Ungaqala njani incoko kunye nomfana?

Sonke sahlukileyo, kwaye xa umntu ethetha ngesini esahlukileyo "ukuhlaziya", ngoko abanye ukuba bafake ubuncinci ubuncinane "i-hello" ibe yinkinga engenakunokuthi ingenakunceda. Ukwenyuka kwenyameko kunye ne-zazhatost kungabalulekanga kubo bobabini nababhinqa beentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeminyaka. Kodwa namhlanje siya kuthetha ngabantu abatsha, malunga nabantu abaselula kunye namantombazana. Okanye, indlela yokuqala intetho kunye nentombazana eyintombazana, engaziwayo ngesibindi nokunyaniseka.

Umzekelo, ubona umntu okokuqala, kodwa into ebonisa ukuba: lo mntu unokutshintsha ubomi bakho bube ngcono. Hlola imeko kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo. Uloyiko, lube neentloni, luyinkimbinkimbi luya kuba, emva koko. Kwaye ngoku-ke ngenye into ecinga ngayo: "Ukuba singazi kakuhle, andiyi kuthetha - uya kutshabalalisa kwisihlwele, kwaye asiyi kuphinda sibonane!" Isizathu esiphezulu sezenzo zakho ezongezelelweyo, intombikazi, ayimfuneko! Emva koko - ngokweemeko.

Ezinye iingcebiso:

1. Ungaqala njani incoko kunye nomfana ukuba uhamba ngezothutho? Ezinye izinto ezifanelekileyo kwaye uze ngokukhawuleza! Tolchei ngumlingani wakho. Unokucela imvume yokubamba kwi-elbow, ukwenza i-grimace ebusweni bokungancedi kunye nokudideka, ukubetha i-cilia ukukhupha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bububukhuni abubukeli-busebenza, unokuqiniseka! Emva kwakho konke, uya kuthintela kwelinye lesigxina esingumntu osengqondweni: "faders": ngesicelo sakho, cacisa ukuba ubona kwindoda enamandla, eyaneleyo yokukwazi ukukhusela owesifazane obuthathaka. Yaye ukuba umntu uhleli, cela imvume yokuhlala ekhanda lakhe! Ndiyakholwa, ndifuna inkalipho kuphela kwibinzana lokuqala: "Uxolo, ndidiniwe kakhulu (ekuqeqesheni kwezemidlalo, kwiiklasi zokudanisa, ukuhamba ngendoda, ndifuna inja ebalekayo - ngegama, ubhale njengento enokuthi uyimfuneko), akukho mandla okuma, kwaye Ezi zibini zifudumele (xa ubusika) ... ". Kwaye ukuthetha nomntu uya kuhamba ngokwalo. Emva kwakho konke, ngoku usemncinci, kwaye ulutsha seluvele luba nomngcipheko, kunye neengcambu zokufumana iziqhumiso ... Umfana uya kuvuya ngokuqwalaselwa ngumntu osemzini. Ukuba yena ngokwakhe akanamahloni kwaye akayi kuhlwaywa, umdlalo othakazelisayo uya kuqinisekiswa kuwe!
2. Ngaba ubona umfana omhle esitalato okanye ngaphandle kwe cafe? Ewe, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuqalisa incoko nomfana. Ukuba uhamba nentombi yakho, unokusondela kumgama osondeleyo (ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ukuhlonipha, kunjalo!) Ngokomzekelo, kunye nokuhleka, kodwa kungekhona ukuhleka okukhathalayo (kodwa kungekuhleko ukuhleka). Ukumjonga kangangoko, ukuzama ukumbamba iso kunye nokumncinciza kuye kakade. Emva kokuba uqaphele iimpawu ezibonakalayo zengqalelo, le ndoda yona ayiyi kukwazi ukudibana nawe. Enye indlela yokuqalisa incoko kunye nomfana kule meko ukuza kuye kwaye uthi wena nentombi yakho niphikisana nento kwaye nicela ukuba yijaji kwimpikiswano yakho (ingahamba ngefilimu echulumayo kunye nomlawuli wayo, Incwadi, umdlali, njl.). Nantsi into ephambili isinyathelo sokuqala. Kwaye oko kuhamba ngokwawo.
3. Insizwa oyithandayo ubomi kummandla okanye uphando kunye nawe kwiziko elifanayo, uya kwi-gym jikelele, unayo ithuba lokwenene ukumhlangabeza ngezihlandlo eziliqela ngosuku ezitratweni, kwii-corridors nakwezinye iindawo? Mbukele, funani umgaqo wosuku lwakhe. Zama ukubamba iliso rhoqo. Ngexesha elifanayo kunqweneleka ukuba unento ekwahlula kwi-mass mass, oku kuya kwenza lula ukuba nomhlobo. Ngokomzekelo, iimpahla eziqaqambileyo, iinwele ezindeyo ezininzi ... Ukukubona amaxesha amaninzi ngemini kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, lo mfana uya kutyeshela kuwe, qalisa ukungazi kakuhle ukuba "wakhe". Emva kweveki kunye nesiqingatha seentlanganiso ezinjalo, kwakhona kwakhona kudlulayo, mxelele. Yenza oku ngohlobo oluqhelekileyo, olufana nezoshishino, njengelona kunjalo. Kwaye ke iintsuku ezimbalwa. Kungekudala le nkwenkwe iya kukubingelela kuqala, ngoko ithoni ingenziwa ibe yitshisa, isondele kakhulu, kwaye oku kuya kuba yinqanaba elilandelayo lomsebenzi wakho - indlela yokuqala incoko nomfana. Kule meko, isinyathelo esilandelayo sokusondela sele senziwe ngokwayo!

Inqaku lokugqibela

Yintoni esikucebisa ngayo kweli nqaku, amantombazana amantombazana, mhlawumbi enye yekhulu lezinto ezikhethwa kuzo. Unokubuza umfana ngefowuni yakhe, ngokubhekiselele ekusebenziseni kwakhe ukungasebenzi, unokubuza indlela okanye ukufumanisa ixesha eliphilileyo, cela ububele bakho inja okanye umcele ukuba abambe iqhosha lakhe xa ubopha i- shoelaces yakho okanye unamathele umbhobho wakho ongekho mva ngexesha ...

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