Yintoni na imvakalelo umntu nendlela ukujongana nazo

Nkqu nabantu abaninzi cwaka ebekelwe babe iimvakalelo. Kodwa yintoni na iimvakalelo yaye kutheni bona ingqalelo kangaka? Inkoliso kwengqondo bakholelwa ukuba oku indlela ukuya isiganeko, into okanye isiganeko wokuqala ngoko nangoko. Le into zezomzuzwana, ke, leyo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umzimba.

Inyaniso yokuba iimvakalelo zisebenza uhlobo isipili ehlabathini ngaphandle. Negative ibonisa ukuba umntu lowo akanelisekanga meko, okanye into efana nayo.

HIV, kwelinye icala, wabonakala ukuchaneka izigqibo kunye nezenzo, bakhonza njenge uhlobo "iikherothi." Kulo mzekelo, i ukhathazeke kakhulu okanye amandla ngaphantsi. Umzekelo, ukoyika kusengenziwa boyise, kodwa ngummangaliso - yimvakalelo unamandla ngakumbi - mbi kakhulu kunokuba kolawulo. Kulo mzekelo, uloyiko uxelela indoda ukuba ujamelene engozini kukududuzela - ukuba ingozi mkhulu kakhulu kwaye ilawulwa ngcono. Wonder isixelela ukuba ulwazi okanye isiganeko ayingqinelani izigqibo ezenziwe ngaphambili kunye nokucingela.

Izazinzulu Kangangexesha elide ukuphikisana ngokuba oko ukhathazeke nendlela angohlulwa kwaye kuchazwe. Amaninzi, ukuba yahlulwe ezilula kunye ezisisiseko (uvuyo, usizi, inkxalabo, umsindo, uloyiko, ukumangala ukwenyanya) kwi-ulonwabo intlungu (ingakumbi lula umkhondo xa kuzalwa umzekelo) kunye nabanye abaninzi. Kodwa esisiseko sazo zonke kubo kwiziganeko sokuthobela kunye nokungahambelani nemigaqo, kunye neemfuno zokusingqongileyo ekhoyo kunye neenkolelo zabantu zivela.

Noko ke, kukho iindlela ezinzima ngakumbi. Oku, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, imvakalelo unxibelelwano, oko kukuthi, amava enxulumene unxano yonxibelelwano, ubuhlobo ngokweemvakalelo. Yintoni na Imvakalelo olu hlobo? Baya ukunyanzela abantu ukuba bafune ubuhlobo, uvelwano kunye noncedo. Kudidi efanayo iimvakalelo yokuzinikela, apho abantu uncedo nokhuselo umntu nomnqweno udumo, self-isiqiniselo, ukuqondwa kunye nembeko. Ngaphandle kwazo kukho nezokuthandana kunye neemvakalelo ezimnandi kumsebenzi owenziwe, injongo okanye ubuhle Eyokuqiqa. Kunjalo kukho iimvakalelo yaso ezinxulumene esanelisa iimfuno kwi intuthuzelo, ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni, kunye novuyo usetyenziswe okanye abekwe.

Ziziphi iimvakalelo umntu? Oku amaza yokuqala ndimalathise, nokukhokela yonke imisebenzi, ukuba zaseprayimari ngokunxulumene kwengcinga kwaye nesizathu, yaye ngokufuthi abaya kukuyala ukuziphatha. Yaye ukuphila ngaphandle kwabo, abantu nje nako, ngenxa yokuba iimvakalelo ziyayichaphazela hormone ukutya, sehlise umzimba wonke kwaye kuchaphazela onwabe nenzaliseko ubomi. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuzazi iindlela zokulawula iimvakalelo zisebenza ngempumelelo.

Ezinye kwengqondo bathi oko kuyingozi kwaye akufunekanga livunyelwe azilawule. Noko ke, ulawulo iimvakalelo nangoku kuyimfuneko. Ngapha koko ke, kunokuba yingozi kwabanye neyingozi kumntu ngamnye ngokwakhe. Kukho iindlela ezintathu ukulawula iimvakalelo. Oku, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, ezama ukutshintshela kwenye into, khetha enye into for ingqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ndlela isebenza ngokugqibeleleyo, kufuneka nje ukuba ekuphembeleleni ezinye iinzame. Indlela yesibini kukuba ukutshintsha iinkolelo, kuba impembelelo enamandla kakhulu indlela umntu Uyabubona ulwazi ukusuka kokusingqongileyo. Kwaye indlela yesithathu - ukutshintsha amalungu: ukuphefumla, ukuma, nkqu kwithoni yelizwi kuchaphazela iingcinga neemvakalelo zomntu kanye.

Ngaloo ndlela, nangona igunya iimvakalelo yaye imvelaphi yabo ayiyi kuba phantsi sizathu, abantu, Noko ke, unako ukuyilawula bona nabemi; bengafumani imvisiswano ingqibelelo. Enyanisweni, lo ongalawulekiyo, zasendle inkanuko atshabalalise abantu iyingozi kwaye bafumane igunya phezu kwazo kwenza kube lula ukuba baphile ubomi obonwabisayo obanelisayo.