Amaqela abafundi - okulungileyo okanye okubi?

Ubomi bomfundi yiyona nkqantosi eqaqambileyo kunye nengenakukhunjulwa ebomini apho amaqela abafundi, uhambo ukuya kuma-cinema nakwii-nightclub, kunye nobusuku bahamba ngedolophu yasebusuku. Eli lixesha apho, kubantwana abaninzi besikolo, abade bachitha ubomi babo bonke phantsi koxanduva kunye nokulawulwa kwabazali babo , ukuphela kokuphila okungenasiphako, kwaye umntu okhulileyo kunye nozimeleyo uqala. Ubomi, apho kufuneka wenze isigqibo sakho, ufanele uxanduva lwezenzo zakho kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukuba umfundi uhleli kwindawo yokuhlala eqeshwe okanye kwindawo yokulala, uphendule imiba yasekhaya: ukupheka, ukucoca, ukuhlamba kunye nokunye okuninzi. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu, abafundi abangabemi beminyaka yokuqala bafanele benze ibhajethi yabo yenyanga yokuqala, kuba abafundanga esikolweni. Yaye ukuba ngaba abazali abafundisanga umntwana wabo izinto ezisisiseko zokuphatha imali kwangaphambili, iingxaki ziza kuvela kule nto, njengoko kwenzeka rhoqo. Emva kwakho konke, amaqela omfundi obunxilisayo ahlekisayo zonke iintlobo zamabali kunye neentlanga - oku akusiyo inkolelo, kodwa enye yecandelo lobomi bomfundi, ngaphandle kwayo yonke iholide, nangomhla, akwenzi. Ngubani owayengumfundi, ukhumbula iintlekele ezingapheliyo kwiivenkile zebhiya, i-vodka kunye ne-snack, kwaye ekupheleni kweveki okanye ngenyanga kwakungekho imali eyaneleyo yesonka.

Kodwa makhe siqwalasele umbuzo onjalo: Imibutho yabafundi ngokwenene imele ihambisane nobomi bomfundi okanye ingxaki efuna ukuyiqwalasela ngokukhawuleza. Kungaba luncedo ukubeka ingqwalasela yabangena kwixesha elizayo kwindondo kwaye bayeke ukubaxelela ngokuphila okuvuya kunye nokungakhathali, ukubhala amahlaya angenakubungozi ngabafundi. Emva koko, amaxesha atshintsho, umfundi wexesha lanamhlanje uhlukile kakhulu kumfundi weSoviet Union. Ukufudumala, amacandelo abafundi abanobubele, malunga nento esiyivile kakhulu kubazali bethu nogogo, namhlanje bajika baba ngamaqela aseRussia aphethe ulwalwala obunokungaqiniseki, umsi wecuba kunye neziyobisi. Ngenxa yempembelelo yotywala ngokuziphatha komntu, ezininzi iziganeko ezinjalo ziphela ekuxabaneni nokudakalisa, kunye ngamanye amaxesha kunye nesisele sasejele. Ngoko ke kufuneka abazali bachaze ebusheni babo ukuba ubomi bokuba ngabafundi bafunda ngokuyinhloko isifundo, ukufumana ulwazi, kunokuhlala ngaphandle kweebhulukhwe kunye nemali yomzali. Zama ukucacisa ukuba ngendlela abachitha ngayo le mihlanu okanye emithandathu, kuxhomekeke kubomi babo besikhathi esizayo, okanye kunoko-msebenzi.

Ndikhumbule ixesha lomfundi e-Kharkov, xa esikhundleni sokufumana ulwazi oluxabisekileyo, ndalala ehostele emva kweqela elidakisayo elinxilisayo. Indlela endifundayo ngayo imfundo ngenxa yale nto, kwaye kwafuneka ndihlale ndivala imisila ndicele ootitshala bebanga. Andiyathethi ngempilo yam. Ngokubanzi, akukho nto enhle! Ngoku, ndijonge emva kweminyaka engama-6, ndiyayiqonda indlela ibudenge kunye nomboniso omfutshane. Ngoku ndimele ndizifundele ngokuzimela izinto ezinokuthi ndikwazi ukuzenza ngempumelelo kwiyunivesiti ukuba ndiphumelele emsebenzini wam nobomi.

Ngoko, bafundi abathandekayo, ndikucebisa ukuba ulinganise yonke into kwaye ucinge malunga nokuba kulungile ukuchitha ixesha lakho kwimibutho yabafundi kunye nento engayi kukunika inzuzo kwixesha elizayo. Njengoko u-NA Ostrovsky wabhala kwincwadi yakhe ethi: "... ukuze kungabi bubuhlungu buhlungu ngenxa yeminyaka engapheliyo ...". Kungcono ukwenza imidlalo, uphuhliso lomntu, imfundo, ngokufutshane - ukwandisa ama-horizons akho. Yaye ukuba unqumle ukuphumla kunye nokuzonwabisa, yenza oko ngokwenkcubeko, ngaphandle kokuhamba. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufunda kwisixeko esikhulu, ungaphuthelwa ithuba kwaye uye kwibala lezemidlalo okanye, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, kwi-cinema, kwakhona, unokutyelela nayiphi na iimyuziyam okanye umboniso - unomdla kakhulu.