Umnqweno wesondo: isitho okanye enye into?

Kungekudala intwasahlobo iya kufika ekupheleni kwenyakatho, amaqabunga aya kuvula, kwaye abantu baya kufuna uthando. Kwaye, akukhona nje ngokuthanda ngokwenyama, kodwa nangomdla, ngokuziphatha kunye nobudlelwane bokwenene. Kwaye ukuba kukho into enothando engabonakaliyo, kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze ngokubhekiselele kwisondo lomntu ngokucophelela, ukuze kuthi, njengoko oogqirha bathi, "musa ukulimaza".

Ngoko ke, okokuqala, yintoni ekhangiweyo ngokwesondo kwaye kutheni ukuba indalo ibonge izidalwa eziphilayo kubo? Ingummangaliso okhuthaza umntu ukuba ashiye emva kobudala. Kodwa, ngokungafani nezilwanyana, apho kukho ukukhwabanisa ngokwesondo, ngokuba indoda ayikho nje inzululwazi yokuzala. Ngoko ke, asiyi kukubetha i-physiology, kodwa qwalasela lo mbandela kwiinkalo. Ehlabathini lomntu, kubandakanywa inxalenye ebalulekileyo, kufuneka uhlawule ngokucokisekileyo.
Uthando, ukuqonda, isondo, ukukhwabanisa ngokwesondo, ukutshatyalaliswa kokomoya - abanako "ukuchithwa" kwaye benze into enye. Ukuba umntu akabi, ukuhlaziya ezinye iimpawu zakhe zokuziphatha nezomoya, indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kunye nokunxibelelana, uze uhlanganyele ngesondo naye kuphela ngenxa yokuba akukho namnye othanda uthando, engalunganga. Kwaye kunqabile ukuba kwenzeke njalo. Ukuqhagamshelana okunjalo kuye kwabonwa luluntu ngokugwetywa. Khumbula, njengoko imbongi yathi: "Kungcono kunomntu kunokuba ubani"?

Ukukhangela ngesondo kuvela xa kukho intambo edibanisa indoda kunye nomfazi. Imibuzo eqhelekileyo: indlela yokuphembelela intombazana okanye umfana ukuba ayifumane? Indlela yokuzalisa ubomi besondo kunye nemibala?
Okokuqala, ngaphandle kokutsalana ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, umntu kufuneka akwazi ukuwadukisa. Mhle, eqinisweni, akuyiyo inhlamba.

Kukho ezininzi iindlela zokupheka ezingenakubungozi kwaye zivavanywa ngexesha. Akukho imfuneko ukubonisana nodokotela malunga nokusetyenziswa kwabo, ngaphandle kokuba iqabane liqiniseke ukuba uyazi indlela yokomeleza umnqweno wesini, ucacisa ukutya ezithile "iziyobisi". Lapha kufuneka uqaphele kwaye ungavumeli ukuba ungabonakali, umzekelo, njengamaNdiya enye yezizwe ezadla izimpande ezixubekayo kunye nama-mushroom, ukuze ungene kwimigangatho yamasiko. Akusilo lethu, kunjalo?

Kwiindlela zokupheka ezingenakubungozi, eyona nto imnandi kukusetyenziswa kweoli ecocekileyo. Umzekelo, ioli efunekayo ye-ginseng, i-citrus, iinduli. Unokubamba amaconsi ambalwa kwiglasi yamanzi okanye indebe, ngokukhethekileyo kumanzi afudumele, ukuba iphunga eliqhumayo laqalisa ukusasaza ngokukhawuleza kwigumbi okanye kufaka kwindawo efudumeleyo.
Ngokuphathelele imimoya eneepheromones kwiphephandaba, kukho iingxoxo eziqhwithelayo. Omnye ucinga ukuba le ngcamango yabathengisi, ukwenzela ukutsala ingqalelo yoluntu ngemimoya ekhethekileyo enokuthi inokunceda kwiimeko xa kukho ukwehla kwesifiso sesini. Abanye bathi le ndlela isebenza "ngokwenene". Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, injongo yabadali bemimoya neepheromones yile: abafazi bayakhangwa ngumzimba wesilisa, kunye neyindoda yesibini. Le iphunga alinakwenzeka ukubamba ngokuqaphela, ukufunda kumawaka abanye, kodwa ke, kwaye kukuvumba komzimba wesifazane ovusa indoda. Ngoko ke, kwiimimoya zongezwa i-pheromones - iindidi ezichaphazela umqondo wethu wokunuka. Ngesinye isikhathi, izinto ezinjalo zaziqwalaselwa njengenguqulelo kunye nezobugcisa. Ngoku inzala kubo iyancedisa, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, imimoya eneepheromones iyaqhubeka ingqalelo kwiimfuyo.

Ukongeza kwimpembelelo yangaphandle, kukho ukutya, okuqinisekileyo, okwenza kwi-sphere yesondo. Ngokomzekelo, isiphumo esihle esiphucula sinika ikhofi kunye nesiphumo se-cinnamon. Mhlawumbi kutheni abathandi bathanda ikhofi ukulala? Kwaye i-tshokolethi, inyama ephilileyo, iingcambu ezixutywayo kunye nesonka se-rye, amaqanda kunye nokutya okutyana. Unokomeleza isondo, kwaye uyayidinga. Into eyona nto kukuzivakalelwa kukuba "ngumntu wakho" kwaye unokuzinikela kuye ngaphandle komkhondo.