Ukubawa njengoko umgangatho ngamnye

Xa "jade amaso" iqhawe Boris Akunin uthi ukuba izizathu naluphi na ulwaphulo-mthetho na "mhlawumbi Icandelo okanye yst, okanye, okanye yomqolo," oko kukuthi, kufuneka kubekho inkanuko, ukubawa, ukuziphindezelela okanye ingozi. Yaye ngokuqinisekileyo ekunene, kuba injongo sabaninzi ookubulala, ukukhuthuza, oobusela, ubuqhetseba, ubundlobongela kunye nobuqhophololo kukubawa nje. Kuyinto umgangatho ngamnye kudala inkohlakalo, inkohlakalo, coarsening wentliziyo, umona, ubuqhophololo kunye nobuhlakani.

Ukubawa - an idealization neenzuzo. Umongo olu phawu wabonakaliswa amakhoboka ngokuthanda nomnqweno akhe ukuze bafunde bonke ubuninzi ingeniso, inzuzo, iinzuzo, iintlawulo zezabelo kunye nezibonelelo. Kugxininiswa kwezinye iinzuzo elizayo: ukufumana imvume, ukukhuthazwa, ilizwi, abafumana yezimali okanye ezinye izibonelelo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukubawa ngemvelo swi, iyasebenza kwaye izama. Njengenja olambileyo ukhangela ithambo, ukubawa uzifunela lonke ithuba abangenakubanyusa. Ukubawa, ukubawa iingeniso ukuba uThixo nokumkani. Yena unika ngayo ukubaluleka ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokubaluleka. Yonke enye ingena ngasemva, waba kokunciphisa olungephi okanye de. Uninzi yezenzo zethu yokuzingca. Sisebenza ngokuba umvuzo. NgoMgqibelo - yinto msebenzi wothando. Khumbula Mayakovsky umgca: "Sebenza nzima, umsebenzi iyazixhamla. Kuba akukho iisenti. Kodwa sisebenzela, ukuba senze lo amaqhawe mkhulu. " Ukuba senza into abanye, ngaphandle kokulinda ukuba kwamkelwe honours kunye nemivuzo, ngoko izenzo zethu akanandaba. Umama ukondla usana okanye sipheke isidlo yakhe indoda nje ngenxa yothando, hayi elinde ukuba imvume okanye nayiphi na imbuyekezo.

Ukubawa oluqhelekileyo lomntu nto nemvelo. Indoda edibana umfazi, umntu uye afumane umsebenzi. Kuko konke oku, kukho self-umdla, kwaye kulungile. Enye into, xa umntu promotion akayeki kuyo nayiphi na indlela - podsizhivaet, cavil nawethutyana, sikhuphisana, oko kukuthi, senze meanly. obenza zakhe masikhokelwe ukunxanelwa usiqeqeshela okusilungeleyo, uya simunce kwisikhundla sakhe esitsha. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokufuna umsebenzi. Kodwa xa self-inzala ngqalelo ngokugqithiseleyo, njengoko kuchaphazela nabanye abantu, xa isithandwa (ukubawa), ngoko ke sisebenzisana obathandayo iyingozi. Ukuba igama "ukunyoluka" ukususa i leta 'c', sifumana undoqo kolu luvo - kuwa bakhukuliswa ukuya emikhumbini kunye usaphule kude kuyo ayikho.

Ukubawa nkxaso Receipt kunye nenkcitho imicimbi, oko kukuthi, waphuma waya nokwanda ukutyiwa. On the obomvu kakhulu, ungazuza. Umzekelo, umqokeleli wathenga iikopi iwaka zonke iintlobo, ayitshisa, ukushiya uphawu olunye. Okunye abaqokeleli olimeleyo - abanakuze bakwazi ukudibanisa ingqokelela epheleleyo izitampu ngalo mbandela. Kwangaxeshanye, nolibawa, ukuba igama elikhethekileyo, ungafumana sibaluleke imali yakhe kude idlula indleko run yonke. Nokuba ngumzekelo. Mhlaba ukuvuna ingqolowa kunye, nangona yindlala, ukulinda, xa amaxabiso ukutsiba. Self-interest akanamdla ukubandezeleka kwabantu, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuye - ukufumana ingeniso.

Ukubawa - kusoloko sisenzo okanye ukungenzi olujoliswe ekufumaneni iinzuzo. Efuna ukufa isihlobo ukuba Ifa ukubawa, ngokuba kungekho manyathelo eziphathekayo ekukhawuleziseni engekasweleki. Bhalo kule sihloko. Usapho ofayo unina-in-mthetho, waza ngesiquphe wathi: ". Jonga kwisilingi impukane ukugaqa" Yintoni-mthetho ngesisa kangaka ithi: - Mama, musa kuphazanyiswa, nceda "umnqweno-in-mthetho - oku nje umnqweno nabo bonke !. Enye into, xa unina-in-mthetho ibamba phezu kwivaranda kumgangatho weshumi ithi: ". Enye ubusendaweni yomphefumlo wam ubuya wadubula okanye ekrwitshiweyo, kwaye ke nje" Nantso ukubawa ngohlobo yayo ecocekileyo.

