Ukwesaba Pot

Eli nqaku alibonakali licebisa ngeendlela ukujongana kubo, ngenxa yokuba umntwana ngamnye ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ityhila kuphela ezinye izinto ezibangela kunokwenzeka.

Le eliqhelekileyo uloyiko ebuntwaneni, ezinxulumene ne behamba kwindlu yangasese kwi elikhulu, umntwana ezinokubangelwa yezizathu eziliqela. Iiplastiki zombini engqondweni nasemzimbeni:

- ngaxa lithile, usana ubunzima urhudo, kunye abadala mnye, bengaboni, Wavuya kakhulu, yaye kukududuzela emehlweni akhe baqalisa ndincwine kwaye isijwili ngalo esi siganeko. Umntwana, akuba abethelela efile, kwixesha elizayo ufuna ukuya poop, woyika nje ukufumana isiphumo esifanayo, kunye nempendulo engaguqukiyo, ecinga urhudo into engalunganga kunye eyoyikisayo. Ukuze uphephe oku, kufuneka ukuphepha imeko enjalo ekuqaleni nokuphendula ngokufanelekileyo endleni nayiphi womntwana. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kufuneka sisebenze nzima ukuze yokuyekisa itakane ngasemva, nkqu umzekelo.

- umntwana weva ukusuka umntu omdala ngamehl awukwazi ukuhlala phezu kwembiza (kukhutshelwa ngaphandle amathumbu, lempundu intonga, anuke, njalo njalo), ngoko kusenokwenzeka uqale ukoyika ukuba ahlale phantsi, kwanokuba imizuzu embalwa kuwo, kuba kusenzima ukukhangela kwexesha, elithetha "elapho" ayikho kwacaca kuye. Umntwana Andizoyiki imbiza ngokwayo, iya waqonda yi usana usongo ezinye iindlela ezaziza ukumlimaza. Kunokuba ukoyikiswa kuhle ukukhulisa umntwana imbiza emva kokuba waya, ethembisa into ebangel '(a umdlalo, ikhathuni, ilekese). Banqwenela ukuba ahlale phezu kwembiza akayi kuhamba, kodwa boyika ukuba akayi kuvuka.

- ezinxulumene intlungu ngokwasemzimbeni eye yavela ngethuba lale yokulahla, ukoyika nangokwasengqondweni ukuphindaphindwa loo ntlungu. Umntwana woyikela ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha uya ndiva intlungu ezama ukunqanda oko, ufuna ukulahla ngokupheleleyo embizeni yaye akafuni azikhulula. Umntwana kuvela iintanda kwi empundwini. Uyakwazi kubaphatha ekhaya - izithambiso, namafutha aqholiweyo. Kodwa xa iintlungu kubhetele ukujongana ukuya proctologist. Ukuba umntwana wakho zonke wamphilisa, kodwa uloyiko intlungu bahlala apha uncedo okanye elide iincoko nengcaciso, ithowuni ethambileyo kunye nokuthantamisa, okanye ngengqondo umntwana.

- maxa wambi kukho uloyiko ngenxa enkulisa, apho utitshala okanye unesi ukuxelela abantwana babo ukuba baye egadini ukuya esikhulu, yaye ngokwenza oko ekhaya. Ukuba umntwana iseyeyona tyala waziqongqotha emyezweni, yena amngxolise baza kohlwaywa "ukungathobeli" ngabasebenzi abanganyanisekanga, Lenya okanye akufuni ukucoca emva abafundi babo. ukoyika ngcembe wanyuselwa endlwini, aqhutyelwe kukoyika ukuba babethwe kunye nabazali bakhe. Elinye icala le ngqekembe - umntwana kuhlaselwa sesi sifo, ukuqhina ngenxa uyanyanzeliswa ukugcinwa ilindle emzimbeni.

Enoba oko, kufuneka siphathwe ngenyameko kakhulu lo mba ezibuthathaka, ngenxa yokuba iimpazamo ezenziwa ekuqaleni nzima kakhulu lungisa, kwaye kwixesha elizayo ikhule ibe iingxaki ezinkulu kunye izakhiwo, ukuzithemba, umlinganiswa umntwana.