4 iincwadi ezinomdla kwizengqondo. Iincwadi ezinomdla kakhulu kwi-psychology yobuntu kunye nokuziphucula.

I-Psychology iyona nto iyimfihlelo, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo inzululwazi enomdla. Kuhle kuyo yonke imbonakalo yayo. Lowo uza kuwuqonda ngokugqibeleleyo, unokulawula umhlaba ngaphandle kweengxaki. Nangona iimeko zokuqala zengqondo zenziwa ngaphambi kokuba ixesha lethu (ifilosofi uPlato, uAristotle nabanye), isiqalo esisemthethweni sophando lwesifundo senzululwazi ngu-1879. Kwaye sinesibopho saloo mpilo weJalimane uWilhelm Wundt. Kwimihla yethu ifumaneke ngamava anelungileyo, okokuba, ukuba kunqweneleka, ingasetyenziselwa inzuzo nakanjani nawuphi na ummi.

Yintoni i-psychology?

Enye yeenkcazo ezifundwayo: i-psychology yisayensi ehlola iinkqubo kunye neepatheni zomsebenzi wengqondo.

Ndiyabulela kuye, unokufumanisa amandla kunye nobuthathaka bomnye umntu, ngezinga eliphezulu lokukwazi ukuchaza indlela umntu aziphatha ngayo kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Isekelwe kwizicwangciso zokuthengisa kunye nokulawula, kwaye yingqondo ye-psychoanalysis eyanceda amafama akwandisa ukuthengisa nokuqhuba iingxoxo ezixhamlayo. Ukwazi iziganeko, i-psychologist iyakhuthaza umntu onesidima esincinane sokunqoba iintlanzi, ngelixa umntu onokuzithemba angakwazi ukuyichitha ngokuziphatha. Kunokwenzeka ukubalula amathuba okusebenza kwengqondo ngexesha elide, kodwa ukuze ulungelelanise iziseko zawo, kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo, ukukhetha uncwadi olufanelekileyo oluya kwenza ukuba kube lula ukuqonda ingxaki yesayensi nzima. Ezi zintlobo zeencwadi zinomdla. Ngengqondo, unokufumana uninzi lweencwadi ezinobulumko, kuba ngumnqweno.

Ziziphi iindawo ezikhoyo kwizengqondo?

Iingqondo zanamhlanje ngumthi omkhulu kakhulu kunye namasebe amaninzi, kuquka i-age, i-pedagogical, ubunjineli, ikliniki, ukuhlukana, i-psychology kunye nabanye abaninzi. Uninzi lwangentla lusebenza kuphela kwiinkcukacha ezincinci kwaye kwenza kube lula ukusebenzisa le ntsimi kuphela kwiindawo ezikhethiweyo, kodwa ezinye zilungele ukusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi wena kunye nemeko yakho, funda iincwadi ze-psychoanalytic. Iinkalo ezinomdla kwizengqondo ziya kunceda ukuqonda uhlobo lwentsebenziswano yabantu.

Kwenzeke ukuba, ngakwesinye icala, kukhululekile ukuba umntu abe kwinkampani yohlobo lwakhe, kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye nemeko yakho. Kwaye zingaphi iingxabano kunye nokuxabana kubakho ngenxa yokungahoyi imithetho yeprayimari!

Ukuze ungazilayishi intloko yakho ngolwazi olungadingekile, sikhethe iincwadi ezinomdla kakhulu kwizengqondo.

"Izakhono ezi-7 zabantu abanempumelelo"

Xa ufuna ukufunda iincwadi ezinomdla kwi-psychology yomntu, into yokuqala efika engqondweni kukuba "izakhono ezi-7 zabantu abanempumelelo" nguStephen Covey.

