Ndingonwabile njani? I-Psychology yolonwabo ebomini

Emncintiswaneni wokuphumelela kunye nomnqweno ongenasiphelo sokwenza yonke imali, abantu abazukufumana yokuqala okanye yesibini. Ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko i-psyche ayimi, kwaye ukuveliswa kwezinto kuhla, okuhamba kunye nokulahlekelwa ngumdla kwimpilo kunye nomnqweno wokwenza nantoni na. Ndingonwabile njani? I-Psychology ingasinika izimpendulo, kodwa indlela yokuzonwabisa lonwabo inzima kwaye ide.

Ngegama lithini?

Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yolonwabo yintsikelelo yobomi. Ngexesha elifanayo, umntu uyazi ukuba kutheni enze izenzo zakhe zonke, ubona ukubaluleka kwayo kwaye uyakwazi ukuvuya nakweminye imisebenzi eyayibonakala ingenakwenzeka ngaphambili. Kodwa indlela yokufumana intsingiselo? Ndingonwabile njani? I-Psychology incoma ukuba uphendule ngokunyanisekileyo ngombuzo wexabiso kwaye ucinge ngeempawu zobuntu ezinokuthi ungatshintsha umhlaba ube ngcono. Uya kumangaliswa yimpendulo yakho ukuba ucinga ngesi sihloko ngokunzulu nangethuba elide. Idla ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba izifundo zabazali ezivela kwinqaku elincwadana ethi "Ndingathini na ukuba nonwabile?" Kulula ukusebenza, kwaye ukususela ebuntwaneni ukhokelwa yixabiso ongenanto. Ngako oko, kunzima kuwe ukuba uzive uvuyiswa ngobomi bakho. Emva kwakho konke, wawuxosha emva kwesekondari. Abafazi abaninzi abayifuni impumelelo, kodwa uthando lwabathandekayo kunye nezihlobo. Ngelo xesha, abaninzi balabo bazama "ukuqhubela umphefumlo" inyaniso malunga nenjongo yebhinqa lokwenene, eqinisweni, abaziqondi ngokwabo kwihlabathi lobudlelwane, kodwa kwihlabathi lemithetho enenjongo. Oko kukuthi, kwizenzululwazi zendalo, ikhompyutha, imisebenzi yezoqoqosho.

Amanyathelo amancinci ukuzonwabisa

Isimo sesibini siphumelele rhoqo. Ndingonwabile njani? I-Psychology ithi ukuzithemba kufuneka siqinisekiswe rhoqo impumelelo. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina idayari yeempumelelo. Esi sixhobo esilula sikuvumela ukuba ukwandise ukwaneliseka kwakho ngobomi. Abaninzi bathambekele ukulibala malunga neempumelelo zabo kwaye bajolise kuphela kwiingxaki. Oku kuzisa i-psyche ukuba isebenze ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye yenza ukuba isebenze emaphethelweni kwamathuba, ngokuqinisekileyo ekupheleni kwimeko ephazamisekayo.

Xabisa okulungileyo

Isimo sesithathu sokonwaba sinombulelo. Kubantu. Yaye amandla amakhulu kuThixo. Amakholwa akonwabile ngakumbi kune-agnostics, kwaye aba bavuyo bavuya ngakumbi kunokuba bakholelwa kuThixo. Enyanisweni, ukuba umntu uhlala ebona indlela enikwa ngayo, uya kunandipha ubomi ngaphezu kwe "whiner" ngezicelo ezigqithiseleyo. Ukubulela abantu kuhlawulela ngokwabo-kukuvumela ukuba wenze ubudlelwane obuthembayo kunye nokufudumala. Ndingonwabile njani? I-Psychology ikhuthaza ukuziphatha kwesinye idayari - "ingxelo yolonwabo." Kuyo ubhala ubuncinane izinto ezilishumi ngosuku onokubulela kuThixo okanye kubantu. Kukho nezicelo ezikhethekileyo zefowuni eziza kukuvumela ukuba ubhale ngokukhawuleza ukubonakala kwakho.

Kukho nezinye "izinto ezinonwabo" ezifana nokukwazi ukunandipha impumelelo kwabanye, ixesha elaneleyo lokunxibelelana kunye nenkolelo kwikamva elibhetele. Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu malunga noko sathetha ngasentla. Ndingonwabile njani ebomini? Hlala ngokucacileyo, ungalibali malunga nempumelelo yakho kwaye ujonge.