Ukuzifeza, Psychology
Indlela yokuphuhlisa idesi
Ngokuqhelekileyo ebomini sifumana abantu abakhawuleza ukuvakalisa uluvo lwabo, kodwa nje oko bafuna ukukusho kuyinto eyimfihlakalo. Ukuchaneka okulungileyo akukona nje ukuchaneka kokuchanekileyo kwileta "p", kukubiza ngokuchanekileyo nokuchanekileyo kwamagama onke ngokupheliswa kunye neziphakamiso. Xa intetho ihlala iqondakala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba isantya sithini, le nto yichazi elichanekileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu unokuthetha ngokucacileyo, kodwa xa eqala ukukhathazeka okanye abe neentloni, zonke iintsilelo zentetho "ziyahamba": uqala ukugxotha nokugwinya ukuphela kwamagama.
Akumangalisi ukuba abazali abaninzi bezingane baqala ukukhathazeka malunga nombuzo wokuphuhlisa isichazamazwi kumntwana, kuba intetho ecacileyo kule minyaka iyona nto iphambili ekuphuculeni uphuhliso oluphumeleleyo kunye nezakhono zonxibelelwano. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngaba ngamaxesha xa kungekho zinkango zonyango kwaye ukungenelela kogqirha oyingcali akuyimfuneko.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, abazali bayakhawuleza ukuba batyelele intetho yomlomo, ngubani, ngokombono wabo, unokulungisa iimpazamo entetho yomntu. Oku kuyinyani, kodwa kukho izifundo zokuthetha ngentetho eziza kunceda ukulungisa zonke iingxaki ngaphandle kokungenelela koogqirha ochwephesha.
Okokuqala, ukuze kufikelelwe ukucaciswa okucacileyo nokuchanekileyo kwamagama anzima, kuyimfuneko ukuqeqesha ngokunyatheliswa kweelwimi ezitshintshileyo, ezikunceda ukudala ukucaca okucacileyo kweengcaciso.
Ukuze ufunde indlela yokubhengezwa ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka ulandele imithetho elula. Okokuqala kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza nangokuchanekileyo yonke itekisi yolwimi. Abantu abaninzi bazama ukuvelisa konke kanye, nangona kunjalo, siphuthuma ukukuqinisekisa ukuba indlela enjalo ayiyi kukhokelela kwisiphumo esifunileyo. Okokuqala, kufuneka kuphuze, nangona iilwimi ezingathethi kwaye ukhumbule itekisi. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ulwimi luthinte ngokuchanekileyo.
Umntu, ochaphazelekayo malunga nendlela yokuphuhlisa isichazi magama, kufuneka aqonde kakuhle. Ukwenza oku, cela abanye ukuba bafunde emlonyeni wakho umbhalo othi "uthethe" ngokuthula.
Ngoku kufuneka uhlabe ngokucacileyo onke amagama eelwimi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba angabikho ngexesha lakhe, kodwa ukuthetha zonke izandi, nje ngezwi eliphantsi.
Kwaye ukugqibelela kokugqibela okufuneka kwenziweyo kukucula ulwimi udibanisa ngeenjongo ezahlukeneyo okanye uthetha ngeentetho ezahlukeneyo, ugxininisa amagama ahlukeneyo. Kuphela xa itekisi ikhunjulwa ngokungacwangciswanga, ungazama ukubiza umntu ofundayo ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza.
Akuncedi kangako kulabo abazama ukuqonda indlela yokuhlakulela isichazi-magama, baya kuphefumula. Funda ukuphefumula ngokufanelekileyo, uthetha ngokuphefumula kwiindawo ezihlukeneyo zomzimba, ukuze ukuphefumula kungabikho kwaye akukuthinteli ukuvakalisa izandi ezahlukeneyo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqeqesha imisipha yezulu, kuba oku kufuneka ukhethe iingqungquthela "G" kunye "K" ngamaxesha amaninzi emva koko, ngaphandle kokuvula umlomo wakho, kufuneka uzame ukubiza izikhalazi "O", "A", "E". Ngoku unako "ukuhlambulula" umlomo ngomoya, njengokuba wenza ngamanzi xa uhlamba amazinyo akho.
Abo bafuna ukuqonda indlela yokuhlakulela isichazi magama kufuneka baqeqeshe nzima nobunzima, basebenze nzima ukwenza imisipha yomlomo neelwimi ngokupheleleyo phantsi kolawulo lwakho. Kumele ukwazi ukunweba uze ukhulule umhlathi ophezulu nangaphantsi.
Ukuze uhlakulele isichazi-magama, ungasebenzisa inkohliso elula njengoko ufunda inkondlo equlethwe ngamanqanaba asibhozo kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo kwimiba. Ngoko, umzekelo, ekuqaleni kwenkondlo kwakukho izinga eliphantsi loluhlu lwakho, kwaye kunye nomgca olandelelanayo wenyuka ngokunyuka ngendlela enokuthi enye yokugqibela ifinyelele kumgangatho ophezulu webala lakho.
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuzilolonga ezahlukeneyo ezikunceda ukuphuhlisa isichazi magama, kwaye unako ukuthetha rhoqo ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba imeko.
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