Amabinzana, isibindi, okanye ukuba aphendule ngendlela echanelekileyo boor

Xa sijongene ubukrwada, njalo ufuna ukuphendula umoni. Xa kufanelekile ngumsindo, kudla ngokufuneka akukho ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo. Oku kunokubangela eziliqela neziphumo ezibi. Isiphumo elula ezi - nenqala, kwaye ungonwabanga - umlo. Kodwa, uyabona, ukuba ukubandezeleka ukuwela iindonga kuphela ngenxa yokuba interlocutor isimo yakho embi - kwi uyaganga ubuncinane.

Eyona nto intle kakhulu kule meko - ukuphendula umoni ngokuzolileyo nangokuzithemba, kodwa ukuba bafake endaweni a Cad. Ukwenza njalo ngobuchule, imali iinzame elingakumbi namandla, kukho amalungiselelo ezikhethekileyo - amabinzana ngqindilili.

Ngubani na boor?

Le umhlaseli, balwa kunye aphule imida zakho. Yena Uzama limele ndawo kakhulu ezibuhlungu kwaye uphephe ukuziphindezela. ubungqina Scientific icebisa umntu onjalo - oko kukuthi, enyanisweni, indoda ayinyamezeleki kunye ukuzithemba ophantsi, onqwenela yokuzilungiselela ngeendleko bakuqumbele okanye intlekisa nguye. Nantsi into ekufuneka uyazi xa ubuso boor. Qonda uxolele, nkqu uzisole umntu engabalulekanga okanye ukuphendula ibinzana nehlekisayo, ngelungileyo-natured (hayi rhabaxa!) Smiling.

Imizekelo kwiimeko apho umsindo akuthethi kuthi emva

ingqondo yomntu ofanelekileyo, nto leyo Cad, ngoku afumaneka kuyo yonke indawo. Amaxesha amaninzi, ezi sayithi uqhelekileyo nokusetyenziswa kwayo zezi zilandelayo:

1. namaqonga Trading. indawo Favorite ndagqobhoza uqwalasele umntu enomsindo - Kakade ke, imarike okanye ivenkile. Kwezinye iimeko, kwikhemesti ethandwayo. Okokuqala, ungaya zombini ukhenketho kunye povozmuschatsya efunda amaxabiso indyebo ezishelfini. Okwesibini, knock esihlweleni - deal kamnandi kakhulu kubo. Kwaye konke oku, Kakade ke, ekhatshwa izimvo angazithandiyo malunga baze abantu abadlulayo. Hi ndlela leyi, iivenkile nabathengisi nithandane ukuba krwada.

2. Izithuthi Public. Indawo ethandwayo kuzo zonke cads - isihlwele. Kwaye apho enye oyithandayo ngokunjalo yokuphazamiseka ndawo imxinwa kwezithuthi kwiyure rush? Kukho sisheke kuthathelwa apha - kuwe. Ke ekugqibeleni, umzekelo, siya kuba umfazi Ukumemeza ezitum olahla umsindo wakhe nabani na ozama ukuphikisana naye. UThixo lee kuwe wagqwesa ngale izakhono aziwa.

3. Clinic. kwiziko likarhulumente, apho ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka bazikhusele loo ndawo, uyazi nabantu nobuganga obukwanjalo. Kungaba jerk, oya kuzama ukuba sneak aphume ithuba. Kodwa ke uthola ukuphosa yoyi ngomlomo ukusuka lilindele uncedo emgceni kwabantu, phakathi apho kusenokuba kukho louts ezifihliweyo.

