Izizathu zokuba kutheni ungafanelanga ukulingisa i-Orgasm

Ukuxelisa i-orgasm kukukhohlisa okufanayo. Kodwa akukho mfazi obona oku njengoluphulo-mthetho. Kodwa ngaba ungathanda ukuphila ubomi bakho ebuxoki, nokuba ngaba kuhloswe "ukugcina" ubudlelwane? Ngokutsho kwenkqubo eqhutywe ngo-2005, ngaphantsi kwesithathu kwabasetyhini bafumana i-orgasm ekwabelana ngesondo. Izibalo zibandezela. Ngokutsho koogqirha bezocansi, le ntshukumo ishiya zombini amahlangothi ukuba alahlekelwe. Emva koko, siza kuzwakalisa izizathu zokuba kutheni ungafanelanga ukuxelisa ukwaneliseka ebhedini.

Uzicima izibonelelo ze-orgasm

I-neurochemicals i-dopamine, i-vasopressin, i-endorphins kunye ne-oxytocin isebenze emzimbeni phantsi kwe-orgasm, inika inkxaso enempilo enamandla. Ezi zixhobo zeekhemikhali ziphucula ubuthongo, zinciphisa intlungu, zandisa ukhuseleko kunye nenhlalakahle jikelele. Ziluncedo kakhulu empilweni yengqondo, ngenxa yokuba izinto ezinokubangela ukuba ezi zinto zibangele, zinganciphisa iimvakalelo zokuxhalabisa. Ukuxelisa i-orgasm, abafazi balahlekelwa ziintlobo ezingentla ngasentla.

Ukunyaniseka kubhubhisa ubudlelwane bezesondo

Ingxaki yokuxelisa i-orgasm ayikho kuphela yowesifazane. Ukuva ukububula okukhulu kwentombi yakhe, le ndoda iyathemba ngokupheleleyo ukuba wenza konke okulungileyo. Abameli abaninzi banesini esomeleleyo banokuzithemba ngokweenkohlakalo zabo abangaziboni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza i-clitoris yeqabane. Le ntembelo ikhula ngokulingana nenani leendoda. Amadoda alahlekayo kunye neentlobano zesini, ngokubhekiselele kwimeko yesini elungileyo efuna kuphela ubukhulu bepenisi kunye noxinzelelo olude. Enyanisweni, ngaphandle kokuququzelelwa kweminithi eyi-20 ye-clitoris, umfazi unzima ukuzisa intlawulelo yolonwabo. Yeka ukuzenza ngathi, lixesha lokuba ulungelelanise ukulindela kwamadoda.

Iqabane liza kuqhubeka ukwenza iimpazamo kwakhona

Ubundlobongela bobuqabane bazama ukuzama ukuvalelwa kwintswelo kunye nokuhlola ezintsha iinkalo ezixhamlayo. Olu lunxibelelwano olunzulu, apho abathandana bazana khona. Ngendlela yokulingwa, baqonda ukuba yintoni umlingani othanda ngayo, kwaye yintoni engcono ukuba ungaphinda usebenze kwakhona. Ngoncedo lwe-orgasm yangempela, abafazi bayalela amadoda kwindlela emfutshane ekukholiseni. Kwaye ukuba oko kusebenza, iqabane liqhubeka lihlola ubugcisa bentlobano yesondo kunye nokukwazi ukuchukumisa le ndawo okanye indawo engafanelekanga. Ukuba ucinga ukuba oku kude kakhulu kwaye kunzima, xelela indoda yakho ukuba yenze njani. Thatha ixesha lakho kwaye makenze lohambo kunye nawe. Kwaye neyure yohlwaywa okuhle okungazange iholele kwi-orgasm, iya kuba luncedo.

Akulungele

Ngamava, iqabane lakho linokuqiqa malunga nokukhohlisa, kwaye oku kuya kubangela ubukratshi bakhe. Nawaphi na amanga, nangona kwakungekho ngamabomu, uyangcolisa ithemba. Nangona ukusukela ekufezekiseni iinjongo ezilungileyo ekuqaleni, uzama ukukholisa indoda enokukwazi ukwanelisa umfazi, khumbula ukuba ubudlelwane bezesondo abuyakhelwe ngamanga obukhulu. Mhlawumbi, iqabane liza kukuxabisa imizamo yakho, kodwa ufuna ngaphezulu. Iqabane elifanelekileyo lifuna ukunika umfazi wakhe into eyonwabileyo, ukufezekisa injongo yakhe, uziva evulekile.

Ukuphindaphinda amanga kwenza ubulili nsuku zonke

Xa umfazi efumana ukwaneliseka, uziva kakuhle. Ufuna ukulala ngesibini kwakhona. Ukungabikho kwe-orgasm, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nomlingane buya kufana. Ngamanye amaxesha kuphazamiseka, ngamanye amaxesha kuphazamisa umnqweno wokulala ngesondo. Ngokwe-sexistrapist uJan Kerner, ukwaneliseka kwabasetyhini kuzisa ukuphumla okupheleleyo, umbulelo kumlingane, ukuqiniswa koxhumano lwangokomzwelo kunye nomzimba. Ukuzenza ngathi, uzilahla kwezi zihlandlo ezimangalisayo.

Izinto zokuzonwabisa

Nantsi into eyenziwa ngabadlali bezesondo kunye nomlobi wencwadi ethi "Izikhundla zezesondo zeClassic" uMushumi Ghoz uthi: "Xa umfazi elingisa i-orgasm, uthumela umyalezo kumlingane wakhe ukuba akubalulekanga kuye. Ucinga ukuba lo mthwalo uphelele kwaye akafuni ukuphazamisa indoda kwakhona. Kodwa ke lona wesifazane ongenelisekanga akagcini nje ukuwushiya uvuyo, kodwa naye uthatha umlingane wakhe ithuba lokufunda umzimba wakhe. Akanayo ithuba lokumkholisa, kuba akanako ukumazi kakuhle. Ukuba oku kuphindaphindiweyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukutshatyalaliswa komzwelo kunye nomsindo kulahleka phakathi kwabalingani. "