa kunjalo," iqela "hits, nomonde, nakholosa kunye nentlonipho. kukho umda, yaye yonke into zinemfezeko. ungaze ukulibale oku, kuba ngephanyazo ungaphulukana yonke into. ukusuka. Kodwa eyona nto uhlala neizmennym- na luthando. uthando usapho nabo ubathandayo. yintoni esinayo isipho, "isipho", kwaye oko akunakwenzeka, enyanisweni, bafanelwe. loo nto, kwaye kufuneka siwazise. nakwabanye .. intsalela bafumana ubabalo sigodlo ukuba sele '(c) D.Summers.

Wonke umntu kanye kufika ixesha ebomini xa langutane ngesiquphe kunye lo mkhuba "isizungu". Hayi ilize gama ibekwe iimpawu zocaphulo kuba ligama kwaye kufuna ukucaciswa. Thina ke ngoku, mhlawumbi, uya kuyenza ..

1. "Andiqondi ukuba nabahlobo abaninzi olusondeleyo kuye ndikwazi pootkrovennichat. Ngoko kukuhle - ngamanye amaxesha interlocutor ufanelwe kakhulu »© Angelina Ingaba Dzholi.Dumaesh kakuhle? Ewe, mhlawumbi. Ke kaloku, njengokuba ubona, wena abaxhasi. Zininzi izizathu ezibangela ukuba abantu ngesiquphe bodwa. Kwaye akusoloko ityala labo. Bendiya kuthi ngakumbi, oku akusoloko tyala bonke othile. Maxa wambi umntu nje kufuneka ukuba abe yedwa ngokwakho, ukuqonda ukuba kwisebe into namnye abanye abakwazi ukubona kwaye uzive. Abanye basenokuthi yinto nje engenangqondo, vanilla, ixesha "self-ngomlingo" xa ungakwazi ngokwenene ukuqonda nantoni na, kodwa efumana nokulatyuza self-nofefe kunye umphefumlo wakhe ube akuphumelelanga. Hmm. Mhlawumbi lowo ucinga kunjalo, xa into elungileyo. Yedwa bakhe bonke abafane ukunyaniseka kwaye ucingisise eyenzekayo emhlabeni. Asinguye wonke umntu amandla ukutsala ngokwakhe kunye ugqibe ntoni elandelayo. Endaweni yoko, umntu singena nangobetho abamnyama obomi, ize ngequbuliso yonke into ekuphulukwana imvelaphi yabo. Kodwa kukho nenye udidi lwabantu, akunjalo? Bona owaziwa ngokuba zinjalo. Andiyi kuba uthobekile, mna, nam attribute oko kubo. Kodwa ke kamva. Ziyinyaniso Njengokuba zinjalo .. Yintoni umahluko ngqo impilo ngokugqithiseleyo ethe sinotyekelo "Ukuhlasela 'iimvakalelo? Ngoko, oko koko, kuyacaca nje enye kwaye ibonisa le ngxelo, ekuqaleni komhlathi ezibonisiweyo. Andiyi ukuphinda, kodwa endaweni ukuchitha nje isibini ezazisenzeka ngala mazwi. Njengoko sele Waqonda, abantu-zinjalo aba ephambene inqubo yangaphambili sengqondo kwinto ekhoyo. Enyanisweni, abo bafuna nje ukuba ukujonga ubomi ngenxa amehlo yokwenene, kodwa ukubona into entle zonke - ngamanye amagama into kunzima kakhulu ukuba kwimbono lomntu theka, kodwa kwangaxeshanye kubalulekile kubo. Nalu imangalisayo ubomi. "LoMbhiyozi Kwangaphambili", ngoko ukuthetha. [...]
2. "lilolo - into embi enokwenzeka umntu. Akukhathaliseki ukuba ngubani na loo mntu: ihlwempu okanye indoda esisityebi, okanye simpleton wengcibi yokuluka, Siyathandini okanye yingqondi. Lilolo na sinkqonkqoza elinde ukuba ukuvula phezulu, yena Imelwe izitshixo kuzo zonke iingcango ... »© Parfyumer.Nu kuthekani ngalo quote? Nale ngxelo, ndiyacinga, bayavumelana nje uninzi enye. Kutheni? Andiqondi ukuba iza kwenza yegadi, xa ndithi ukuba abantu zilungiswe kuhle obrazom- ba ithetha ukuba uhlala wedwa. Bengenandawo inani uhlobo kwabo ubomi bomntu iyazenzekela ngokumpuluswa zibe into inoe- yabakho. Ngapha koko, umahluko kuyaphawuleka, akunjalo? Qhuba better- ubomi okanye ukuba zikhona na? I am ngaphezu Qinisekisa ukuba le yokuqala ukhetho ziza kukhawulelana ngokupheleleyo bonke abantu ezifanelekileyo. Ekubeni abanye sele umqondiso okanye uphawu, into enjalo njenge "algophilia". Kwaye oku mntu esangweni .. uxolo. Ngoko emva ubulolo yethu. Indlela waqaphela ngokufanelekileyo slovah- ngaphezu kwayo (ubulolo) engaphenduli ukukhetha nabantu okanye ixesha apho wayeza kuba kwafuneka 'ukuza kuthi ". Ngaphambi kwale ngqiqo bonke bayalingana. Njengoko phambi kothando. Ngapha koko, uthando kwakhona ukuba ukhethe ukuba 'ukuza', akunjalo? Akukho namnye unako aphike into yokuba uthando nokuthandwa uyakwazi ngokupheleleyo wonke. Kwanabo kubantu encinane, ezibonakala, umahluko kwi zofuzo (abo bazi kancinci kunye eziphilayo okanye isikolo anatomy iminyaka, uya kuqonda ukuba uhlobo umahluko kunye udidi lwabantu mna ndithetha ndisingisele) - waze enothando ekwaziyo. Kodwa ke ngelo xesha linye bakholisa ukuba ubulolo .. Kwaye enoba kulungile okanye akulunganga kuthi bonke ayikho kazalos- ubomi bethu. Yonke into efunekayo kuthi - kukuthatha oko kuba yintoni. Okanye ngcono.

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Kodwa ngoku emva isikwere mnye, enyanisweni, saqalisa povestvovanie.Deystvitelno zethu, ubomi into umdla kakhulu, nangona emangalisayo ezintsonkothileyo .. Kodwa akukho bani ofuna ndacela indlela yakhe, akunjalo? Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo. Isizathu, ndiyacinga, ukuba athethe ngokubanzi mfuneko. Kwaye nangona ukuba ngokufuthi kakhulu into yokuba kuthi ndlela-ntle, hamba, ndingalahli nento kuko kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba le yi "ubomi." Oku kuquka iintlobo amacandelo, ngaphandle apho bekuya kuba isimo ekruqulayo yaye ingabangeli. La macandelo ncam: inzuzo kunye nelahleko, uvuyo kunye nonxunguphalo, iintlanganiso kunye ezintlanganweni, ingqumbo kunye nokuxolela, umsindo kunye nomonde, intiyo kunye nothando, ongayi kuba bayisebenzele, kodwa apho kugcinwa yonke; oluno langoku, kodwa akunyanzelekanga awayeyifumana; nto leyo engazange ngokwaneleyo, kodwa kusoloko oqaphelekayo xa uyisweleyo; nto leyo esoloko ezintliziyweni zethu nasezintliziyweni zabo amthanda into ebalulekileyo. Ngenxa yale Ubomi ophilileyo.