Njengoko umntu ucinga, okanye kutheni ubuhle akuqinisekisi ulonwabo

Feminists naliphi na inani na ukubamba iintlanganiso malunga nokulingana ngokwesini, kodwa inyani kukuba, phakathi kwendoda nomfazi umahluko omkhulu. Kwaye ayikho nkqu umahluko komzimba, kodwa kwinqanaba lokuba sezingqondweni. Ibhinqa liya sicinge njengandoda ucinga, kwaye vice versa. Enyanisweni, oku ubuhle yonke iphela. Oku banakekela Mother Nature, kunjalo kubalulekile ukubuphikisa kuye? Ingongoma apha imeko kubudlelwane phakathi yobuchopho. Xa sex wamhle unxibelelwano phakathi kwabo, ukuba nako ukwenza ulwazi oluninzi ngaxeshanye, kodwa oyindoda womelele "ukuphendula" lula ukuseka uxhulumaniso ubhalo, ngokukhawuleza kwizicatshulwa into ebalulekileyo leyo kwaneso zochuku.

Yazi ukuba ucinga njani indoda, kukho umfazi ufanele ukuze uphephe enyundululu zochuku. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba akayi ukuqonda ezinye izinto, kungekhona kuba kukutyeba, lingenandaba, njalo njalo. D., Yaye kuba bezibona ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi. A Umzekelo classic: iikawusi saa, izitya etafileni, ukungakwazi ukufumana into wasekunene kwigunjana. Zithobeni i amalungu ngokupheleleyo-owned. Izinto saa ngenxa yokuba "kuphawula ntsimi", oko kuthetha kuye: "Mna lo boss apha." Ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo, musa ahlambe izitya, case yasebukhosini. A awukwazi ukufumana into wasekunene kwigunjana, ngenxa yokuba kukho inani elikhulu iinxalenye ngoko nangoko unkqonkqozayo kuye ukulinganisela, waza ke yena kubo utshabaleleyo.

Enye luncedo ukwazi ukuba nokuba indlela umntu acinga ngayo amabhinqa. Kuyimfuneko ukubona umahluko phakathi njani ngokwabo manenekazi, nendlela ezidibana ngayo Cavaliers. Bonke abafazi ufuna ukuhlangana umgangatho othile wobuhle ekhona lo mzuzu eluntwini. Emva fashion kwaye baya eninzi imibingelelo, sex buthathaka ungabi ikholelwa ukuba oku ngoko nangoko ubone oyindoda womelele. Kodwa ke into funny kukuba uninzi nokuqhathwa abantu bamane awuboni. Cinga Like A Man, uya kwandula ke ubone indlela into engalunganga. Bebona umfanekiso xa iyonke. Nokuba umfazi uthanda, okanye yena uthandana nayo, akanandaba into unxiba yena, yintoni iinwele zakhe. Kubonakala ukuba abafazi ukuchitha ixesha kunye nemali, kungekhona abantu, kodwa ngenxa othandwayo, ukuphucula zabo ukuzithemba, leyo, ngokuzenzekelayo, ibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ngaphandle kukuyibaxa, nceda.

Mbiko ngobuhle nalo awucacanga. Okwangoku, enye into - imbonakalo socialite umgangatho sele isithukuthezi. Ukususela apha imithetho Uqoqosho: umthamo omkhulu zezindululo kusoloko lihlisa iindleko imveliso ngokwayo. Ingakumbi ngoku ubuhle - akukho isipho endalo, kunye nobuchule ugqirha kaThixo, wonobuhle kunye nobungakanani zotyalo-mali. Njengoko umntu ucinga kule meko? "Zizo zonke ngokufanayo!" Kwaye uyayixabisa umfazi, kungekhona umntu kodwa ukuncedisana simahla kwi "Mercedes" okanye iiwotshi ezibizayo. Le yimpazamo enkulu ukucinga ukuba imali buyisela iimvakalelo. Ezininzi mantombazana xa silibale ukuba ngokwenene ubutyebi kwaye ungaze imvakalelo ulonwabo. Yaye kungekudala emva koko, le yanto ngaphakathi kuya kuba nesiphumo. Njengalo okanye hayi, kodwa indalo hayi ukuqhathwa nekamva kakhulu. Kufuneka ahlawule zonke.

Icebiso: Cinga njengendoda, senze ngathi ngumfazi. Uyakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi nezisemaphandleni fumana kwaye ohmurit "Papic 'ukuza kwaye kuphunyezwe elininzi ehamba clever kwaye ukonwabele nokongama zabo. Kwaye nje ube wena, sibe omthandayo, usapho kunye bonwabe. Ukukhetha uhlale apho.