Kutheni Iphupho ziintwala

Mhlambe isinambuzane, okuyinto ibonisa ngokucokisekileyo ngakumbi iingqondo inkoliso yabantu, ubuhlwempu kunye uncleanliness. Ukongeza, ezi zinambuzane luphawulwa Inabantu kunye basinde emangalisayo, ukuba mobile kakhulu kwaye akukho lula ukubamba. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, iintwala ezi sifundo ukuhlekwa, ndayintlekisa kubantu ziyagungqa ze flighty. Ngenxa yale buhlobo ezi zidalwa mhlawumbi akuyi kuhlala mntu bekuya kuba umdla ukwazi ukuba yintoni amaphupho iintwala.

Ukuba kukho iintwala indlela bekuya kuba enqwenelekayo ukuqinisekisa kuwe, kodwa eli phupha kwangaphambili ukuba akukho okulungileyo. Ucingela ezininzi imbandezelo nosizi, kwakunye izigulo ezinzulu. Bona ziingcongconi izilwanyana phantse lonke kuthetha ilahleko kunye nelahleko. Ukuba ziintwala waphupha tsheni kuwe, oko kuthetha elimile wakho ngokukhawuleza ngokunxulumene umntu osondeleyo kuwe.

Kutheni ephupheni ziintwala, leyo ukubamba wena? Oku kuthetha isifo ambulensi nokufumana inkathazo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba unganikisi khulu kwezi amaphupha, leyo andzise kuphela meko. Iinzame ukuba awadubadube kuthetha umsebenzi engento, akazange ukuhlangabezana nokulindelweyo, nomzamo ziphanzile. Iingcongconi amaqanda azo, nazo kuthetha onzima, umsebenzi uxanduva, nto leyo eza kufuna kuwe ixesha elininzi kunye nengqalelo. Ukuba kukho iintwala ukuba tsiba, ukuba liphupha yesi ixhala kunye neendaba ezihlambela njalo ubomi bakho.

Enyanisweni, uninzi iincwadi iphupha ukuphendula lo mbuzo, yintoni amaphupho iintwala, kucacile - nilindele elizayo yimincili kunye namava zokomoya, nto leyo eza inxulumene ekuhlaseleni iintshaba kunye ukuphazamiseka zakho zempilo.

Noko ke, ezinye downers uphendule lo mbuzo, yintoni ziintwala amaphupha, ukuba aziphazamisi ukutolika ezinye amaphupho ukukhanya ezintle. Umzekelo, iintwala bethetha ndiyakuthembisa kuni iindaba engalindelekanga eziya ikushiye kakhulu. Ezilumayo wena musa ukunika izinambuzane lokuphumla kuthetha inzuzo yemali engalindelekanga okanye izinto inkxaso enkulu, lowo iphupha apho kukho baninzi-yaxoxa iintwala noonomoyi. A iphupha apho umntu uphaphileyo, ivela emzimbeni okanye emzimbeni kwayena inani elikhulu ziintwala njengeenyoka, ukufumana ubutyebi enkulu. izixhobo Ukufuna, usindisa wena kubo, uya kuthetha iingxaki razresheneya osisigxina ukuba kudala ukunqandile.

Amaphupha, apho kukho izinambuzane zohlobo esisodwa bahlanganise ezinye iintlobo zezinambuzane (izilwanyana), apho umntu olele bobabo mintlhaveko efanayo. Umzekelo, ephupheni apho waphupha ziintwala, uyakwazi kuvamile ukubona abantwana babo (oonomoyi), iinyoka kunye iinkumba (bakufikise iimvakalelo ezifanayo lamela). Ukuba, uthi, umntu angazishiyi xa ebona ukuvela zizinambuzane ezininzi (iintwala iinkumba) ephupheni kwaye yimvakalelo ecacileyo, uyacebiswa ukufumana phandle yaye yintoni amaphupha iinkumba, uze emva koko kufuneka ukuba unxulumanise amaxabiso amabini.

Ngokutsho utoliko ezininzi zeencwadi iphupha, iinkumba ephupheni zinto zingumqondiso isiganeko efanayo ukuba asemaphakadeni ziintwala, ebonisa ukuba abonakale non-ejikelezayo. Zibonakalisa imeko yangoku mpilweni bakungqonge ze noqebeyi otyunyuziweyo uthembisa intlanganiso kunye nabantu zingambi kakhulu.

incwadi iphupha Freud sichaza oko amaphupho iinkumba, passivity zesini. Mhlawumbi nomnye umntu, uya kufumanisa ukuba ngokuvumelana, ukuba ufuna, kodwa le manyano iqabane lakho kakhulu esebenzayo ngakumbi na, kwaye kufuneka ukuba utshintshe yokuziphatha ebhedini. Njengezinambuzane phezu nkumba umzimba ekubhekiselelwe iimvakalelo ngaphezulu ezibukhali ngokungaqhelekanga kwesicwangciso ngesondo kukushiya uphawu ngokunzulu umphefumlo wakho.

Russian Dream Book Dream Book noSimon Kanonita bangaboni imbonakalo nto iintwala iinkumba kubi ndixela impumelelo kunye ithamsanqa kwimisebenzi yakho.