Crisis engama-7 ebantwaneni. Iimpawu flow

Ngokuqhelekileyo malunga nengxaki 7 ubudala abantwana musa bathi kakhulu, ngokuba amanzi awo lingaphantsi ucaca ngakumbi kwiminyaka emithathu okanye elivisayo. Eneneni, oko kwenzeka ukuba akukho ezibalulekileyo kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba kutshintshwe umdlalo ephambili umsebenzi iza uqeqesho.

Utshintsho kwi umntwana

ihlabathi ezahlukeneyo kwaye izityebi yangaphakathi iba isithuba seminyaka esixhenxe. ngamava abo, iimvakalelo umntwana sele ukuhlalutya ziziqhelanise kwimeko ethile. Ngcembe shwaka impulsiveness, spontaneity. Zonke ngcono ukuba uyakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe. umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka 6-7 ngengqondo umdla kakhulu, kuba yokudlala yena wayengasekho linomtsalane njalo, kwaye phambili umsebenzi kwengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, ngeli xesha kuthatha indawo nokuvuthwa lokugqibela esithinzini nedumbe lengqondo. Oku kukhokelela kutshintsho iingcinga, iimvakalelo, kunye nokuthetha. Ukuba lokuqala, kude kube ngoku, iimvakalelo, uze ke inyathelo, ngoko ngoku intelligence na kule nkqubo. kweminyaka esixhenxe, abantwana baqala ngokupheleleyo ngakumbi yaye integrally ukwamkela impumelelo kunye boyisiwe, azuze nokuzixabisa. Ukuba enkulisa akakwazi ukuhlawula ingqalelo eninzi lokungaphumeleli kwaye iziphumo ezidibanisayo kuya kubaluleka ngakumbi kuye, kuba umfundi oko unako ukukhonza benyhwalaza ukuba bazigqale n eudachnikom.

Iimpawu ze ntlekele

Okokuqala, itshintsha ezinxulumene ngqo ukuziphatha womntwana. Ekuqaleni kusenokubonakala ngathi usana wayekhulile uqala ukuba abangenazigqibo, frills, kwenaliti, clowning ngeenxa zonke. Ngesiquphe, ngaphandle kwesizathu, umntwana abe, abangaswele kuthobela mntu. Ke ukungafunwa uqale ukuba nkqu izithethe imihla ngemihla, ezifana ukuxukuxa amazinyo akho okanye ukucoca zokudlala. imisebenzi Common lwenziwa kunye kwihlazo, umntwana uba ilukhuni. Inye kuphela into enokusinceda soyise ezi ntlekele iminyaka esi-7 abantwana nomonde lwabazali. Noko ke, umntwana uqala azive ngakumbi abadala-up, ngoko zama ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiincoko abadala, ezama ukutsala ingqalelo nayiphi na indlela. Oku kubonakala ngakumbi xa sisebenzisana nabazalwana abancinane / oodade: babe nezimvo abazali abathethise. Le lusebenze kukukhuthaza ukuzimela womntwana. Kufuneka ukumamela uluvo lwakhe ngalo mbandela phantsi kwengxoxo, nkqu ukuba kuziswe ngengxoxo yomkhaya.

School, hello!

Ukuqala yobomi besikolo kukhokelela usana abadala. Indima entsha kwezentlalo, enye indlela imini, ootitshala - konke oku kukhokelela kukuba ingxaki yiminyaka-7 ubudala, abantwana babo bangathatha iimpawu libukhali. Ngelo xesha linye baqala ukubeka ngokwabo ukuya kwinqanaba eliphezulu kwe doshkolyata, abazalwana babo abancinane noodade. Iiklasi kubantwana abaneminyaka 6-7, imeko kukhokelela zentlalo yokuba kukho uhlobo umsantsa okhoyo phakathi koko sizalwa omdala, ibe yintoni eyayiza kuba ixesha iminyaka esixhenxe othandwayo kunokwenzeka. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka uncede umntwana wakho kungena isikolo ehlabathini ukwenza le nkqubo luphuhle. Ukuba kukho ingxaki kwenzeka kwiminyaka ngaphambili, ngoko nje umsebenzi noqeqesho ungahlela ukutyelelwa kwiiklabhu, enceda diversify. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuze akuncede wenze nantoni na apha indlu, banyamekele izilwanyana. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukukhuthaza badumise umntwana.

Ukuba umama kunye abazali aphendule ngokufanelekileyo kwintlekele iminyaka esi-7 oonyana, loo nto isebenza kakhulu kakuhle. Xa ekudaleni iimeko azivumi ukuba sikhule "imigibe" nengxaki elilandelayo luthintelwe, nangona, Kakade ke, asizizo zonke.