Ndiyoyika ukuba azale ntoni ukwenza ntoni?

Amantombazana amaninzi abaye bafunda kanye ukuba ukhulelwe, ndicinga: "Ndiyoyika ukuba lokuzala:? ntoni" Isizathu sokuba iingcinga ezinjalo kukoyika ienjini esondelayo intlungu, yaye ingaqhelekanga. Ngelishwa, mvanje kukho umkhwa ukuba ukukhula kwenani lokuzalwa licandelo ngoqhaqho. Le ngxaki kwenzeka ngenxa yokungabi nalwazi abafazi mihla kunye nokungabikho ukuvumelana engqondweni.

Kakade ke, akukho namnye unako unganikeza isiqinisekiso ngokupheleleyo ukuba unikezelo iya kuba elula. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba azale ngokwakho - ngoko hamba kuwo onke amanqanaba eziyimfuneko kwendalo womntu. Kukholelwa ukuba umntwana ozelwe ngendlela yemvelo, abe sifo esomeleleyo, kuya kuba nzima ebomini, ngokulula kakhulu ukufikelela ezinqwenelekayo. Kufuneka siqonde ukuba ukuze Musa ukoyika lokuzala, yaye musa uthi: "Ndiyoyika ukuba lokuzala: ? ntoni", kufuneka Tune kuwe engqondweni. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuba ucinge ngoku, hayi elidlulileyo okanye elizayo. Cinga ngaloo mihla emzimbeni wakho ivavanywa utshintsho ayibuyiseki umva, usana, ize kufutshane ekuzalweni uya kuba umama waphantse ukusekwa. Kulo mzekelo, isibakala yokuzalwa ntsapho ziya kuba yinkqubo ebalulekileyo kulo kurhulumente.

Ayikwazi le ukoyika zokubeleka ukugcina wena, kufuneka uthethe ngayo nomhlobo, mhlawumbi ingxoxo elektroniki, kwiiforam, kunye namantombazana, lungabemi elifanayo kwinqanaba yokukhulelwa. A umcebisi olungileyo ngubani na inkxaso kunye nokhuthazo, unokuba ugqirha wakho, ngubani na oya ukunikezelwa. Kwityala kakhulu, ukuba ukoyika awubavumeli ukuba axhamle zonke iziyolo kukamama elizayo, ungatsalela umnxeba inkxaso yengqondo. Ukuze lo mbuzo, "Ndiyoyika ukuba lokuzala:? Into emandiyenze" akazange eme ulimele batyakatywa kwaye elizayo nonina, kufuneka ulungiselele kwisibhedlele ngosana kwangaphambili, njengoko nawe ngokwakho wazi kakuhle ukuba ukuzalwa uza kufika nakanjani. Ilungile ngaphambili kancinci ukulungiselela isingxobo zohambo ukuya esibhedlele. Kufuneka wazi kakuhle ukuba benze ntoni xa uthe wangena ubeleka. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ungakwazi noba ushiye inowuthi ekhayeni lakho kunye neengcebiso ngento ukuyenza. Ndixelele ngokuzithemba kwakhe: "Andiyi Ndiyoyika!", Kwaye ngoko ke ukoyika kukushiya. Enoba kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba Tune kuphela iimvakalelo ezintle, ukucinga ukuba, kwaye itakane akukho lula ukuba kuvela ehlabathini. Umntwana kwakhona eliva ubunzima, kubuhlungu, eyoyikisayo, engaqhelekanga ukuba ushiye cottage ezimnandi, nto leyo eshushu kangaka, ekhuselekileyo kunye nenzolo.

Ukongezelela hlengiso ngokwasengqondweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi ukunciphisa embundwini intlungu. Enye kakhulu popular lokuphumla. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo ezininzi unokukunceda uphumle, umzekelo, aromatherapy, yoga kumabhinqa akhulelweyo, ukuzeyisa hypnosis. Kukho izifundo ezizodwa pre-natal, apho iingcali ezinamava ukunceda ukuphelisa iingxaki uninzi lwamabhinqa, "Ndiyoyika ukuba lokuzala:? Ntoni", libonwa kunye elizayo ngumama okhulelweyo. Ngexa lokukhulelwa, umthambo luncedo kakhulu. Kucacile ukuba ungayibaxi, kodwa encinane umthwalo kusoloko bamkelekile. Ngexesha wenyama umzimba endorphin kweziyobisi ukuba ungakwazi ubuhlungu. Xa kunjalo, ukuba sele kukade icangcisiwe, ilungisiwe ukuba ukuzalwa, kwaye umntwana akafuni ukuba ngumnikazi ukuba azalwe, kuyimfuneko aqhubela abasebenzi artificially. Malunga ke, apho benza ngokuzalwa ngumntu, yazini kakuhle kwangaphambili ukuba ukufumana uxolo kunye nokuzithemba.

Ngelishwa, le ntlungu ayinako ukuthintelwa ngokubeka wena nje ngenxa iingcinga ezintle uze utshintshe isimo sengqondo kuyo, musa ukucinga ngam, kodwa lo mntwana. Yena, kunzima kakhulu! , Nikholwe ndim, umntwana kunjani isimo kamama elide phambi lwakhe lokuzalwa. Ludambe, siqinisekile, kwaye konke kuhamba kakuhle!