Umkhwenkwe-ngubani okhoyo kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje?

Yisiphi isiRashiya eyinyaniso ayizange ive amazwi? Mhlawumbi, kukho ezimbalwa. Kwaye zingaphi izitho ezikhoyo malunga neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zentsapho, kwaye kunzima ukubala. Ziziphi iindatshana eziziwayo kuphela eziqhakamshelweyo malunga nobudlelwane phakathi komkhwekazi nomkhwenyana, ngokugqithiseleyo kusetyenziswe ngabantu kwiimeko ezixhomekeke kwi-anecdotal. Ngokomzekelo, "umkhwenyana womnyango, umkhwekazi," umkhwenyana wethu unentshiseko enkulu, "ubenzele umkhwenyana wakhe umkhwenyana kunye nesicaka," bathi umama unesihogo, kwaye uninazala uyigugu. " Njengoko, mhlawumbi, abaninzi baye baqiqa, namhlanje siya kuthetha ngomntu obizwa ngokuba "ngumkhwenyana", ngubani na, yintoni indawo yakhe kwintsapho.

Ukubaluleka kombandela

Nangona kubonakala kubulula kweso sihlandlo, abanye, kuquka nabantwana bethu abaselula, igama elithi "umkhwenyana" lingabonakala lingavamile kwaye lingaqondakali nentsingiselo, nangona sisetyenziswa kakhulu. Ukuze ungadideki kwisigama-magama, kunye nokuchazwa ngokwaneleyo intsingiselo yento evezwe okanye ifundwe malunga nezibophelelo zentsapho kunye nobudlelwane basekhaya, inqaku elincinci linikezelwa ngqalelo kwinkqubo yemfundo emele kulo mbandela.

Umkhwenyana-ngubani lo?

Ukuba ubeka ingqalelo ekubhaliweyo kwegama, ngoko "inye-root root" ingathathwa ngokuthi isenzi "ukukwazi". Ngokwemiqathango ye-etymology, kwiilwimi ezininzi, kuquka i-Old Slavonic, isi-Ukrainian, isiBulgaria, isiSeerbia, iSlovenia, isiCzech, igama elithi "umkhwenyana" uphendulela ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Ngokwenene lithetha "umtshato". Ukususela kwisiGrike eli gama liguqulelwe ngokuthi "isihlobo, umzalwana". Kukho amagama anjalo angavamile aqulethe ingcambu eqhelekileyo, ebonisa ulwalamano oluthile kwixesha elisisiseko, njengokuba u-auks, umkhwenyana, umkhwenyana, abo bangasetyenziselwa abantu abaqhelekileyo okanye kwiingcamango ezichaza izithethe zabantu kunye namasiko aseRussia, Ukuqala kunye nokuqala kwesiRashiya.

I ntsi ngiselo

Ukubuyela kumthwalo wesimantic wamanje onikwe igama elinikeziweyo, oko kukuthi, ukufumanisa nje ukuba ngubani umzalwana womntu ngendlela ehambelana nayo, umntu unokuqonda ukuba ngokwelizwi leli gama lisetyenziselwa ukubhekisela kumyeni okanye kumyeni weentombi, odade okanye amaqabane, kunye nabani na oba ngumhlobo Emva komtshato. Umama notata womfazi, ngokulandelanayo, umkhwekazi nomkhwezala, umntakwabo-mntakwabo, kunye nodade womfazi-umkhwekazi.

Imbali kunye namasiko

Nangona iimbono zanamhlanje malunga nolwalamano lwentsapho, ekuqaleni kwimihla yakudala yaseRashiya, kunye nakwiidolophana ezikude kunye neendawo zokuhlala ukuya kulolu suku, umkhwenyana womkhwenyana wayebhekwa njengempembelelo kwaye ahlonishwa.

Oku kuboniswa yimithombo echazayo yolwazi olugcinwe kunye nolunexesha eliqhelekileyo eliqinisekisa ukuba kwindlela eqhelekileyo yeedolophana ezihlala kuyo kwakukho izithethe ezithile zokufumana, ukuphathwa nokuhlonipha umyeni wentombi. Ngokukodwa ukuba umfazi wayenanto engabonakaliyo okanye enomtsalane omncinane womtshato. Mhlawumbi, ukusuka apha, inzululwazi yenziwa malunga nobuhlobo obunzima kunye nobudlelwane phakathi komkhwekazi wakhe nentombi yakhe nomyeni wakhe.

Ekubeni bethu ubomi, unako ukuhlangana nomkhwenyana oza kuza kuhlala kwintsapho yakhe. Isihlobo esinjalo esandula kuzalwa sibizwa ngokuba yi-prima. Nangona kunjalo, isacatshangelwa, kwaye ibonakalisa ukubonakalisa, ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle, kungcono ukuba intsapho ihlale ihlala ngokwahlukileyo. Emva koko uninazala nomkhwenyana akayi kuphazamisa. Ngubani na lo nawuphi na omnye omnye, sele sifumene.

Endaweni yesigqibo

Wonke umntu, eze kweli hlabathi, ngokukhawuleza athola izihlobo. Ngokuzibopha ngale nto okanye loo mntu, sinokukhetha iintsapho zethu. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukubhala ngefilistine, nokuba ngumkhwekazi okanye umkhwenyana (ngubani-ufunde ngasentla), ukuhleka usulu ubudlelwane bakhe namanye amalungu entsapho, kunokuchaphazela ukuhamba kwexesha elizayo lokuziphatha kwakhe phakathi kwezihlobo. Ngoko ke, ngaphezu kwakho konke, soloko uhlala ulungile! Emva koko umkhwenyana womkhwekazi uya kuba ngowokuqala!