Uthando at wonke

Zokuzingca, kodwa eneneni oku kunjalo.

Ezi njengokungathi ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka abatshatileyo, okanye izibini abangengabo kakhulu, kodwa, hayi ixesha elaneleyo bahlala kunye. Yinto nje "sikhetha -. Ukhethe thina" Ngokwesiseko wonke nakho uthando. Ngubani - nesithandwa uyakuthanda kakhulu, omnye kancinane. Ayifane, abantu xa bafundelane ngezibini, sithandane ngokulinganayo. Kwezinye iimeko, kuxhomekeke iimeko neziganeko, lweValentina sikhundla iya kutshintsha. Uthando ingqiqo ngokwesiqhelo ngenxa yokoyika, umzekelo. Nganye yamava zayo abanamava kunye, yaye ngamnye unezakhe. Kunye nothando - wonke umntu ezabo.

Kwaye yintoni na uthando? Wonke azibuza lo mbuzo. Lo umbuzo-buciko, yaye nabani na ukuphendula ngayo yena. Kweli nqanaba Ndingathanda ukuba ukukhumbula indinyana ebalini Aleksandra Kuprina "garnet isongo":

"Ngaba yena ityala uthando kwaye kube lula ukulawula iimvakalelo ezifana nothando - imvakalelo yokuba nangoku ifumene nokutyhilwa kwalo. "

Nganye ngokwayo yaye ngamnye. Wonke umntu isimo sabo kubantu kuyo. Umntu ibhekisela namkhethe kwakhe. Umntu ubeka phezu lawaya. Umntu yena waphefumlela kunye izithixo. Kodwa ke ukuba umntu ukuba uthando ilizwi ngokubanzi amanye amagama: uvelwano, uthando kunye nothando. Kwaye abanye nje musani ukukholwa kuyo. Naziphi na abantu bamshiya nesowaliweyo udanile waza wathi: "Mna Asisakholwa eluthandweni! Andisoze ukuyithanda! "Kodwa akukho njengoko ixesha lihamba, ndiyipholise imivumbo, kwaye kuphela inkumbulo kuhlala.

Musa ukuthetha amazwi ezinkulu ulindele into luthando. Akuyomfuneko ukuba ikhale ekunene nasekholo, ukuba uyamthanda. Ukuba uthando apho, kukho, kunokuthi kubonwe yaye aqondwe ngaphandle amagama. kubume bayo ayikho le romance, bephuzana yaye ngesondo. Zonke iimeko isimo sengqondo kunye nokuziqonda ecaleni kwe "kwisiqingatha sesibini".

Kwaye ukuba ngequbuliso unayo amathandabuzo iimvakalelo neqabane lakhe, musa ahlale ewugcinile na wena, ukuba shelve, kufuneka uthethe ngezinto va balahle nayiphi na amathandabuzo, ukuba baphile nasenkohlisweni. Kwaye ukuba "uthando" bathi, kuba uthando nobubele de umoya lokugqibela, ngokuba kuphela uthando unelungelo kwigama le ndoda!

Kwaye ndingathanda ukuba isibini wakho "nothando" kwaye "sivumele".