Ulawulo lwabazali

Xa abantu abanomntwana oyishumi elivisayo befunda ukuba ndisebenza njengomlawuli wenkqubo, bahlala bebuza ukuba kulunge njani ukusebenzisa umyalelo wabazali malunga nento eyenziwa ngumntwana kumnatha. Abantwana ngamaxesha onke njengememori ekhanga umdla obumnandi, omtsha, ongaqhelekanga. Ukuba umntu omdala udinga ixesha lokuba aqonde indlela yokusebenzisa le nto okanye loo mveliso yesofthiwe, abantwana, njengomthetho, bafunde izenzo ezintle ezibizwa ngokuba "ukungena". Kwaye ukususela ekusebenziseni iWebhu yeWide yeWorld akunakubizwa ngokuba yinto enzima, kuthetha ukuba kulula ukusetyenziswa kweli hlabathi elitsha.

Ngoko nini ukulawulwa kwabazali kwi-intanethi kubalulekile? Ukususela kumzuzu xa umntwana wakho okhulayo efika kwinqanaba "Ndingakufumana ulwazi kwiWebhu". Ukususela kuloo mzuzu (ukuba unomdla malunga noko umntanakho akwenzayo ngekhompyutheni), kufuneka ucinge ngezinto omele uyenze ukuze uzuze ekutyeleleni iNethiwekhi, kunokulimala. Emva koko, ingqondo yomntwana obuthakathaka ibuhlungu ngokukhawuleza xa idibana nomxholo "omdala", ngoko kuyinyaniso ukuba ukulawula kwabazali kuyimfuneko.

Mhlawumbi, emva kokufunda imihlathi yokuqala, ucinga, kwaye kufanelekile ukunika umntwana ithuba lokuhlala kwikhompyutheni kwaye uyifake engozini inethiwekhi efihla esifubeni sayo? Ukuba kunjalo, ungasebenzisa inketho ye-Windows 7 "Ulawulo lwabazali". I-Windows XP, nangona kunjalo, ayinayo impawu, kodwa kule OS ikhona iiprogram ezilungileyo onokuthi uvumeleke ngokupheleleyo ukungena kwiWebhu yeWebhu yehlabathi, okanye ufake isiphequluli phantsi kolawulo oluthembekileyo. Njengoko kubonakala kum, into engcono kakhulu okwangoku ikhululekile kwaye ilula kakhulu ukulungelelanisa i-utility-K9.

Kodwa ukuba ucela imbono yam, ndiya kuphendula loo nto, andiyi kukucebisa indlela yokuthintela. Okokuqala, isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sithandeka, kwaye okwesibini, ngaphandle kokunika umntwana into enokuyenza ekhaya, awukwazi ukukhuphela ngaphandle imeko xa umntwana ehambela umhlobo kwaye ekhuphuka kwi-Intanethi nje emva kwetabhu. Ngoko lungela ukubopha intombazana yakho kwibhetri. Le ndlela yithembekileyo yokuyikhusela ngokupheleleyo kwiimpembelelo ezonakalisayo zaliphi na izilingo kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukulawulwa kwabazali abathembekileyo.

Kunengqiqo kwaye ichanekile, kwimbono yam, ukuba angashenxiswanga kwimiqathango, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ukukhuthaza ukuthembela phakathi kwabantwana nabazali kuyo yonke imiba, kubandakanywa nolu hlobo olutsha njengokufikelela kwi-intanethi. Unokuhlela yonke into ngendlela umphefumlo wakho nawo uzolile, ekubeni umntwana engazange ahambe ngenye indlela okanye enenjongo kwisayithi elinomxholo we-xxx okanye enye "intonwabo", kodwa ngelo xesha, ukuba iziza ezinomxholo oqhelekileyo zibandakanya Uhlobo lwakhe lwezinto ezithandayo, lwalufumaneka ngaphandle kwemimiselo engadingekile.

Inceda ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ukusetyenziswa kwe-Intanethi kwintlangano yekhompyutheni ayikho kwigumbi lomntwana, kodwa kwigumbi eliqhelekileyo apho unokubona lula khona okwenzekayo kwisikrini kwithuba elithile.

Kuya kuba luncedo ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza nomntwana wakho malunga nokuziphatha okufanelekileyo kwiWebhu, ukungavumeleki kokunika ingxelo malunga nawe kubantu abangaziwayo, ukubeka imifanekiso enokuthi idibanise, kunye nezinye izenzo ezinokubangela ubunzima bomntwana. Ngokwemvelo, ulawulo lwabazali alufanele lubekelwe kumxholo, akuyi kuba luphawu lokugqiba ixesha lokuba kwiWebhu yeWebhu yehlabathi. Ekubeni ukuhlala ixesha elide emva kweso saziso akunakwenzeka ukuba nefuthe elifanelekileyo kwimpilo yabantwana. Eyona nto ingozi yintsikelelo yamehlo entombazana, kodwa ezinye izitho zithinteka ngaphantsi kokungabikho komsebenzi wexesha elide.

Ukuba isihloko siyakuthanda, ufuna ukufunda ngokubanzi ngamathuba anikezelwe yinkqubo yesimanje ephuma kwiMicrosoft, ngoko uya kwindawo yeenkonzo yamahhala yeVindous Live kwaye usethe ukukhangela amagama athi "ulawulo lwabazali."