Yintoni i-masturbation? Inyaniso kunye neengcamango malunga nesimo somzimba

Ukuhlaziya i-indastri yinqanaba lobomi be-99% lamadoda kunye no-76% wabasetyhini. Yingakho phantse wonke umntu akhathalele ngemibono, ukucinga, iindlebe ezihambelana nale nzeka. Makhe sizame ukuqonda ukuba yintoni i- masturbation kunye nokuba yingozi kangakanani kubantu.

Iingxaki zokukhwabanisa ziye zafundiswa ixesha elide, kodwa ngenxa yobusondeleko besihloko, abaninzi banqikaza ukufuna ulwazi ngalesi sihloko.

Xa ebuzwa malunga nokuba yiyiphi i-masturbation, izazinzulu-izazi-physiologists ziphendula ngokulula, ziqondisisa. Ukufumana ukuzonwabisa okungcono komzimba, okufezekiswayo ngokuvuselela izitho zangasese ngaphandle kokutsala iqabane. Abafana bafumanisa olu lonwabo olungavumelekanga malunga neyeshumi elinambini leminyaka (nangona ngalinye linalo ixesha layo).

Ngokukhawuleza ndiya kwenza ukugcinwa, ukuba nayiphi na into ehlawulelwayo, eyingozi kwimpilo, ukuphazamisa ubuhlanya ngale ndlela yokuzonwabisa ayikho. Ichazwe ngokupheleleyo nge-physiology. Ukukhula, abafana (kunye namantombazana) nabo baqala ukwazi ngokwabo, ukuba banomdla emzimbeni wabo, zabo iimvakalelo. Izitho zabo zesini zikhula, i-libido ikhula, kwaye kunye nayo ingenakuqondakala kodwa ivakalelo enamandla kakhulu eyenza intombazana inentloni, iyitshintshe into enkulu. Abantu abadala bayazi into evuyisayo - kuyinto evamile. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana abaselula, abangenabo isiko kwilizwe lethu ukuba bathethe nge-masturbation, intuitively bafune indlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Uze uyifumane. Kwaye ekubeni i-masturbation ikhulula ngokwenene, iyakwazi ukuyisebenzisa ngokuthe rhoqo, ngokukodwa abafana. Intsholongwane yintsholongwane yindlela ejwayelekile yomzimba ehambelana nokukhula komzimba. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngemfundo efanelekileyo, i-socialalization eqhelekileyo malunga neminyaka eyi-16 ukuya kwe-18, i-"masturbation" ihamba ngokukhawuleza, ilandelwa ngumntu oqhelekileyo ngesondo. Ukuphonywa kwamantombazana kubakho rhoqo, kodwa kubangelwa zizizathu ezifanayo.

Kodwa yintoni i-masturbation ukusuka kwimbono yabantu abangafundanga kakhulu? Kwakusoloko kucingelwa ukuba oku kwakuyisono esikhulu. Utshutshiswa yicawa, abazali bakhe bamsola kakhulu (kunye ngamanye amaxesha). Kwakukholelwa ukuba ukukhwabanisa ngokugqithiseleyo kunciphisa inkqubo ye-nervous, kubangela ukungcola, ukungabikho komntwana. Namhlanje kuboniswa ukuba konke oku akuthethi nxamnye ne nyaniso. Kodwa, njengesiqhelo, akukho msi ngaphandle komlilo. Iimvumi azivuki ngaphandle kweblue, zifuna umhlaba. Yaye loo mhlaba yayihlala ihlala.

Njengoko kuchazwe ngentla, phantse bonke abantu kunye nabaninzi abafazi bodwa ubuncinci bodwa ebomini babo bebanelisekile, kaninzi bengayiqondi into abayenzayo. Kodwa ukuthintela kwizitho zangasese kunye nokuqhuma okulandelelanayo kwintlalo enokuthi intuitively iphakamise ukuba benza into enqatshelwe.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, akunandaba nokuba umntwana osemtsha uyaphinda ahlaziye kakuhle okanye engazi kakuhle. Usenomdla wokudibanisa nomntu onetyala. Oku kwaziwa kakhulu kwiingcali zeengqondo.

Yintoni i-masturbation ukusuka kumbono wabo? Iingcali zengqondo, njengabo bonke abanye abameli bezonyango, bayavuma ukuba le yindlela ejwayelekile yokusebenza ngokwenyama. Baqinisekile ukuba akayi kuzisa isifo sofuba, i-anemia, okanye enye imbonakalo embi. Kodwa yenza ugcino oluncinane. Intombazana, izazi zengqondo zikholelwa, zixakeke ngokugqithiseleyo ukuzineliseka, zivakalelwa kukuba zizinto ezingenamsebenzi, eziqhelekileyo. Abantu abadala bayazi oku kuphumla emva kokulala ngesondo. Yaye bayazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani emva kokulala ngokwesondo ukuya emsebenzini osebenzayo.

Ngoko ukungabikho komntwana osemva, okulandela i-masturbation, kunceda ukusabalalisa ingqwalasela, enye ingaphambuki kwinyani.

Abaninzi, ukuba kungekhona bonke, abaselula bayesaba ukuba abazali babo baya kufunda ngemisebenzi yabo. Bayazama ukuphelisa ukwakhiwa kwexinzelelo, okanye ukufihla ukwenza ukwaneliseka. Abanye, emva kokuphulaphulwa kwamabali amaxhala malunga nemiphumo emibi kwimpilo nangokwakheka kwengqondo, ukuxinezeleka kwengxaki.

Kucacile ukuba ngenxa yokungabikho kwemfundo yabanye abantu, inkqubo yokusebenza ngokwenyama ingakhokelela ekuphazamiseni ukuphazamiseka.

Musa ukugxekisa ulutsha ukuba unelisekile, ungabethuki. Kungcono bavumele ukufunda iincwadi ezifanelekileyo, batyelele isazi sengqondo, baphazamise iingqondo zabo ngezinto ezinomdla nezinto ezinomdla. Khumbula: i-masturbation ayisona isono, kodwa isiqhelo sobudala.