Nangona lonke uqeqesho, ukuphulaphula abahlobo intetho kunye abazana abafazi ekumitheni, oomama abaninzi elizayo ngexesha umfazi owayembelekisa waqalisa yokothuka ngokwenene. Abanye Andazi nokuba Yilwa njani ngexesha zabasebenzi, ngenxa yokuba, kwelinye icala, kusenokubonakala ngathi le nto kungekho deal enkulu, kodwa wena unoxanduva ubomi bomntwana wakho. Oku kanye le nkqubo kucingwa ukuba yeyona ibalulekileyo zombini unina nosana lwakhe. Obstetricians ngamanye amaxesha ukulibala ukwenza i thethwano ukuzala eziyimfuneko nje phambi kokuqala kwenkqubo ningaqali eduma ilizwi lakhe: "Yiza! Phambili, Precious" Ekubeni sele ufunda oku, ngoko niya kwazi ncam ukuba amsunduze ngayo ngexesha delivery, nabo bonke kuhamba kakuhle.
Amaxesha amaninzi, oomama abatsha siyazenza iimpazamo ingakumbi xa uqala lityhale "ubuso", oko kukuthi, umzimba uphela zijonge phambili, kwaye wonke umthwalo iwela ebusweni. Ngenxa yoko, kukho ukugruzuka ukuba musa ukuya kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa, okanye iiveki. Oku kungenxa yokuba imithambo yegazi kuqala yozigqabhuza amehlo kunye nobuso. Kunokwenziwa isigqibo ukuba kunjalo akunakwenzeka ukuba amsunduze 'ebusweni bakho ". Umzimba uphela kufuneka kubuyiswe, yaye imizamo iya kuba yimfuneko kwi esiswini. Kuyimfuneko ukuba imilenze othini lwaso, bamba izibambo iplagi phezu, kuze ngokwenjenjalo kuncedwe ukuzityhala ngokuchanekileyo.
Enoba kunjalo, xa iqala inkqubo zokubeleka obstetricians kunye noogqirha kufuneka akuxelele indlela ukutyhala ngexesha ukunikezelwa. Mhlawumbi ezinye kulula kakhulu ukuphumeza imithetho yabo, njengokuba ixesha acinga angeke. Kamsinya nje ukulwa, kholwa ndim, ukuba wenze oko nto xanisa. Kweli nqanaba, kufuneka uthathe umoya, ndiqalise ukuba amsunduze nzima. Thatha indawo echanekileyo yaye ujonge kwi imfesane yakho, koko uwukhuphe ze uqale kwakhona. Ukuphefumla yeyona indima ebaluleke kakhulu zokubeleka: ujula uphefumla, intlungu ngakumbi ukunyamezeleka lula. Oogqirha nabo kukuxelela indlela ukuphefumla ekuzalweni, kodwa kungcono ukuba wazi ngalo kwangaphambili, ukuze uqalise ukuphefumla ngokunzulu ungakwazi sele kwimiqondiso yokuqala kwesibeleko. ukuphefumla olululo kuyimfuneko kwaye ekhefu phakathi kwesibeleko. Musa ukulila, musa bakhale, uphefumlele kakhulu. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukukhusela imikhosi yayo edabini, ngenxa yokuba periodicity ethile, yaye ke ngoko kuya kuba imizuzwana embalwa ukuba ukuphumla.
Nokuba wazi yonke into ukuzala: ukuba baziphathe ngayo, indlela ukuphefumla, ukuba benze njani umgudu - akukho mfuneko yokubhenela inyathelo. Kuphela ngemvume obstetrician kunye zoviwo lokulungiselela nezoviwo unokuqalisa ukwenza umgudu, sele esitulweni ngqo zokubeleka. Wesibeleko kufuneka ibe selubala ngokupheleleyo yaye ukulungele ukukhulula usana, kungenjalo kungaba nemiphumela emibi. Kunjalo amalinge: Ukuba awazi ukuba amsunduze njani ngexesha delivery, Mamela iqela koogqirha, kwaye nayiphi na imeko, musa ukuqala ngokukhawuleza kakhulu.
Musa ukoyika, gxila nje ophefumla ngayo, kunye neenzame, kwaye kufuneka bonke baphumelele. Ngaba wena kuqala kwaye hayi yokugqibela. Bonke kudlule ngaphezu kanye. Ukuba yonke into yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko ke ukusiwa kwazo kuya kuba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphezulu ngokukhuselekileyo.