Wedding ngokutshiselwa i nokuxubana njengenxalenye yenkcubeko ngokubanzi abantu

Wedding eRashiya ukususela kumaxesha amandulo yayigqalwa isiganeko ankrelekrele kakhulu kubomi wonke umntu. Xa sibhenela yeziKronike amandulo, sinokubona ziqhelekilyo bonke Slavic izithethe zomtshato hlobo ayizange khona, waba ngamnye amasiko nezithethe zawo ezithathiweyo isizwe. Umzekelo, i-Northerners kunye drevlyans ngokwemveli laxhwilwa abazali babo oomolokazana yaye angenzi naluphi msitho waqala ukwabelana nabo yokuhlala, ubomi ebhedini. Le glades zezizwe, phezu koko, ukuba kwiqhina lomtshato baphathwa ngembeko enkulu, umanyano womntu nomfazi yayigqalwa njengengcwele, esi sibini kwafuneka ukuba ukuhlonipha nokwazisa ngamnye enye ubomi babo kunye. imibhiyozo Wedding eRashiya akazange ayahlukanga titsongahata, lo mtshato idla yabhiyozelwa sonke isizwe iintsuku ezimbalwa. kanye Ibinzana elithi 'ukutshata "libhekisela ngamaxesha onke iiholide babizwa isiqhazolo, oko kukuthi ngexesha langaphambi kobuKristu Russia.

Namhlanje, isithethe kunye nemikhosi kumtshato we nokuxubana umdla ingqalelo mbali abaninzi. Ngokutsho kweminye izazinzulu abonisa lonke uyilo yokuziphatha kwabantu. Kodwa asikwazi sivumelana ngokupheleleyo nale ngxelo, ngokuba laseRashiya yaMandulo thaca inani elikhulu lezizwe ababehlala ebumelwaneni kunye ukugqibezela iqhina lomtshato ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abanye yasinda ngokutshiselwa emsithweni ziye abolekwe evela entsimini yezizwe. Ngokomzekelo, kwagqitywa ekubeni bazise umtshakazi endlwini umyeni, kwaye awunakho ukwenza ngolunye uhlobo. Kwezinye izizwe bebefudula ngokwenyama-kuthiwa umtshato capture, yaye kwezinye, kunye isithembu. Iintsapho glades, ngokuqhelekileyo indima ephambili wabelwa umntu kubaluleke kakhulu emtshatweni wadlala imvume yabazali. Ngamaxesha amaninzi abanye abazali bakwazi ukunika intombi yakhe emtshatweni ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe. sinokubona kwimbali ukuba eli siko nayo luphawulwa zasebukhosini aphakathi (imithetho Domostroi).

Ngoku makhe gu ngqo izithethe kunye nemikhosi. Ezinye iingxaki zisenokubonakala etyeni ukuba umntu mihla kunye nenkohlakalo. Umzekelo, eyayikho 'lokukhula' umfazi razuvaniya ephakathi Rus "kwabangela eye yakhamnqisa nkqu yokwenene phakathi basemzini abeze kutyelela eli lizwe. Wawuhlanganisa bavune oselula ngokuwabetha naye ndiphethe uswazi, okanye iincopho kweziqalo. Olu vavanyo kubonisa nokuthobela kunye nokufakwa kwiqabane elizayo. Sinako kazi nokuthotywa zafumana umzuzu efanayo intombazana eselula.

Kumaxesha zobuhedeni, imibhiyozo ezininzi womtshato ahlanganiswa kunye nonqulo kwamagunya ophakamileyo endalo, umtshato lwenziwa, ngokuqhelekileyo kufutshane nemilambo, amachibi kunye nemisinga. Young kwafuneka ukuba hambe echibini izihlandlo ezithathu, kuphela ukuba umtshato wabo kuthathwa njengezisemthethweni. Lo mkhuba uye waphila ixesha elide kwaye kuphela kunye nokwamkelwa ubuKristu indawo yi emtshatweni.

E Kostroma, ukutyhubela iinkulungwane eziliqela kwakukho entle funny siko. Phezu kwentaba Red (i-Cawa yokuqala emva Easter) guys bancinci mnandi phezu kwenduli, wathulula amanzi wayethanda amantombazana. Tshata sathathwa lowo wagalela.

emikhosini abaninzi womtshato enxulumene element kwamanzi, ngokusekelwe kwiintsomi Slavic kumaxesha amandulo. Amanzi wayesoyikwa ngabo njengento yehlabathi, ngaphandle apho ubukho umntu zonke eziyingqongileyo nto. Kungenxa yoko le nto, waza ndandihlamba wagalela amanzi ngexesha yombhiyozo lomtshato, kunye nemibhiyozo.

iingcamango Modern malunga nomtshato nokuxubana ngandlel luzizi, kuba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku akukho ukugcina kunye umthombo onokuthenjwa isixelela. Zonke izimvo zethu malunga izithethe namasiko ookhokho bethu zisekelwe kwizinto zembali alondolozwe zemihla ngemihla, kunye ezafunyanwa ngabembi bezinto zakudala. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba bonke engalunganga. Umbhali-mbali kunye nombhali UNikolai Karamzin, umzekelo, wabhala ukuba akakho umcimbi yomtshato nokuxubana, kodwa nemibhiyozo yabo womtshato baba ingakumbi abangenatarhu, umfazi nendoda yakhe, athenge amalungelo kwelo khoboka wayelingana. UMtshakazi abangafumani umntu enyulu yaye de kube sekupheleni kobomi ukuthobela nazo zakhe kanjalo. Kwimeko ukufa umfazi umfazi watshiselwa esibondeni ngokwayo. Kwimeko lokungathobeli siko ukudana nehlazo walala phezu intsapho yakhe yonke.

Ukuzalwa, wedding kunye umngcwabo baba iziganeko ezintathu ezinkulu ebomini bomntu pre-Christian Russia. Nangona kunjalo, kunye ukwamkelwa ubuKristu Orthodox, encinane iye yatshintsha. Kuphela ezinye izithethe kunye izithethe zitshintshile okanye ezibonwe eyahlukileyo. Uphononongo lwe inkcubeko izinyanya zabo ezifunekayo. Mhlawumbi kusinika ithuba lokuqonda ngcono nathi.