4. Indawo ukufunda. Adolescence idume "buhlungu" ikhula abantwana. Ngayiphi indlela? amabinzana nokulinga abafundisi, baphikisana eklasini esikolweni, lyceums. Abantwana abakwazi ukunika uvavanyo kwinjongo okwenzekayo. Bacinga ukuba sele beyazi yonke, nabantu abadala kubo kancinci ngasemva. Ngelishwa, ubukrwada kunye namabinzana ngqindilili kwiiklasi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo - iimeko ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Utitshala abeke umfundi kwi ndawo, akuba waphumelela emehlweni akhe igunya, okanye ngoyaba isibakala sokuba "sikhule" ngokwayo.

amabinzana nokulinga namabinzana: imizekelo

• Yaye liyinyaniso elokuba sonke umdla ukucacisa ngezihloko musa asinakubachukumisa.
• Ukusuka umntu kunzima ukuba onwabe, okulungileyo akuyomfuneko ukulinda.
• Ndiyazi ukuba amasela senza inkqubela, kodwa hayi ngenxa engqondweni yabo, bona bakholwa umzuzwana, kodwa ngenxa yokuba sithemba abantu ezikufuphi. Nokuze ndilale, nje akuyomfuneko ukuba engqondweni. Sebenza ngokunyanisekileyo - oku sisakhono.
• Ndavuya kakhulu neentloni ukuthetha oku kuni, kodwa andizange uzibuze njani ndikhangela emehlweni akho, uxolele. Yakhe ndijonga omhle, nokuba loo nto ngokwaneleyo.

• Yintoni na inqanaba lophuhliso kweemfuno ezinjalo.
• Wena ephantsi kangaka sonxibelelwano, ngeliphandle, wena nkqu emehlweni.
• Sicela uqhubeke. Xa uthi izinto ezifana koko, ndiye ndizive mna uhlakaniphile.
• Uxolo, kodwa niye nakuva ukususela emlonyeni nevumba elibi.
• Kwaye nokuba eze kwigubu?
• Ekubeni tirades kuphela kwikona sokuhlambela, noseko.
• Ukuba nomsindo, ngoko uyazi ukuba akalunganga.
• Kulo mzekelo, iimvakalelo zakho abaziwa kunye nezigqibo yokucinga yakho.
• Ukuba andithanga wena, imvume bayabaleka bazimele.

amabinzana unesibindi for girls

Ukuba intombazana akafuni ukuthetha loo mfo, kodwa yena ngokwakhe akanako balahle tedium yayo, okanye ngolunye uhlobo - uyasokola ubukrwada bakhe, mhlawumbi kufuneka usebenzise amanye amabinzana.

Umzekelo:

• ukuhlala ixesha ebomini bam phezu. Nika phezu okupasa uphume.
• Ukuba benindithanda - oko Ayilotyala lakho, nonke nina ungafumana - oku uncumo bam.
• Ubusi, unyanisile - ofana nawe awusoze nikhe, akukho ngakumbi kwaye akukho mfuneko.
• Yintoni ekufuneka - ndiyazi, ukuba kubhaliwe kuMgaqo-siseko. Ukuphumla - njengoko ifuna.
• Izinto emihle, ngoko nceda lutho.
• Andifuni ozikhethilyo kwi movie "iyahlekisa '?
• Mna ndingelilo ukhetho, andikho ngokulula kakhulu.

Yaye kuthekani guys?

Hayi abafazi kuphela baphathwa boors ebandakanya wonke. Makhe sijonge ngamabinzana ngqindilili zamakhwenkwe. Le ngxelo inokusetyenziswa ukuphendula krwada koontanga babo;

• Mhlawumbi ukuba mhle kum ukuba krwada.
• Ukuba ufuna ukuthetha ngayo, mhlawumbi endinazo epokothweni yakho nomhlathi elisecaleni.
• Makandange ekuqaleni aphilileyo, ndimi emva komthi.
• Mhlawumbi nguwe medi intle kwindawo wethu, kodwa loo nto umdla kum ukunxibelelana nkqu clever.

Ngoko ke, isiseko sokuqala akumiselweyo. Ngoku uyazi indlela oza kusabela ngayo krwada. Kodwa akukho etyaleni akalulandeli lokumtyhala ezi ngxelo phambi kokuba umntu, igazi elingenatyala. Yaye yintoni kanye ngaba wena kwindima Cad.