Umfazi xa Fishing

"Eli bhinqa wavuka ngecala emva kwentsimbi yesithathu ekuseni kunye cwaka ,, nokuphuma ebhedini ukwenzela ukuba ziphazamise indoda yakhe zokulala. Made indlela yakhe endlwini yerhuluneli, waya kuma kwi gear emnyango. Xa uyolo engakholelekiyo ukuba ukusika umgca, beqhekeza ngaphandle eYafo acazulule iintonga! Ke, njengokuba ngokuzola wabuyela ebhedini kwaye ngoncumo abonwabileyo emilebeni kamnandi belele ... ukuphila kwaba kanye sisiqingatha seyure. "
Ucinga ukuba uhlakulele njani iyelenqe onjalo? Ndandicinga ngale mbandela yaye weyiseka ukuba abafazi bethu ndikuthiyile uthando lwethu, yaye, ngokoluvo lwam, oku kuyaqondakala. Ukuloba njenge ubandezele, kuthatha kude nabafazi bethu, amadoda abo abazinikela uyithandayo yabo veki ezinqabileyo, beshiya eziko usapho. Ukongeza, ngokufuthi fisherwomen bethu babuyele ngokuloba ngaphandle iintlanzi, kodwa sekunjalo 'iimpondo ", ukuba ayikho ezandleni kumaqabane. Kakade ke, oku akukho ndlela limenza uthando inkanuko kwethu phakathi kwenu. Kodwa isabelo ingonyama ngayo abalobi abazange bafanelwe ngolo hlobo entsatsheni, nobunzima lokuloba ukuze kucuthwe ukusuka kwisixeko ezinothuli, buyisela i-luvo yaye ubizwa ngokuba "Thethani indalo." Kwaye ubungakanani ezibanjwa kwesi sikhundla kuba aphakamileyo, njengoko kufuneka, kodwa abafazi abanjalo iimpikiswano zingamkelwa, ngenxa yokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba acacisele lowo ukuba kufuneka nje ukuze uzibonele ngokwakho ukuqonda kwaye bayamkele. Njengoko sele kakuhle, ukuba uyeke umsindo ngabafazi bethu ukuba babe ecaleni rhoqo ngakumbi, mna sicebisa ukuba ubameme ukuya kuloba, yiya lokuloba kunye nawo, ukujika loo iiholide veki kunqabile ukuba umphefumlo, eyenza ngakumbi.
Qala yokuba wamnika "igama," lo oko ithiyelwe ngako, ikhosi kunyaka wokuqala, akusoloko kulula kunokuba emifutshane, zixhobisa nje ukuba akukho snap-in izinto ezifuna ezinye amanyathelo kunye nezakhono. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba kubanjelwa ukuloba yokuqala joint, apho uya akuyi kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukubamba intlanzi ezininzi, kuba uya rhoqo kuphazanyiswa ekufundeni namaqhinga ukuloba iihafu yakho, Kakade ke, uncedo emzimbeni. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uthathe ezinye izinto umfazi okokuqala akayi phantsi amandla okanye lingakholisi (kuhle ukuba uyawufumana umbono). Kwaye ngoko ke, kunye nomfazi wakhe uziva uvuyo ukubanjwa iintlanzi yakhe yokuqala, Kakade ke likhulu apho ke, yonke imimiselo okuloba, xelela abahlobo bakho. Kwaye ukuba uya kufumana esinye isiqingatha yakho uhlobo, kholwa ndim, ukuloba yokuqala elwandle kuyo nayiphi na imeko akuyi kuba ngabokugqibela, iya kusoloko kuba owesibini, nabo yesithathu ezilandelayo.
Kwaye ke, ndicinga ukuba umfazi wakho ufuna ukuba balobe ebusika, kwaye kuya kufika xa uya kuba nje bengazimisele ukuya kuloba ngaphandle kwayo. Kuza kufuneka ndilale imizekelo kwaye ke ndicinga.
Kakade ke, kukho inani abasephantsi, "umfazi enqanaweni", kukho inye kwabanye rybolovov- abamelwane ichibi ubhalo olusondeleyo (apha, kananjalo, ngokucacileyo oko I mean), kodwa zonke ezo zinto zincinane kwaye sinikele ingqalelo kubo aniyi. Nje ilungiswe indlela yokuba ezinye izinto uhambo lokuya kuloba kuya kufuneka ukuba benze abantu ababini ebomini, kodwa Kumnandi na umyeni onothando kukwenzela umfazi wakhe yonke kuncedo alo liwanike fun.
Ngokutsho bakuqwalaseleyo zam, inani lwamabhinqa ngentonga okuloba amanzi ngalo lonke ixesha, yaye ngokufuthi sikhatshwe ngabantu. Le nyaniso ayithandayo, nice ukubukela ezi zibini, yaye ukuba ukunyaniseka, kukho umona. Kudla ngokuthi abafazi abalobi ukuba basoyise amadoda abo catch kwaye kule nkalo akaziva alinakuzuzwa. I ukuchaza le nto umahluko zendalo amabhinqa ebantwini, oko ngokuchana zabo, ukuzingisa enkulu lwenzisisiswe ngokuchanekileyo. Oku akuthathi kude abafazi namadoda akukho isitofu sokugonya, ngoko mna enyanisweni uya kwenza oko, kodwa ufana nje nabanye, uhlala libakhuthaza ukuba imifuniselo ezintsha, yaye, njengoko ngamazwi njengoko kuvakala unakho, uqeqesho yabafazi. Kwafa ndathi ndakuva uluvo lokuba iintlanzi "apho, kwelinye icala," uyakwazi ukwahlula amadoda nabafazi, yaye ngokutsho umgaqo umthamo yezichasi. Mna akathandi ukukholelwa kuyo, ukuba nje ngoba, iyafika ngokulinganayo kukho kwakhona inkunzi nemazi. Ngokufutshane, ndandifuna ukuba ndithi litshona nje ntoni "intsapho" umntu lokuloba kufuneka zilungele into yokuba ngaxa ethile umfazi wakhe iqalisa nentlanzi, nilwele lobuntshatsheli iya kuba nje engenamsebenzi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba babe nako ukuzisa ngokwam ukuba uyavuya neqabane lakhe, ngayo yona ngenxa impumelelo yoqeqesho wakho, kulunge; ngokuba uxolo lwakho lwengqondo ukuba ukwabelana catch kwi "yakhe" yaye "yakhe".
UPawulos, ndifuna ukuthi enkosi ukuloba joint Uya kufumana umoya nayo xa umfazi wakhe, uya kukuphepha izizathu etyeni ezifana ekulobeni absenteeism njengoko "Umfazi akabandulula", ukomeleza ulwalamano lwentsapho , kwaye uya kufumana okulungileyo ngokuphindwe kabini ebusweni iqela omthandayo omnye.