Isithethe ochwayithileyo yokubhiyozela engundoqo usapho - umtshakazi lomtshato nomkhwenyana nkutsulo

Wedding - umbhiyozo, ezele uvuyo nolonwabo. Yonke into eyenzekayo xa siganeko, linentsingiselo yokomfuziselo. Umzekelo, ngokuxhomekeke kuyo omnye wabalingane ezisanda kuqala ukubeka unyawo phezu itawuli ukuba zicenge entsatsheni. Kwakhona unalo ixabiso sisithethe enjalo, njengoko ixabiso womtshakazi yamsitho.

Oobawo wamnika kubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo kwisiko ngentlawulelo lomtshakazi nomtshakazi. Oku kwakukholelwa ukuba yintoni nendlela abaselula ukulungele ukuba ahlawule umfazi elizayo, kuxhomekeke ukuchuma nentlalo-ntle yentsapho. Kwakhona wathi ukuba irhafu kubahlobo kunye nabazali lomtshakazi entsha, efana nendlela yokuhlawula, ukuthatha nentombi yabo kunye nomhlobo wakhe, wacela intsikelelo.

Namhlanje, ulutsha mihla ehamba womtshato ayikho nje iminyanya. Noko ke, ezinye izithethe zisekhona. Ke kaloku omnye wabo - intlawulelo yamsitho. I-script kunye kukhuphiswano idla yasungulwa zavuka. Zonke fun and ekuphumeni lula. Kakade ke, lo ezi- kwi kukhuphiswano angamantombazana ecetywayo ngokuqhelekileyo ziqhutywa nokuchaneka kunye umyeni kwi ubuchule bakhe. Noko ke, ngokufuthi kwenzeka kunye yokufuna ulwazi. And ezingemnandi.

Oko kuye akazange sibhuqiwe ekuqaleni lomtshato, umtshakazi basemi kubalulekile ukucinga kwangaphambili uze uxoxe isikripthi njengoko umyeni - abakhi yokuqala aphambili, kunye umtshakazi. Ngapha koko, kukho iimeko xa umyeni nje imali ukuze afeze imfuneko ethile kunye nemithetho khuphiswano. Umzekelo, ukuba ithwalwe ngazo ngesandla evela angamantombazana omnye, akukho lula kakhulu, umgama othile. Ngokubanzi, ukuxoxa imisebenzi ngokubanzi kunye nokhuphiswano - kubalulekile.

njani nkutsulo yomtshato? Umyeni ifika kaNksz Mkile yakhe umtshakazi. Indlu umntu eyadini okanye umfana izalamane ingathathwa ziindwendwe umtshakazi. Yokuba izihlwele nengxolo zingqonge umyeni kunye namangqina, yaye ngoko nangoko baqale urhwebo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba kukho imithetho imisebenzi ezininzi kwiingingqi nganye. Xa ummandla omnye wasebenza kuphela amadoda usapho nomtshakazi kaThixo, enye - ngokuchasene: ngentlawulelo kuphela ezincinane amadoda emizi kunye osondeleyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umfana abaninawa (izalamane okanye umzala), ngoko ke unelungelo lokuba ziyazuza kuqala ngentlawulelo. Kodwa ezininzi wasebenza zavuka. Yaba abazange ufuna ukumnika i "enkosi." Kakade ke, lo mtshakazi kwaye ingqina kufuneka ahlangabezane nazo zonke iimfuno zabo. Kwaye kufuneka ukuba oko kwenziwe ngexesha, ukwenzela ukuba kuphoswa womzobo.

Yintoni na le nto sorhwebo noko ukunika ukuba umfana abe yintlawulelo? Konke kuxhomekeke ekucingeni zorhwebo. Kudla umyeni uyamenywa ukwenza imisebenzi. Kakuhle eli umsebenzi - elula. Ke kuya kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba uyazi umtshakazi kakuhle ngokwaneleyo kwaye zingqina amandla iimvakalelo zabo.

Kunye nokhuphiswano zingakwazi ukwazeka kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, umyeni enikezelwa iinketho eziliqela ezotywe noxwebhu loop ngesandla yephepha ukuze ufumane lowo yahlelwa ozithandayo ingalo. Okanye yonke inyathelo elifika ngakumbi injongo yakhe, umyeni kufuneka bathethe mnandi amazwi - abo uya ngelithi zintanda, xa iba ayisekho umtshakazi kunye nomfazi.

Ndimele ndithi ukuba asizizo zonke umtshakazi aya kukuvuyela ukwenza ezihlekisayo liphikisa iintombi. Ngoko ke, ukuba unako ukuhlawula off umsebenzi. Njani? Kulungile, nanku-thethana ngayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amankazana ekwanazo nabantwana ezifundisa neelekese, abarhwebi abadala - utywala kunye nemali. Ukukhetha, ukunika isixa esikhulu semali. Kufuneka ube wo fanekisela. Injongo yabathengisi - ungathengisi imali eninzi kakhulu, kwaye wonwabe.

Kwaye, kakade, intlawulelo yomtshato akufuneki ibuye ibe Bazaar okanye eyiyo. Yonke kufuneka abe kwemida ezibonisa. Yokuba akwamkelekanga ukunikela umyeni inxaxheba kukhuphiswano olunokubeka yena okanye ukubonisa ekukhanyeni intle emehlweni lomtshakazi. Njengentlawulelo yomtshato kufuneka ibe lixesha elide kakhulu. Ngapha koko, lo mfana abanalo ilungelo lokuba emva kunobhala kwi womzobo. Hi ndlela leyi, ufika emva kwexesha emtshatweni wakhe - yimpazamo embi.