Xa abantwana beqala eziwela

Kudinga isuntswana ixesha kokuzalwa kosana lwakho, yaye sele ngokupheleleyo iqala ndayihlela yonke indawo. Mhlawumbi enye iziganeko yokuqala ebalulekileyo kubomi kwiimvuthuluka - sishiya emva isisu kunye umva. Oku kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kakhulu pipsqueak yakho olule izandla zakhe kancinane kwaye uthabathe inyathelo lokuqala kulo ihlabathi omkhulu.

Xa abantwana beqala ukuba, abazali zingqondweni neqhayiya ngempumelelo yabantwana babo oyintanda, ngabomvu inkqubela elandelayo. Nangona zonke izicelo leengcali ukuba iphazamise umntwana wakho ukuba ziqulunqe oomama babo, abantwana badla zama ukunceda ukukhawulezisa inkqubo, efun 'ukuba usana lwabo "bahlala" kwinqanaba lokuqala.

Nangona kunjalo, akukho impendulo engagungqiyo lo mbuzo: "? Yimalini umntwana flips" Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuthatha ingqalelo iimpawu komzimba womntwana, ezifana ubunzima baso nesimilo. Abanye abantwana kakhulu wonqena nexhala, kwaye baqalisa ukukhulisa izakhono kamva kunokuba abanye abantwana. Bathi cwaka ebukele uyise nonina elele ngasemva embhedeni wayo. Kodwa sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ezi mpawu ningabaleli iimvuthuluka kwixesha elizayo lokuzikhumbuza kunye kunye ngaphambi kuphuhliso oontanga babo. Ngoko ke musa sukela izinto uze ukhathazeke kwangaphambili, ingakumbi xa umntwana iinyanga 4. Akabuya kude phambi nantoni na engaqhelekanga. Musa ukulibala ukuba iintsana uqulukubhode ezinjalo - umsebenzi omangalisayo iphunyelelwe ukuzingisa enkulu banxanelwe ulwazi ngezinto ezintsha.

Kakade ke, kukho iintsana kunye ezifana iimbandezelo, njengoko, umzekelo, ukwanda ilizwi. Kulo mzekelo, ukuba ngaba akukho saziso ixesha yaye akazange athathe inyathelo, abantwana ngokwenene barhuqe emva kuphuhliso. Massage iza kubonelela nefuthe kakhulu komgaqo kwi kwezihlunu kunye nefuthe kuyingenelo luvo kwiimvuthuluka zakho.

Xa abantwana beqala ukuba kuqengqeleka ukusuka emva isisu, loo nto ayithethi kuthi ke ngoko bafunda ngokukhawuleza ukuphinda intshukumo kwicala elahlukileyo. Ngokwanele ukuba ukudlala kwesi sikhundla esitsha yaye akazange afune ukubuyela kwisikhundla iqala. Ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha inyanga okanye ezimbini phambi kokuba umntwana efunda kunyaka ukusuka nesisu umva. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimeko ezinjalo unina unyuka inzuzo umntwana, umzekelo, abeke into yokudlala ecaleni kwakhe, yaye musa abanikele esandleni - kid yena nako ukufika.

Ngendlela, xa abantwana baqala roll, uphuhliso ngakumbi ukuzuza ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba abazali abaninzi ngumonde ukuba ayifiki sisilele ezintsha ukubhiyozela imvuthuluka bakhe. Kuthatha ixesha elincinane kakhulu, kwaye usana sele isekelwe iingalo ngoxa icinezele intloko yakhe, ngapha nangapha izibambo unina wakhe, uzama ukuhlala phezulu, ongcamla zonke izinto ezintsha.

Kwakhona siya kukhawuleza ukukhumbuza ukuba xa abafundi beqala ukuba bajike, ixesha abazali ukuba bacinge malunga nokhuseleko lwabo. Umntwana awukwazi Wasala yedwa ebhedini ngaphandle ezigudle. Uyakwazi ukwakha ukusuka nomluko okanye isongiwe ngengubo incwadi esongwayo, yaye bayithande ezikhethekileyo eziphathwayo neetafile yokutshintsha kunye neengcingo emacaleni.

Umntwana iphuhlisa kakhulu ngokukhawuleza ngakumbi xa singqongwe ngabantu onothando wamnika yonke ubushushu bakhe kunye nenkxalabo isidalwa ezincinane.