Ukubawa - ukuba banqwenela ukuba, bafumane inzuzo phantsi ngesebe okulungileyo kuthi ngabo: wam. Phantsi impembelelo yanto ukunyoluka uba uhlaza, ukuzingca ukukhanuka amandla - wasisebenzisa, ukusuka impambano - ekumnikeni. Oku kusoloko ziyagungqa ze nexhala, inyathelo akayi kwenza ngaphandle iingenelo. Nayeka, igama okanye nokubawa wacinga baya kuzisa umrhumo. Kufana uKumkani namaqhalo, wayenqwenela ukuba zonke, yintoni yarweca ajike ngegolide. Kodwa self-inzala yayingesosidenge njengoko namaqhalo. Akuphela yayinguDionysus, namaqhalo wagqiba ukubona indlela lizaliseke umnqweno wakhe ngeendleko yegolide. Yena Sabaleka kwibhotwe, ochukumisa bonke, ngoko kwenzekayo. Uchola lisebe eliluhlaza kunye oki - ngegolide iba isebe ezandleni zakhe. Bakhetha ku ezindlebeni - baba igolide, nanjengentlabathi igolide kubo. Uchola-apile - iapile iba ngegolide, ukuba ngaphandle Hesperides Gardens. Xa ukuzihlamba izandla zakhe njengomthombo ecaleni kwendlela, amanzi ivuza evela amathontsi zabo yegolide. Yonke yachukumisa namaqhalo, ngoko nangoko shi ngegolide. Guqula zonke iinzuzo - liphupha ukunyoluka ngamageza - ukunyoluka.

Phakathi ukubawa nokunyoluka umahluko kuphela kwinqanaba ngokwesicelo ngamnye. Ukubawa - oko ukunyoluka ngamageza. Ijolise ukufumana kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuphela kule domeshivaetsya ngezifo inkanuko maniacal. Stinginess yahlukile ukunyoluka kunye ukuthanda indlela ukufezekisa iziphumo. Ufuna ukuchitha nto konke konke. I Isaci of ukunyoluka - ukurhintyela, kodwa musa ukusisebenzisa. Stinginess uyahlanya ngendlela yabo - hayi ulwandiso, njengoko ukubawa kungekhona ukutyiwa. Ukubawa, ezifana ukunyoluka, Azigubungele omabini amacala yobomi - ugcino kunye nokusetyenziswa, isibakala yena nokubawa. Idealization lelifa okanye ukusetyenziswa eyona kolu luvo. Mu kuya kwa nshita ukunyoluka ukubawa badla nanjongo likumgangatho ophantsi, encinane, neenkani, entsha yayingesosidenge.

Ukubawa alinikwa ukuhlalutya ezinokwenzeka ukuba zingasondeli amanyathelo kunye okhuphisana, ukubala nje ezimbalwa enye ikhosi ngeziganeko. Nokubawa, ufana nomntwana olisusileyo zokudlala wakhe, wathi: "Andinako ukukunika. Oku yeyam. " Ukubawa ngenxa yobuyatha babo, conservatism okanye iimbambano uphosa inzuzo , apho self-umdla multi-ndlela indibaniselwano iya kubala ngayo. Ukuba ukubawa ijolise utsala inzuzo zobuqu kulimaza abanye, le rapacity angamatshijolo zabo ungalawulekiyo olubenza ukumlimaza ngokwayo. Xa ukubawa phantsi iingcango ezivaliweyo "MMM", oogxa bakhe bathi: "nabathengi bethu - abaziziyatha olubawayo. Osisiyatha - kuba wasinika imali, kwaye bangangxameli -. Ngenxa yokuba kulwela emva "

Ukubawa - into ecinga, abakhethiweyo, ukunyoluka zoshishino. Le iimpawu zobuntu entle kunye self-abanomdla achumileyo kwaye iyaphunyezwa ukuphumeza iinjongo zabo, ishishini yimpumelelo, umsebenzi zobuchule kunye ezifunyaniswe zizazinzulu. Kulo mzekelo, zincitshiswe icala orhwaphilizo ezifana yingozi kwabanye abantu. Usomashishini okanye inzululwazi ziqala ukuba nomzi impumelelo yabo kunye nempumelelo. Ukubawa kwoqwebo okunika amandla senjongo, nokuqina nokuzingisa. It ulungisa kubo: "Nina atshaye olu khuphiswano. Befika emva kwexesha ziya kuba owesibini. inzuzo angalibali. Kufuneka ube nesibindi. " Kwi ingubo Australia iingalo kukho yikhangaru njengophawu inkqubela. Esi silwanyana awukwazi sifinyelele umva, phambili kuphela. ukubawa jonga isoloko ikhangela kwikamva. Ngoko ke, ukuba azive ubulungisa iingalo orhwaphilizo kufuneka kwenziwe umbhalo yekhethelo. "Phambili kwi-Future"