Lo msebenzi ungavelisa ukuvakalelwa kwiingcinga ezininzi. Ihlabathi elithengisa phambili lijolise ekunyuseni abantu ukuba benze isenzo, ukujonga ihlabathi phantsi kweendlela ezihlukeneyo ezithandekayo. Iinqununu ezisixhenxe zenzeke ngempumelelo, isiluleko sombhali esetyenziswe ngabantu abadumileyo, kuquka uLarry King, uStephen Forbes kunye noBill Clinton, kunye nezigidi zabanye abafundi. Le ncwadi ifanelekile ukufundisisa, kuba umbhali wayo uphakathi kwabantu abaneempembelelo kwihlabathi. Ndiyabulela, uya kufunda ukwenza iinjongo zobomi bakho kwaye ulungelelanise izenzo zakho endleleni eya kufikelela kuzo. Iyakushintsha yakho imbono yehlabathi, kwaye ubomi buya kubonakala bulula kwaye bunandipha. Ukunceda ukufezekisa ukuvisisana nokuzimela kwakho nokukhuthaza impumelelo kwimisebenzi yobugcisa ngumsebenzi oyintloko wale ncwadi. Inomdla (kwi- psychology yomntu ngamnye) amaxesha anxulumene nomnye, axoxwa ngalo kweli phephancwadi.

"Indoda nomfazi: indlela yokuqonda ngayo"

Enye yeengxaki ezidume kakhulu kuluntu wanamhlanje ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Nangona ubunzima bombuzo, akukho nto ikhoyo yokufumana iincwadi ezifanelekileyo okanye ezingekho phantsi kwezi zifundo-eziyithakazelisayo. Kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, impapasho kufuneka ikhangelwe.

Siya kukunika ingqalelo umsebenzi othi "Indoda noMfazi: Indlela Yokuqonda Ngamanye Amanye" (VI Korotky). Kule ncwadi, ukungafani kwengqondo yezo zesini zesibini kuhlolwa ngokubanzi. Chaza yonke imiba kunye nobuqhagamshelwano ekunxibelelaneni, unike iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokufumana ingxoxo kunye nokunciphisa iingxabano. Incwadi iya kuba kukuthanda kwabo bafuna ukuphepha ukungavumelani amancinci nokuseka ukusebenzisana kunye neqabane labo.

"Ulwimi lolwalamano (indoda nomfazi)"

Ukubala iincwadi ezithabathekisayo kwizengqondo zobudlelwane, akunakwenzeka ukuphepha le khophi. Kwabanye kunokuba kubonakala kungenangqondo, ngelixa kwabanye kuya kuba njengeBhayibhile yeentsebenziswano. Le ncwadi ibhalwa isibini esitshatileyo uAlan noBarbara Pease, abanamava amaninzi okuhlala kunye. Badlulisa amava abo kubantu abatsha abaceba ukutshata. Ngaloo ndlela uza kufumana iingcebiso ezisebenzayo ezikuvumela ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane obumanyanisekileyo kunye obuthembayo, obuninzi lwabafazi abalufuna kakhulu.

"Yithi ubomi" Ewe! "

Le ncwadi, eyapapashwa kwipeni likaVictor Frankl, ithonye ihlabathi elingaphakathi labantu abaninzi.

Ukushicilelwa kunzima ngokubhekiselele kwingqondo yengqondo. Ngethuba lokufunda, umntu uyazibhaptiza kwihlabathi lemfazwe kunye namava onke ebalulekileyo ebomini bombhali, oye watyelela inkampu yoxinaniso. Incwadi iya kunceda kakhulu abo banomuvo wokuba ubomi bubunzima kwaye zonke iinto zentlalo zilahlekile. Kuya kubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ukusuka kuyo nayiphi na imeko kukho ukuphuma kwaye akukho misebenzi engaxhaswanga, iya kukhanyisa i-ray efudumele yethemba emphefumlweni wakho.

Ezi ncwadi zine zinomdla. Ngengqondo yengqondo yomntu ngamnye, umntu unokuqonda kakhulu ngehlabathi kwaye ngokukhawuleza afumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabanye. Iimpapasho ezinjalo ziyakwazi ukubeka "isiseko" sokuqonda ubomi kwaye kufuneka ukuba kubekho etafileni lomntu wonke. Ukuzihlakulela nokuziphucula ngokwabo kufuneka kube sisiseko sokuphuhliswa kwengqondo, ngaphandle kwalokhu akunakwenzeka ukuba ube nolonwabo ngokwenene. Kwiesityuli zeencwadi zokuthengisa unokufumana iincwadi ezinomdla kwizengqondo, uluhlu lwabo lukhulu kakhulu. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uchithe ixesha lakho lokufunda, funda ukuhlolwa kwangaphambili ukuze ungadangali.