Iminqweno emifutshane yabantwana basenkulanga kwieholide kunye neziganeko ezingazibalekiyo

Ukuvuyisana nomntwana osesikolweni kweholide, omnye akudingeki ukuba alungiselele iintetho ezide. Umncinci umntwana, mfutshane ukuthokoza. Ingqondo yomntwana ayikwazi ukuqonda ulwazi oluninzi ngexesha. Ngako oko, indlela ekhethekileyo yokuvuyisana iya kuba yiminqweno emfutshane kubantwana.

Iingoma okanye iprose

Bonke abantwana bangokwemveli bengabalindi. Kunzima ukuba banakekele ingqalelo ixesha elide. Amancinci amancinci amancinci ayabonakala kulula kakhulu kunokuba iminqweno emfutshane kubantwana ngamazwi abo. Bathanda iingoma zomculo, amahlaya, izinto zokubala kunye nokuzikhumbula ngokukhawuleza.

Ngoko ke, kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bentsapho kungcono ukuncoma ngemibongo emincinci. Xa uneminyaka yobudala, ukuvuyisana kunokunyusa ubungakanani kwaye bunzulu kwiqulatho.

Iholide kwi-kindergarten

Eyokuqala uhalalisela abantwana beva kwiholide zentsapho. Kodwa ngokwenene bafunda ukwamkela iiminqweno baze bathethe ngeglasi.

Iholide exabisekileyo kakhulu kwi-kindergart yosuku lokuzalwa. Kuye isiko lokudansa malunga nomcimbi wokuzalwa, ukuvakalisa izicelo ezimfutshane ngokukhawuleza. Abantwana bayavuya ukuvuyisana nomhlobo wabo, kuba ngenxa yoko baya kufumana unyango.

Ukuvuyiswa kungalungiswa ngale ndlela: inkwenkwe yokuzalwa iphakathi. Abantwana batshintshana ngokumnika isipho, ngelixa izivakalisi ezimfutshane zithethwa. Kwaye ungabadweba, kwaye unike izipho kumntu wokuzalwa.

Amazwi omnqweno azaliswe ngamanye amaholide: amaqela omnyaka omtsha, ngo-Matshi 8, i- Autumn Festival. Iingongoma ezilula kunye neenqwenela kunceda ukukhulisa intetho kubantwana kunye nesimo sokuba ngumntu oqokelelweyo.

Abantwana bathanda imifanekiso ehlekisayo. Kulungile ukumema abantwana kwimithendeleko yabantwana, kwaye ukuvuyisana kuya kuhlala kuzintliziyweni zezingane, ukuba kulungile, kukhanya kwaye kuxelelwe ngabalinganiswa bakho bezintandokazi.

Ukuthokoza ngenyameko ngendlebe kufutshane kwindinyana.

Yiba mnandi, njengeentyatyambo.

Phila kwilizwe lobubele!

Njengelilanga, mncuma!

Kodwa musa ukuziqhayisa!

***

Ukukwazi ukuba ngabahlobo.

Kwaye uye wangena ngesibindi kwiinjongo.

Izifundo zafunda konke

Kwaye babehlobo kunye neencwadi.

Iqela lokuqala lokugqiba

Iholide enkulu kwixesha lokuhlala komntwana kwi-kindergarten yinkampani yokugqiba. Ukuvuyiswa kuya kuthunyelwa ukusuka onke macala ukuya kubafundi abaselula. Ubulumko kubantwana kwi- prom in the nursergen ziya kubhengezwa ngabapapa noomama, ootitshala, umlawuli kunye nabantwana ngokwabo. Abaququzeleli baqondisa isigqi seeholide, baqondise zonke izigaba.

Nangona umntwana ekhohliwe amazwi akhe, kuya kuba nomntu oza kuthiwa nini kwaye uza kuthetha ntoni.

Ukubaluleka kwabantwana kubantu abadala ekugqibeleni kuya kuphulaphula ukuqala.

Yonke ni thobele,

Abahlobo kunye namantombazana.

Uphilileyo, uvuyo.

Emva koko, isikolo silinde wena.

***

Masibe novuyo ebuntwaneni.

Ukumamatheka kwakho kumnandi.

Phila, ungakhathazeki.

Futhi ungasikhohlwa!

Ukukhuthaza ukubethelwa kwentetho ebantwini, kufuneka ucinge ngomvuzo. Ukuqaphela ukuba ngamazwi afudumele kubahlobo baya kufumana iifowuni zabo ezizithandayo, abantwana baya kuzama.

Kwiimfuno zomnye nomnye, abantwana baya kuthetha ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kubo.

Siyabonga,

Umyezo wethu uyabulela.

Ukuze singahambi,

Masihlangane kwakhona.

***

Ukubonakala okusha kunye nabahlobo!

Iifom zokufunda azizisoli.

Ubulumko siya kufakwa

Kwaye ngaphezu kweyodwa siya kufumana.

***

Saziswa kwi-kindergarten.

Namhlanje singabantwana abadala.

Ngomso siya kuba ngabafundi,

Vumela abapapa kunye nomama bajabule!

Ubomi babo bonke, iminqweno emifutshane yabantwana kwiontanga, ootitshala nabazali baya kuhlala bekhunjulwe ukuba babhalwa kwividiyo.