Iimfundiso Self-ukuphuculwa In Life

Abantu abaninzi benza self-ukuphuculwa, benza enkulu, nje isixa esikhulu bomsebenzi, ngenkani ngokusebenzisa ngamandla intando ukwenza oku okanye okuya senzo, yaye naxa yonke imeko lwangaphakathi ukuthetha ndikhonkotha kuye bonke elide ngokwaneleyo, abantu abeva, yaye akazange ayeke, qhubeka ku ngokwabo "egqibeleleyo," ngenxa yokuba loo self-ukuphucuka uba yentuthumbo. Uya kuba ngokwenza umsebenzi yemidlalo, kodwa umphumo uya kuba ncinci, efana digger negolide, nto leyo eza kuqwalasela ngaphezu kwesinye itoni emhlabeni phambi kukho yentsimbi ubuncinane elinye elincinane. Abantu abaninzi baqale bafunde nje oko kufuneka kwixesha langoku. Ukuze ubone ukuba umntu afuna, umntu ingqiqo elula enjalo ibizwa ngokuba nomdla. Ukugqwesa nto ngokwenene umdla yaye oko kuya kukhuthaza umdla yakho. It naiblizhayshy indlela ukufumana iziphumo ngokukhawuleza. Ngenxa iziphumo zokuqala yenzondelelo yakho iqalisa ukukhula, kunye yinzondelelo unika amandla amatsha ukuphumeza iinjongo ezintsha.
Kukho nenye indlela ephumelelayo self-yophuculo, kukufunda ebomini, ukuba bafumane izifundo zobomi. Indlela ukuba ezi zifundo? imeko nganye, ngasinye yokwaziswa iintsingiselo ezimbini. Enye phezu komhlaba kunye yesibini leyo ezinzulwini, apho ubulumko efihliweyo. Umsebenzi yokususa ubulumko niphila ngokweso inkcazelo wabeka phantsi. A lot of imizekelo. Nantsi enye nokuba: umntu emsebenzini okanye ekhaya ngawe ngathi engalungileyo kakhulu, bamlahla ukuba ityala ntoni, njl Umntu oqhelekileyo uya ndikhubeke okanye ukulungisa izinto.
Iyintoni na intsingiselo enzulu kule meko? Musa ityala nabani na, ukuba uphendule kakubi, ezinye isilingo eyomeleleyo inokuba. Elahla kwabantu, ushiya ulwazi - amandla kugwetywa. Oku kuya kuthatha ixesha kwaye uqinisekile ukuba ugwetyiwe, okanye ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isenzo okanye kuvela iimeko ukuba uthe wafunyaniswa nokuba sele wenze into engalunganga. Kwaye bacinge ukuba akukho icala kakuhle. Kodwa enyanisweni, umelwe kukuba oko, kuba xa wena, nawe, hayi emlungeleyo umntu into ityala ngaphambili. Kwaye nje wabanika ukuqonda ukuba kwenzeka njani xa abatyholwa into okanye sola. Intsingiselo enzulu yale meko, sele ugqibe into, "musani ukugweba ningagwetywa nina." Nayiphi na imeko ukuba unalo kabi ebonakala ezimbi icebisa ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha yintoni na, ukutshintsha into ngokwakho, lungisa siphene ngokwayo. Kwaye xa uqubha le isono sasitshayelwe ngokwayo, njengazo zonke izifundo ziza kuphindwa ebomini bakho. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba zonke iimeko ezimbi ukuphulaphula nokufunda kuzo indlela imikhuba ayibulale. Ezimbi ezinkulu ukuba balahle incinci uya kwenza iimpazamo ebomini, le ucaca uza kuba umphefumlo wakho, kwaye ngokucacileyo kokukhona uya kukwazi ukukunceda wena ubonise ngokwabo ebomini bakho. Ngenxa yoko ugqibeleleyo uba.

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