Unxibelelwano intsebenziswano

Wonke umntu kufuneka ukunxibelelana ukusuka ekuzalweni. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu lungohlulwa lube iinkalo ezintathu ezibalulekileyo: imbono, unxibelelwano kunye nothetha-thethwano. Umdla kukuba xa kunokwenzeka ukuhlangabezana imbono okanye zonxibelelwano "ifomu olunyulu", oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kwezinye onke amacandelo unxibelelwano, ngoko khetha noNxibelelwano intsebenziswano ngomgca eyahlukileyo nzima.

kanye Igama yale nkqubo sele ithwala ixabiso ikhomishini nasiphi na isenzo: "Yena Undityhale ukwenza nantoni na," "Oku kubeka uxinzelelo phezu kwam, kodwa andiyi kukunika nto" okanye "Oku akufundisayo kum".

Unxibelelwano njengoko intsebenziswano kufuna inxaxheba ngokukhutheleyo kwingxoxo ye interlocutors ezimbini. Yaye ukuba unxibelelwano ngokunxibelelana kunomda kuphela unxibelelwano lolwazi, kwaye imbono - auscultation nje abanye izimvo zabantu, ukuba unayo nayiphi na impendulo ukuya interlocutor ubeka inkqubo yonxibelelwano kwicandelo eyahlukileyo.

Abanye abantu kunzima nokuthetha. Izizathu zahlukile kakhulu. Autism, ukungakwazi ukuvakalisa iingcinga zabo, ukuba neentloni kunye ukungazithembi kukhokelela kukuba umntu ivaliwe kulo, ukuba uyakwazi kuphela ukuqonda, kodwa kuyabonakala ukuba modem ulwazi.

Ngokuthe ngcembe, abantu bayathanda nje emoyeni impendulo eyimfuneko interlocutor, indoda eqala ukuba ngeenxa. Nangento engento! qho, kuba ukungazithembi kunye ngamava lwangaphandle ifihle intliziyo gentle enovelwano, yaye ngaphakathi rhoqo kuqhutywa umsebenzi ezendeleyo. Ukuba umntu uza kukwazi ukuba 'ukuthetha' ukuba lizuze uhlobo, vula i imbono eziqhelekileyo kunxibelelwano njengoko intsebenziswano, yena unethamsanqa kakhulu. Umcebisi Best kunye nomhlobo, mhlawumbi, kungafumaneki ehlabathini liphela.

Abantu badla ukuba kwenzeke, ingakumbi phakathi kwabafazi, ngokwabo ababangela iingxaki interlocutors zabo ukunxibelelana yokuba bakhetha kwicala kuphela kommukativnuyu kwengxoxo. Abantu abanjalo, bafana iinkuni icula phezu Amaleki. Ukubeka ulwazi ekunene mntu, oko ayicingi ingaba umdla nakubani na kodwa nabo, bona eyabo uhlobo lonxibelelwano ngokuphelele akanamdla ngokoluvo interlocutor. Oku "umdlalo kunye injongo enye kuphela" - ngokuqinisekileyo hayi nonxibelelwano intsebenziswano!

Into ekufuneka uyazi umntu abanqwenela ukuba abe liqabane elihle okanye usukelo ukungqina nantoni na okanye sebenzisa umnxeba ukutshintsha imbono ye "umncedi" lakhe?

Nangona isibakala sokuba sonke sicinge ukuba into ngokwenene eyayisenzeka, size ke thina baxoxe, akukho mfuneko ukuba bafundise bonke efanayo kukho imithetho ethile incoko. Ngapha koko, sigcine ukugcina incoko - yinto inzululwazi!

Imeko yokuqala kwenzeka phakathi ezimbini incoko njengoko intsebenziswano, ukuya efanayo ngempumelelo - oku unikezelo oluchanekileyo interlocutors izithuba. Oko kukuthi, kwimeko nganye omnye ke inkosi kunye nezinye - likhoboka. Ngexesha incoko kufuneka silandele "chain komyalelo".

ehamba sihlalo has division yalo ibe "Umphathi" yaye "ponimatelya". Kwimeko yokuqala, unxibelelwano isekelwe umnqweno ukuba bayilawule le meko kwaye umnqweno ukongamela. unxibelelwano oku akusoloko ikhoboka ubumnandi, ngoko ngokusisiseko abantu zama kancinci kangangoko ukunxibelelana nabantu - ". iisuphavayiza"

Kwimeko yesibini, indawo ephambili kunokubonwa njengoko isekelwe phezu ingqiqo yokulingana interlocutors. Apha indima enkulu edlalwa yi ngumnqweno ukuba akhokele ngaphandle iingxabano, ukuba ukuqonda iqabane lakho uze bafikelele kwisivumelwano mutual, kunye nenkqubela obanelisayo thethwano. Oku nabantu abanjalo mnandi kakhulu ukuba ukunxibelelana, baqonde engqongileyo nkqu nokuba iziphumo wokwenene ngokwenene. Emva adibane nabantu sande lakhe ishawa ushiya imvakalelo emnandi ukuba omnye umntu siphengulule ingxaki kwaye bazama ukunceda.

Oku kulandela kule postulate: Ukuba ufuna abantu bathethe yaye singathanda ukuba ukuqhagamshelana nawe, zama ukuqonda kubo, yima phezu indawo yokulingana, kwanokuba ke niyacelwa okanye icebiso.