Indlela yokunceda umntwana wakho ayiveli izakhiwo umzimba

Abazali engafanelanga kuphembelela indlela yokuziphatha oselula ngexesha khadinali ngokutsha yomzimba. Le nkqubo ayibuyiseki umva kwaye ifuna umonde. Noko ke, ukunceda abantwana ngeli xesha kunzima ukwenza ephile ukuzithemba real kakhulu.

Amantombazana afikisayo enzima

Xa amantombazana Sijonge ubungqukuva ezifunyenwe, kusenokubonakala ngathi umzimba njengenyanga. Kungenxa yoko le nto imihla yokuqala yokubumba "abadala" ububanzi bomfanekiso okwiskrini lubaluleke kangaka ekubeni abantu bacinge esempilweni lwamanani ezintsha. Kufuneka ukunceda intombi yakhe. Nokuba umntwana waba ukuzithemba, mhlawumbi ngoku ucinga ukuba yonke into waphuma kolawulo. uluvo lwakho kujongwe ukusihlangula kuloo meko.

Amanye amabhinqa inguqu nomzimba ngexesha lokufikisa, ukongeza ekubeni elirhangqiweyo esinqeni kukhula amabele, ewayo izinqe okanye isisu ivela. Oku eqhelekileyo, kwaye nani yokuzuza ngokuvumelana awayesibawela kuphela iminyaka 17-18.

Mcacisele ukuba le yinkolelo yethutyana

Phambi nokuvuthwa intombazana ngokupheleleyo elivisayo ukuba bahlole ngeliso elibukhali inkangeleko yazo. Kunokuba ume iiyure esipilini, cinga isisu sakho, ngokuba yena i "ukulibala" kwaye ngokufihlakeleyo ndiwuthiyile olu tshintsho. Konke ukuba ungenza - kukuba ukuphulaphula yakhe novelwano uze ucacise uhlobo utshintsho. kufuneka siqonde Yena ukuba lo mba okwethutyana. Kuphephe ukuphazamiseka amandla, nto leyo ebangela iingxaki isisu. Qinisekisa ukuba abantwana bafumana imali eyaneleyo iivithamini.

Yokuba akwamkelekanga ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo malunga izidlo

Ngo-2013, oko kubanjwe uphando ukuchonga oku kulandelayo kwiYunivesithi Minnesota. Nkqu kwiintsapho apho abazali indices ubunzima eqhelekileyo, nesinye kwisithathu oomama nootata ngokufuthi lixoxile nesikolo ngasinye enye ingxaki umzimba okanye yokutya. Kuye kwafunyaniswa ukuba amantombazana amaninzi elivisayo ukuphulaphula ooyise. Not anikela ingqalelo kwindlela abanye abantu ukuvavanya imbonakalo amantombazana. Ziba izihloko ezinxulumene isondlo. Ngoko unako ukunceda umntwana wakho siqhubeka siphe- imikhwa emibi, ezifana ukudla. Jokes phakathi kwabazali eziphathelele kwiinguqu ntombi nobudala azivumelekanga.

Ubuhlobo iziteketiso ekhubekisayo

Ukuba kwintsapho, uyakwazi ukugcina ukulawula ingxoxo, amazwi ahlabayo intombi yakho ukuba inshorensi ngoogxa babo. Achithwa kwaye izixhobo ngayo. xelela nje intombi yakhe ukuba mhle, kwaye umthanda, nokuba iza kutshintsha ngaphaya ingqalelo. Ngaba ubuza, ungenza ezinye izinto ukuze umntwana wakho azive elungileyo. Nikelani ingqalelo iimpahla elivisayo. Izinto ukuba basondele. Ukuba ufuna ukuthenga impahla entsha. Musa ukusebenzisa impembelelo yakho intombi ekukhetheni iimpahla ezintsha. Kule minyaka, abantwana umbono yabo isimbo, bafuna ukuba eyahlukileyo kubantu abadala kunye nothando intuthuzelo. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba uyoyika ukukhangela yesiyatha phambi koontanga babo.

Nciphisa i "selfie"

Intsha ngenkuthalo usebenzisa uthungelwano zentlalo, apho bathanda ukuba ukusasaza iifoto zabo, wathelela ngokoqobo ne fashion kuxhaphakile ukuba 'selfie'. Nciphisa lo mgomo. Xa intombi yakho iza kujonga owayeyintombi eziphezulu slim, iya kuphuhlisa ndingento yanto. Akunjalo eside eyadlulayo, izazinzulu ziye zachongwa ipateni: amantombazana elivisayo ngakumbi lokhangelo lwencwadi iifoto abahlobo kwi social networks, kubi baziva ngokwabo. iintombi Isexwayiso eyayiza kuba mnandi ukwambatha iifoto kuboniswa obala imisebenzi yabo creative, iyiqhagamshelanise iingoma zakho ozithandayo okanye iividiyo aphorisms sisilumko. Yiba ngumzekelo omhle intombi yakhe; anciphise ixesha labo echithwe zonxibelelwano media loluntu.

Xa umntwana ebona iinkwenkwezi kamabonakude

Ukuba intombi yakho igxininisa abathandwayo nosaziwayo umzimba mxelele indlela ezisebenza ngayo onzima iimvumi zobungcali okanye abadlali. iiyure ezininzi, becacisa, ushicilelo, bhasi, iinqwelo musa avumela nokuba uphumle. Enyanisweni, iinkwenkwezi umboniso ezingezozethu ngokwabo, kodwa umfanekiso kunye ngemikhuba yabo balandela iqela yeengcali. Kwakhona, ukuchazela umntwana ukuba umzimba intengiso sanga iimpahla lwenzelwe eyahlukileyo kwiqela lobudala amabhinqa.

Ingxaki of abangabafana

Kunye nabafana, izinto kancinci lula. Utshintsho imizimba yabo akunjalo kakhulu yaye, enyanisweni, abafana ukumelana nezifo yokungaqiniseki ezinxulumene ne inkangeleko entsha. Uninzi amakhwenkwe uphupha namagxa ebanzi dystrophy. Ngo-2014, Harvard Medical School kwaqhutywa uphando, nto leyo yabonisa ukuba amanye amakhwenkwe uyavuma ukuba utyebile, kodwa kungabonakali mncane kakhulu.