Yintoni na ukuvumelana yobomi

ukuqonda Ngaba yintoni na nemvisiswano? Ngaba siye salahlekelwa lo mqondo isingqisho mad ubomi mihla? Yaye yintoni ukwenza ukuba usafuna ilahlekile?

Harmony uhlala yonke - ubugcisa, ukholo ecocekileyo, indalo. Yena ekuqaleni wahlala ngokwethu. Harmony - enyanisweni, ngokuvumelana liyinyaniso ngokwayo.

Yizani engqondweni eyaziwa kuthi ukususela ebuntwaneni amazwi Antona Pavlovicha chehova: "Lo mntu kufuneka abe zonke ezintle, ubuso neengubo, umphefumlo, nengqondo ...". Kwaye akukho nyaniso elula intsingiselo yazo, njengoko kubonakala, kungekhona njengoko kunzima ukuba indoda elumkileyo oyaziyo indlela yokuphilisana ngoxolo wena ngokuvisisana kwezidalwa ezingqongileyo.

Yintoni na ukuvumelana wobomi, sele esazi yawona yamandulo. Zingaphi iintsingiselo kunye izithunzi eli lizwi! umntu Ngokwenene avumelanayo - umntu okwaziyo nje khangela, kodwa ukuze ubone kwaye uzive isibhakabhaka olukhulu kunye neenkwenkwezi, ukonwabela -ngenxa cwaka bokuphuma nokutshona kwelanga, ugcine ubomi kuphela intyatyambo lokudubula waphosa ukuya nanundu yakhe. Oko kwenzeka, ulonwabo - ukunyibilikisa konke oku ubungangamsha, ukuba abe yinxalenye yalo! Kodwa ngandlela besililibele ukuba sizibuze ukuba izinto ezifana ubomi nokufa, imini nobusuku, intlakohlaza ekwindla. Sekunjalo, emva kwexesha elide inzululwazi usinike ingcaciso onke la. Kodwa ubunzulu intsingiselo yazo kutyhilwa kuphela abo ngenene ufuna yona kwaye niyavuma ukukwamkela oko.

Siyaqonda ubomi njengento self-kuyabonakala, ngokufuthi musa ukucinga ephithizelayo neengxaki zemihla ngemihla, ukuba kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuba isantya kwaye umamele nje lenzwinini bathuleyo amagqabi kunye ntsholo zeenyenzane engceni. Abantu, yini na ukuba yimfama yaye nezithulu?!

Kodwa yonke into ithemba. Abantwana bayazi kakuhle oko ngokuvumelana.
Ilizwi, mhlawumbi lingaziwa, kodwa intsingiselo yawo kucacile ukuba uqinisekise. Baphila ngokuvisisana ngokwabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo, bayakwazi ukonwabela indlela elula, zibonakala izinto. Indlela uchulumanco kakhulu (cwaka okanye ngokuvakalayo) kunika bug elula, bezama ukuba leMicimbi zabo bukashechim. Apho, nithi, konke oku liyalahleka kunye ubudala, yaye kutheni kunjalo akufane uhlala nathi ubomi? Ngapha koko, ukuba obu bomi kanye wayeza konwaba kakhulu!

Yintoni ukusebenza kakuhle? Oku kwihlabathi imibala eqaqambileyo, i ihlobo cwaka ebusuku, ukuba uncumo usakhula, ubomi ngokwayo, ekugqibeleni. Igama elithi "ngokuvumelana" kuquka yonke into onika uxolo lwengqondo - Shmelev lesixa emthunzini somthi omdala, imvula, ehamba phezu kwezindlu, ezithandwa ubuncwane ka May kunye lusizi eliqaqambileyo Septemba ... Sibambene ngesandla tatomkhulu kunyokokhulu - nalo ngokuvumelana. Kungenzeka ukuba achithe yonke ngokuhlwa phezu kophahla unokukhawuleza le ishedi, ukudada kwaye bonwabele imitha kwelanga eshushu, ukuze ubone rolls indlela ozihlaziya ngayo ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwicala kwiveki endala njana ... Harmony obegalelwe phezu umzimba ukusuka touch omnye ikatana encinane olambileyo, ingcamango lasindisa kuwe ukuba ubani Andifuni ubomi, wondla esotha nentlama alawulwe yoboya. ulonwabo lokwenene kusinika ubomi ngenxa inceba bethu, ngenxa hlobo yintoni ukholo nothando, siya uyakunikezela kamva lo intlama iphela!

Akukho mfuneko ukufihla ubuso bakhe emvuleni, kungenjalo awazi ukuba yintoni ngokuvumelana nendalo. Ukungazi ubushushu ayithandayo izandla ngaphandle kokwazi uthando ngokuvumelana. Awabancedi kwabo bawusweleyo, musa va ngokuvumelana ngokwako. Ngaphandle onothando abo wakuzalayo, ungabi yindoda kwaye abaqondi ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba umzali yokwenene. Kwaye oku mhlawumbi isohlwayo nto eyoyikekayo kaYehova.

Makathi nala iingxoxo embhoxo bububhanxa umfundi romantic elivisayo abavela kumaphondo. Vumela. Harmony amanga neqiniso, ukuba bacinge malunga zochuku ezinjalo. Inkululeko lomoya ukuzinika ngayo thina kuphela. Nika imfudumalo nobubele yehlabathi elibangqongileyo, yaye uya kukubuyekeza kwi ngqekembe enye!