Oko yinto elungileyo, into entle? Kukuzingca Ukukhathalela

Wonke umntu wayezibuza ubuncinane kanye ebomini babo ngoko yinto elungileyo, into entle. Kakade ke, oku iphendulwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ukuqonda bonke abantu ukuba isenzo esihle - yinto enze izinto zomnye umntu. Kweli nqaku, siza kuhlolisisa ziphambili kunokwenzeka ezimbini kuphela imisebenzi elungileyo: ukuzidla nokuzingca. Masiqalise kunye egoism ezicacileyo kunye ngaphantsi amanene, kunye.

Ukuzingca njengesiseko ngenxa yezenzo ezilungileyo

Kubonakala imangalisayo kunye engenangqondo, kodwa ke kwiimeko ezininzi na. Kukho kule ngqiqo ibali, phantse umzekeliso, kodwa wathabatha ngempela - Abraham Lincoln.

Xa Lincoln wayekhwele kwi inqwelo ngegosa mnye, yaye bebangisana ngawo isiseko yokuziphatha yokuziphatha kwabantu. Igosa bathi isiseko bonke - kuyanda, kunye Lincoln wayeqinisekile ukuba ukuzingca.

Life kugwetywa debaters: Umqeqeshi Bawuwela umlambo adluleyo, ize ngequbuliso umongameli American wabona ihagu exabileyo udaka ngaseludinini lomlambo, kufutshane namanzi, oko kukuthi, kwaba sengozini ... Imvula yayisina. Lincoln watsibela ngqo isuti phantsi imvula wasindisa ihagu, nibaphanga ukuphuma yodaka kwaye tsala isilwanyana kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Isuti waphanga bolonwabo Lincoln wabuyela nenqwelwana. Igosa wamxelela ukuba wayesandul wakhanyela uluvo lwakhe. "Kutheni?" - wothusa ngumongameli American. "Yini na, nina nisindiswe ihagu, kwaye kuzuza kulo hayi hayi!" - esemthethweni ecetyiswayo. "Kunoko, ukuba andizange ndikhusele umkam, kodwa ngeke ikwazi oko zange ukuxolela," - waphendula Lincoln.

Khawucinge ngale nto ke, yintoni na into elungileyo, into entle.

Masithi xa oosozigidi banikela inxalenye ikomkhulu labo abantwana abagulayo, njengoko lichazwe? Ukuba ke ngoko Wazitshitshisa camera, nanzo zibhaliwe kumaphephandaba? Yintoni na - PR okanye into elungileyo?

Kwaye nokuba akukho bani owaziyo malunga ngeminikelo yesityebi, mhlawumbi iyamxhela isazela okanye otmalivaet izono? Indlela yonke ekondleni le nto?

Sihlala 'umdla kule ndlela, cinga ngoko yinto elungileyo, into entle kwimeko enye, ezithile.

Kuyanda abangcwele spodvigaet kunye intsomi namaqhawe benze imisebenzi emihle

imisebenzi izenzo ecocekileyo, kuyanda nokunga ezilungileyo yaye bangcwele kuphela nabalinganiswa intsomi. Kwaye akukho nto esisikhubekiso ngummi eziqhelekileyo, kubani, kwaye, umzekelo, ngusozigidi, njengengcwele - nguye oluleyisayo ukonakala abantu abadalwe kufutshane iinjongo humanistic. Owona mzekelo olothusayo kule ndlela, Kakade ke, Iisus Hristos. Xa sijonga kwimbali yakutshanje, oko Mat Tereza okanye Mahatma Gandhi. Baya ekondleni bakhonza abantu.

Xa abantu abaninzi bacinga ngezi heroes - ngezenzeko lenkcubeko imbali yehlabathi, akukho umbuzo malunga yintoni na into elungileyo, into entle, kuba impendulo icacile: in ukuzincama ngenxa yempilo kunye nolonwabo yabanye.

Xa film Aleksandra rou "Frost", ngokusekelwe iintsomi Russian nabo umzekelo isenzo zamaqhawe ngokupheleleyo, xa similise linjengebhere, uIvan wagqiba ukuthatha umfazi omdala ukuya udondolo yakhe. Hero ngaphandle "ingcamango yesibini" bagqiba ukwenza umsebenzi olungileyo, nto leyo into efunekayo kuye Old Man Kwamakhowa, qhagamshelana mfana narcissistic kwi nebhere.

Ngamanye amagama, imizekeliso kunye namabali inyanzelise ukuba yinto elungileyo okanye isenzo elungileyo kunokwenzeka kuphela xa umntu renounces umntu, iimfuno zakho yaye ucinga kuphela ngezinto impilo-ntle nolonwabo, intuthuzelo omnye umntu. A kokwenza emangalisayo, akunjalo?

Kodwa ke ukuba siyayijika le imicimbi lusizi yethu, kuvela loo nto kubaluleke kangaka, ukusuka apho ufumana umthombo olungileyo kukudla (kuyanda okanye ukuzingca). Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuba ukukhula kunye ukuzuza amandla. Yaye abantu abazange ukulibala ukuba, ukongeza kubo, ihlabathi abahluphekayo nabagulayo kufuneka ngokwenene uncedo.