Indlela ukuqaphela ukungcatshwa, okanye umfazi axhobe ngokupheleleyo

Namhlanje kunzima ukufumana indoda ethembekile. Kwaye phantse zonke kuthi ucinga ukuba wavuka kanye oko. Ngelo xesha, iyunithi kucinga kuphela ukuba ulwalamano lwabo kuqalwe utshintsho. Abantu abaninzi ngempazamo ukufumanisa malunga ukukrexeza umyeni wakhe ukusuka 'kakuhle nabanye ", abanye yesaveyi zityhila sisifo ezosulela ngesondo. Kwaye akukho mntu phambi akwazi nokuba ucinga ukuba umyeni wakhe ehamba ecaleni. Umntu wonke ke ongumfazi kufuneka akwazi ukuqaphela ukuba ukungcatshwa umyeni wakhe ukuba nibe ngabokugqibela ukwazi ngayo. Ngenxa yokuba ke iba isibili ezingemnandi. Emva kokufumana ingcaciso efunekayo kunokwenzeka sele isigqibo sokuba ukugcina umtshato okanye mtshato. Kuye nje wonke umdlali uya kubaleka ukutsala iinwele okanye ukuqokelela iibhegi umyeni.

Ngoko ke, kukho ezinye iimpawu eziya kunceda ubone iqondo ukunyaniseka kumyeni wakhe:

1. Kuqala kwinto zonke, ukuba akwazi ukubona indlela ukukrexeza, kufuneka ufunde ukuba silumke. abafazi Dear, abameli benu abanyuliweyo, ukuba babe umntu kwicala, utshintsho yokuziphatha. Kwaye, kuvela isole. ixesha Kubalulekile ukuqonda ezi nguqu kunye nezigqibo. Okokuqala, umntu uqalisa esweni imbonakalo yazo ngenyameko enkulu: utsheva, sebenzisa ebiza amanzi yangasese, zokubuyekeza ngubo aze aye nakwiziko lokuzilolonga. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi lwezakhono njengoko umzimba, ucoceko buqu kunye sangaphantsi.
2. Ukuba ufuna ukuqonda ukuba baqaphele indlela uMbuso, ahlawule ingqalelo avakalelwa ngayo kuwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iya kutshintsha, ngenxa yokuba ngoku ingqalelo efunekayo omnye umfazi lowo ngalo mzuzu kuba umdla ngakumbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, i ziyanyuswa zangaphandle iimpawu ingqalelo (emva bonke, uziva unetyala) kunye kwecala.
3. iingxaki ziqhu emsebenzini - yinto "uxolo" rhoqo, nto leyo luphawulwa ukungcatshwa yendoda yakhe. Ndazi njani indlela kuyinyaniso? Kukho iinketho ezininzi: ungafowunela umsebenzi kwaye ngobunono ubuze, okanye cela abahlobo abasebenza kunye naye. Abaninzi kuwa ngohlolo, kodwa bubudenge obo kuye nokuthotywa. ingqondo yakho iya kukunceda ukuba ufumane oluphucukileyo ngakumbi yaye lifanelwe indlela yakho ukucacisa lo mba.
4. Indlela ukuqaphela ukungcatshwa umyeni wakhe ethembeke kunazo? Simply hlalutya inkalo mali ebomini bakho. Ukuba usebenza ngakumbi kwaye umvuzo ngaphantsi koko bachithe imali yabo omnye umntu. Kwaye khumbula: umntu unako ukufumana naziphi na izizathu ukuba achaze leli phutha.
5. Modern, kodwa kusoloko njengendlela enokuthenjwa zokuqinisekisa - iminxeba kunye SMSes kwifowuni yakho. Kukho Ngokuqinisekileyo zikhona na. Noko ke, amadoda kunye na uye iqhinga: imiyalezo isuswe, yaye igama wahliwa entsha "Andrey" onokuzityikitya kwincwadi yefowuni okanye "umsebenzi Sasha." Xa kunjalo, umfazi unokusebenzisa iinkonzo kumcuphi labucala, ngubani na ukufumanisa ifowuni obiza apho, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - nomnikazi wayo ... okanye iindwendwe.
6. Tshintsha ishedyuli eqhelekileyo yobomi ngokwesondo okanye izifo, izifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini - iimpawu sokungathembeki. Zonke iinkcazo ezifana 'ikhontrakthi kwi yokugquma "okanye" ezibanjiswe echibini' ukuba ngoko nangoko phele ngenxa yokunqongophala ngokuqiniseka.
7. Ukuba ukunika impahla ngeholide ayikho ubungakanani yakho okanye nesiqhumiso zakho ozithandayo, ngoko ke akukho ngozi. Amadoda saa kakhulu kulo mba kwaye yonke wayithobayo.
8. Ukuba sinikele ingqalelo ubudlelwane bakhe kunye nabafazi nabahlobo. Amadoda musani kufuna uqhagamshelwano kuzo umgama: bakholisa bakhethe abasebenzi okanye abahlobo okanye abahlobo yomfazi wayo. Ngoko ke eli qela labantu usoloko phantsi kweliso ezizodwa.

Kakade ke, akukho ndlela ingundoqo ukuba baqaphele indlela imbuka. Ukuba ngokwenene "bayifumana" umyeni wakhe kwinto ethile, qiniseka ukuba isigqibo ukuba uza kwenza: baphose okanye ukugcina. Emva koko khetha uguqulelo elifanelekileyo yesigqibo.